| Jan 7 @ 11:05 PM |
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abrocket
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The women from China that is. Men know what I'm talking about. Your inbox is full of beautiful women from far away places.
They're young, attractive, and apparently have no problem marrying someone 10-15 years older.
It's just that I have gotten so frustrated with the attitude of the American women I've met, I'm about to give up. I'm not good looking enough, or I'm not rich enough or I'm too old or my house isn't nice enough, whatever.
I've worked hard to get where I am in my life, and I sincerely desire to find a wife/partner with intelligence, sense of humor and sexual attraction. That means it's amazingly difficult to find someone anywhere near my age that I'm attracted to mentally, physically and spiritually.
I know you've all heard this rant before in various forms, but thats the way I feel about it. I'm young at heart, have a lot to offer, and feel that it is finally time for me to find what I'm looking for.
what the heck .. If I'm going to the Olympics, maybe I'll just bring someone home with me when I leave.
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| Jan 7 @ 11:33 PM |
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capitalview
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I guess mail-order bride is the way for you to go,pal.... 
American women hardly have any incentive to date someone they are not sexually attracted to .You being attracted to them is not enough reason , you know...attraction is two-way street . If you are serious about finding a partner , make sure YOU can possibly be attractive enough for her in the first place,otherwise you are dooming yourself to frustration.
Third world females , on the other hand , don't care about dating . They know exactly what they are going for and they are willing to sacrifice a couple of years servicing sexual/housekeeping needs of some dude their dad's age until they get their US citizenship and get out of this "marriage" to find some real BF their own age. Happens all the time, pal. I can introduce you to some "ex-husbands" of those "lovely chinese chicks" (though, you don't want to know their "horror stories" ) 
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| Jan 8 @ 2:43 AM |
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abrocket
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Ya, i know what your're talking about. Physically.. I am what I am, nothing you can do about that. Some women find me attractive, but it seems never the ones I'm attracted to.
.. but no matter what happens ... I still get to retire in Europe with a couple million in the bank. I'd just like to do it with someone I've known for a while.
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| Jan 8 @ 2:45 AM |
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KAOS2007
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Yes, answer them back. Then you TOO can be a doormat, a green card giver, and have a wife that is like a dog - doesn't speak and does whatever you say. [i.e.] see subserviant   GO FOR IT!
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| Jan 8 @ 2:55 AM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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HMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm^^^^^^
That might not be too damn bad  Can she make Peanut Butter Apple Crisp? 
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| Jan 8 @ 2:56 AM |
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KAOS2007
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WOOF!
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| Jan 8 @ 3:01 AM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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is that a yes or a no?
hush Sadian.....fight the words....HUSH!!!!!!!
thanks for a laugh baby
[Edited on 1/8/2008 3:02 AM]
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| Jan 8 @ 3:01 AM |
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1RockinDude
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I love Chow Mein Noodles..mmmmmm General Tslo chicken, moo goo gai pan..My Chinese is rusty..grrr
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| Jan 8 @ 6:25 AM |
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KAOS2007
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Sayanara 
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| Jan 8 @ 6:28 AM |
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theobono
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" Jack speak thai...oooh yeah ...jack speak thai very well" From Meet the parents 
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| Jan 8 @ 8:40 AM |
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bevrice
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I guess mail-order bride is the way for you to go,pal....
American women hardly have any incentive to date someone they are not sexually attracted to .You being attracted to them is not enough reason , you know...attraction is two-way street . If you are serious about finding a partner , make sure YOU can possibly be attractive enough for her in the first place,otherwise you are dooming yourself to frustration.
Third world females , on the other hand , don't care about dating . They know exactly what they are going for and they are willing to sacrifice a couple of years servicing sexual/housekeeping needs of some dude their dad's age until they get their US citizenship and get out of this "marriage" to find some real BF their own age. Happens all the time, pal. I can introduce you to some "ex-husbands" of those "lovely chinese chicks" (though, you don't want to know their "horror stories" )
Great post capital, you are very wise. I have talked to a WHOLE LOT of those ex husbands, and they were not just Chinese women that took them, but Russian ones and Phillipino ones, as well.
Not ONLY do they get a green card or citizenship, but they usually walk away with half of what the man has. Sometimes they have children so they can get child support. It is kind of sad when a fifty or sixty year old man will be paying child support until he is seventy or eighty.
Abrocket, maybe you have the wrong standards, you should probably look for someone your own age and look at the inside and not the outside. Most women aren't looking for money but for someone to love and someone to love them.
