| Jan 20 @ 6:09 PM |
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Bojangles102
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I hear it all the time that women want it 'ALL'.
Please ladies, inform us meager men in detail of what 'ALL' is so that we may be able to satisfy what you want from us..
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| Jan 20 @ 6:11 PM |
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Loreli
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Sorry, BoJ-
But a man looking toward a future with a lady should "want it all" too. 
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| Jan 20 @ 6:23 PM |
Women Who Want It "ALL".
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Bojangles102
Posts: 466
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To have it all, I'd want the love and complete love and devotion from a physically beautiful woman who is 15 years my junior. She would be in perfect health and no more than a size 8.. One who makes $100,000 per year, cooks like a gourmet, is an impecable house keeper, who will give me my freedom to do what I want when I want. She would have perfect and autonomous children who only want to visit once a month.
Our relationship would be her priority...Not a church or distraction but only our relationship.
I know that would be impossible to have so I don't begin to look for all of that.
So, I ask the ladies what is this 'ALL' that you expect from a man?
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| Jan 20 @ 6:33 PM |
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DiamondRain
Posts: 4,406
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I'd settle for a Yankees fan. 
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| Jan 20 @ 6:39 PM |
Women Who Want It "ALL".
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blueyes101
Posts: 7,925
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For the right one...........all =me 
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| Jan 20 @ 6:45 PM |
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signme
Posts: 8,843
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I'm not sure I've ever said I want it ALL. Not sure what that would be. I want a partner, a soulmate, a friend and a lover. If that's having it all, okay, I want it all.
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| Jan 20 @ 6:48 PM |
Women Who Want It "ALL".
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Bojangles102
Posts: 466
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It's been my experience that the women who have the least to offer are more willing to give of themselves.
I'd still like to hear from the ladies.
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| Jan 20 @ 6:49 PM |
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signme
Posts: 8,843
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm Lori and I aren't ladies???
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| Jan 20 @ 6:49 PM |
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signme
Posts: 8,843
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm Lori and I aren't ladies???
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| Jan 20 @ 7:04 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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A sense of humor. A man that cracks me up. But a sense of humor on other levels as well, since I can be quite the "firecracker" and he's gonna need it.
Doesn't live with his mother
Doesn't live above a Tavy or a laundry mat
Has hobbies and interests outside the relationship. (I SO do not agree with someone making the relationship the center of their universe.)
See's his body as a machine of pleasure, and takes care of it so that I can enjoy it too.
Can hold down a job and is preferably doing something that he enjoys.
A man who understands that "getting away" occaisonally is a nessessity.
Has patience when I do crazy stuff.
Understands that romance is not roses and candy. It's the small things and he knows how important they are.
Someone that I find attractive.
Someone who understands that love is like the ocean....sometimes the waves crash over you, and it is a wonderful and exciting time, and sometimes the tide goes out and you have to struggle through to keep the relationship going. But that if you both actively participate...there is always enough water to create the next wave.
A man who wants to take care of me and protect me...but understands that he doesn't need too. (unless I cry for help  )
And I would prefer someone who has a love for art and music as that is endless entertainment for us both.
Someone who understands my need for independance and lets me run free a bit. But is willing to provide a safety net in case I go to far.
Someone who understands my compulsion and NEED to write.
Yeah, I think that pretty much sums it up. 
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| Jan 20 @ 7:07 PM |
Women Who Want It "ALL".
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DiamondRain
Posts: 4,406
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I'd settle for a Yankees fan.
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| Jan 20 @ 7:09 PM |
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DJ1024
Posts: 145
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to me "ALL" means someone looking for a relationship, getting to know each other, someone to celebrate the good & offer a shoulder when it's bad. i'm not looking for your wallet, i've got my own. i don't need you to be my shadow & i'm not gonna be yours - a little space at times is a good thing. exclusive & committed as we get to know each other. basically, the whole package, not a FB or Fw/B, just a good man.
and it's not just the women who want it "ALL" i've heard/read that from the men too.
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| Jan 20 @ 7:10 PM |
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signme
Posts: 8,843
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Well dang DR I'm a SPURS fan, does that count??
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| Jan 20 @ 7:21 PM |
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DipityDoo
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I have never said "I want it all", nor have asked for it. (If you read my profile, you'll get the sense I'm pretty anti-cliche.)
