| Nov 29, 2007 @ 11:15 AM |
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GOINGMYWAY765
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I need some help here particularly from the ladies. Which would you rather receive as an introduction from a man...A wink or a message?
Let us guys in on the secret to starting a conversation with you. Most of us are not dogs, although there are a few out there. Believe it or not we are not all looking for the perfect model. We just want to talk and find a connection like you do. Someone that we can get along with day after day. You know...Like the happily ever after stuff in the story books.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 11:20 AM |
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DiamondRain
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If I can add my 2c ...
I don't remember if it was this site or another one, but at one time there was a lot of complaints about winks and I think they were deemphasized. Actually, I have heard that a a number of sites.
Some women don't like them because they figure that if I guy is interested he should be the one to initiate a conversation and not just a wink.
Sending a wink puts the ball in her court to respond ... some women are not comfortable with that.
However, personally I think winks are a really good thing. It gives you an unobtrusive way to show an interest and doesn't make you feel guilty if you aren't interested and don't respond.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 11:24 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Message....I think just a wink and no message makes you seem lazy. JMO.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 11:28 AM |
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GOINGMYWAY765
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Does a message make you look too aggresive? Even if it just says "Hi" and why you decided to write to them.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 11:48 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Just make it clear that you read her profile when you write the message...the actual meat of the profile, I mean. The "About Me", "My Idea of A Great Date", and "Ideal Match" sections. Don't just say "hi". A lot of women don't like that.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 12:05 PM |
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drs297
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a good ol grabbing the knockers normally gets a conversation going.. But be fore warned, its probably not going to be a good conversation you could involve you receiving pain
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 12:41 PM |
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GOINGMYWAY765
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Thanks for the advice Lipgloss 
Drs...You need help 
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 12:45 PM |
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dooney123
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Message- Lipgloss is right! 
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 12:55 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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Comment on their pictures only........profiles are a big crock of shit and lies and you dont want to appear gullible.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 12:58 PM |
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dazee
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 Lj
I think a wink is just as good as a hello..... 
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:00 PM |
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daisy315
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message.. I don't like winks at all.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:08 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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Hi Dazee!!
I love it when dazee winks at me.
(a note about winks.....if you delete the winks and who you have winked at.....they can wink at you again!!!)
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:09 PM |
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dazee
Posts: 2,873
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oh goody goody....delete me Lj....DELETE ME!!.... 
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:18 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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Dammit, I deleted ya and it still wont work.....I guess it takes a little time.
Keep trying!!!
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:20 PM |
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dazee
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ok ok ok......it should work now.!!!....
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:24 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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You have already winked at dazee.
Bastards!!!
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:26 PM |
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dazee
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awwwwwwwwww try again baby...!!..... 
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:29 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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You have already winked at dazee.
I fell for it again!!!!
You are like the beautiful mermaid who causes me to wreck upon the rocks.
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:31 PM |
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dazee
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Well did you get mine?....
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| Nov 29, 2007 @ 1:36 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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No, I am winkless.
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