Lol, marry one of those from another country and you might find out what expensive and poor is.
Like my mom always said, "There's no fool like an old fool." All women know that one.
Of course, you could go for a much younger American woman whose agenda might be much the same thing, or one who wants a daddy, of course they are going to say they want someone mature and stable.
You should change your mindset.
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| Jan 8 @ 1:48 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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That means it's amazingly difficult to find someone anywhere near my age that I'm attracted to mentally, physically and spiritually.
You are 50 yrs old..........so that means there are NO smart, attractive and or spiritual women in their late 40's or 50's in here?? I beg to differ with you...
geeeesshhh!  Talk about insulting.... 
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| Jan 8 @ 2:22 PM |
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kattsmeow
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but no matter what happens ... I still get to retire in Europe with a couple million in the bank. I'd just like to do it with someone I've known for a while.
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| Jan 8 @ 2:23 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Hey 1st, don't worry about it. It makes it pretty clear why none of the women he's attracted to might not be attracted to him...and also why the ones he's not attracted to should probably breathe a sigh of relief as they keep looking for someone who'd capable of appreciating them.
And I'll gladly take a guy who understands loyalty, kindness and stuff like that over a millionaire any day...God bless the chile that's got her own...
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| Jan 8 @ 2:31 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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I'm not good looking enough, or I'm not rich enough or I'm too old or my house isn't nice enough, whatever. Maybe you could try with a different approach ...... more positive
It's difficult to find the right person and it's difficult to keep him/her for entire life at whole ......in any parts of the world....
i dont know you and I'm not judging you......just a short consideration
Anyway good luck
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| Jan 8 @ 3:16 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Yep Heaven! I suppose the cute Barbie doll type is better for him to retire in Europe with and then she will run away with his money and a younger man..
Not that I wish that on him at all.....Really...I don't
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| Jan 8 @ 3:20 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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Watch out to European !!!!
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| Jan 8 @ 3:55 PM |
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DiamondRain
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I have heard this a lot over the years. There are a lot of men who are interested in meeting non-American women for exactly the reasons you mentioned. That's why there is a huge thriving industry in matching American (and men form other western cultures such as in Europe too) with women from other parts of the world... most often Asian or South American women.
However... I WOULD NOT recommend going about meeting a foreign woman in the way you are considering.
Most of the e-mails you get from foreign women here (or anywhere else) from China or Russia or elsewhere are scams. I would NOT waste any time with those.
There are legitimate matchmaking services that introduce western men to women from other countries. There are actually quite a few of them, but even there, you need to be careful because there are lots of scammers operating those too. Do your homework, they are not hard to find online.
And here is a tip... if you are looking to get away from the cultural norms of American women, there are some countries in particular that have cultures where the women in general have completely different attitudes about marriage and about gender roles of men and women. But STUDY THE CULTURE before approaching them. If you are serious about a relationship and not just looking to get laid, it's critically important to understand their culture before you look for a relationship.
Having said that, I recommend checking out Filipina women (Phillipines). There are SO MANY who are absolutely beautiful, sweet, caring and would make unbelievably good wives. While their culture is very different from ours, years of US presence there has had an influence on their culture to the extent that it might make it easier to have a relationship. And Filipina women are a perfect match for American men in many ways. I read a fascinating article about that once. They are very anxious to meet American men.
Famous radio personality Art Bell was married to a Filipina woman who unfortunately passed away a few years ago. They were deeply in love and married for many years. He is now married to another Filipina and they just had a baby. It is a fantastic relationship and includes many of the things you say you want. Bell is in his 60s ... his bride is in her 20s. They are very happy together.
Make sure any agency you deal with is not just about finding foreign prostitutes, but is the real deal about meeting someone for marriage. It can be a fabulous thing for both parties!
Good luck!
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| Jan 8 @ 4:04 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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And here is a tip... if you are looking to get away from the cultural norms of American women, there are some countries in particular that have cultures where the women in general have completely different attitudes about marriage and about gender roles of men and women. But STUDY THE CULTURE before approaching them. If you are serious about a relationship and not just looking to get laid, it's critically important to understand their culture before you look for a relationship. 
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| Jan 8 @ 4:48 PM |
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painter007
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My cousin met a woman from Russia.......they got married and are very happy....then again he wants a woman to just serve him.....dinner and herself on a platter........no talking skills needed.......
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