However, what I have and intend to keep and is perfect for me is:
A man I love, and also respect.
He is intellignet and kind and patient and giving and caring, and that makes him oh so easy to love. But why I love him...we just 'fit'. He is he and I am am I and together, we go. I am always amazed at the happenstance that we met, and so very grateful.
We play together well and we 'work' together well...although I can't quite say it's 'work' when it comes to our relationship...but we do take care of it.
He knows me, all of me, and loves me unconditionally. He helps me through the rough times.
We are compatible in how we live day to day. I think that makes it easier. (I'm thinking of empath's thread about her and touch, with this).
He is very successful at what he does, because of his personality and his intelligence. I find that attractive and sexy. And yes, he makes a lot more money than I do. But, he's been working at a career a lot longer than I have.
He is dedicated to us. We live far apart, on different continents and can't be together full time for some years, until kids are older. Thankfully, he can be here for extended periods because of his work, and that is our time together (and the cause of us meeting in the first place).
He is attractive, very attractive.
He is loyal and loving.
Its not 'all', because of the distance, but it is wonderful and it is ours. For the rest of our lives. And I am thankful for it, every single day.
And like someone posted above, and I said in another thread, I don't ask for more than I can give.
[Edited on 1/20/2008 7:22 PM]
[Edited on 1/20/2008 7:24 PM]
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| Jan 20 @ 7:22 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Met fan here, but fanhood's not a priority to me (better not be, or it'd be a long, lonely life ahead). I'm not interested in 'all', I just want 'enough.' Enough love, enough time, enough laughter, enough togetherness and enough apartness. I don't even care if he's rooting for the 'other guys' as long as he doesn't take it any more seriously than I do, which isn't very...no matter what I say!
(I grew up a Brooklyn Dodger fan...wait'll next year was one of my first phrases!)
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| Jan 20 @ 7:26 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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It's been my experience that the women who have the least to offer are more willing to give of themselves.
Often times the LEAST can be exactly what the opposite sex is looking for...least has different meaning for different people. 
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| Jan 20 @ 8:02 PM |
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pamdemonium
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For me, all means he doesn't need me in his life. He wants me in his life. I work, so I'd expect he'd work. And not measure us by our paychecks, no matter which one is bigger. He doesn't mind cooking once in awhile...and yeah, he's a guy, so I'd like it if he knew how to do home repairs, and lift the heavy stuff. He'd know the importance of quality time. And know the difference between earning a living and making a life. He'd have a kind heart. And be generous, which doesn't always mean with his money. He'd believe in God. And he'd have time for me without me asking for it. And at the end of the night, he'd know which bed he belongs in. He'd have a sense of humor. He'd be able to entertain himself, when I need a day to paint, but now and again, will want for the two of us to spend time together. He'll laugh out loud when things are funny, and he'll sing when he loves a song. Sometimes really loud.
Oh yeah, he'll understand if I don't care about the Yankees.
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| Jan 20 @ 8:09 PM |
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robodad
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Please ladies, inform us meager men in detail of what 'ALL' is so that we may be able to satisfy what you want from us.. I got it from a source (who will remain anonymous  ) It's everything that you have (silly)
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| Jan 20 @ 9:21 PM |
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definitelydi
Posts: 12,602
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He loves me simply, even if I complicate things. He's dedicated to "Us." He values home life with me. He's enthusiastic about life and it's potential. He has a strong work ethic no matter what his line of work is. He's not bogged down in debt and pays his bills on time. He's kind, loving, intelligent, thoughtful, funny, witty, open, loyal, honest, caring and big hearted. He has healthy relationships with his family and friends. He's passionate about nature and music. He's incredibly patient. He helps out around the house without being asked. He grows, learns and evolves as a person and in the context of our relationship.
That's a tall order, huh?! I guess if it describes who you are as a man it wouldn't be intimidating.
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| Jan 20 @ 9:48 PM |
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grumblebear
Posts: 10,121
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so many people have these long lists of "Qualities in a prospective Mate", and yet they have none of these qualities.... or they are the polar opposite of what they claim to be seeking...
The things we dislike the most in other people are qualities in ourselves we dislike...
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