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beanie68

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What does Valentine's Day mean to you ... Guys AND Gals ... Good, Bad and/or Ugly ... I wanna hear it ...
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| Feb 7 @ 8:14 PM |
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BeachCrete

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To me, it means showing appreciation for the ones you love...wheather it be flowers, candy, cards, a phone call, or just a few kind words spoken to them...It's about LOVE............
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| Feb 7 @ 8:25 PM |
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beanie68

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The ones we love romantically or would that include all the ones we love in differents ways ... like parents/friends? Trust me I already have my own opinions on V-Day ...
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| Feb 7 @ 8:26 PM |
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emptypages

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I don't think there should be a designated day to show someone that you love them. Most guys today will buy their women flowers or a cards simply because it's "expected" of them. They should show their love because they want to, not because they think it's an obligation.
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| Feb 7 @ 8:29 PM |
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painter007

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Thats what keeps the romance in a relationship....jmo. I like slipping especially sexy notes with much love in his pocket.
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| Feb 7 @ 8:33 PM |
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beanie68

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Yes, I think men feel obligated and pressured on V-Day ... and that is what makes it "not so special" for lack of better words ... I think it should be year round ... and spontanious sweet nothings ...
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| Feb 7 @ 8:34 PM |
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beanie68

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Yes, painter, it is those sweet lil nothings (sexy nothings) that speak volumes ...
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| Feb 7 @ 8:36 PM |
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BeachCrete

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It's all in how you interpret Valentines' Day....Some people show their expression of love to family,friends and their SO....and then there are those who only believe it's for your sweety....it's all in how you look at it...I don't think there is a set rule
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| Feb 7 @ 8:36 PM |
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ToucherinSparks

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I agree that men are "expected to produce gifts" on Valentine's day. But if you really love someone, isn't giving little gifts something you'd do anyway?
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| Feb 7 @ 8:37 PM |
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kattsmeow

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Yes it is Touch! Little notes stuck some where. Doing something special for your loved one. Hey, I have a peach cobbler in the oven for my husband for later..
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| Feb 7 @ 8:39 PM |
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painter007

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my sons have always thought of me on Valentines Day.since for the last 14 years I have not had anyone in my life.........they have gotten me flowers, or written me notes, made me dinner, and other times gotten me chocolate......
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| Feb 7 @ 8:40 PM |
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kattsmeow

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Aren't sons wonderful? I still have many of the Valentines they made me in school too.
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| Feb 7 @ 8:43 PM |
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painter007

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Yes they are.......They always tried to make sure my heart felt loved...and I have dried all the flowers they gave me over the years......
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| Feb 7 @ 8:45 PM |
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kattsmeow

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Makes me teary eyed!
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| Feb 7 @ 8:52 PM |
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BeachCrete

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me three....shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 
These won't be dried out
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| Feb 7 @ 8:56 PM |
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BeachCrete

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OFF TOPIC......this site works
OK..back to CUPID
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| Feb 7 @ 9:21 PM |
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beanie68

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Awwwwwwww I have a 21 year old in college and he doesn't do anything for me ... reason being we have always felt that V-Day is a "sweetheart" holiday and we used to get upset cause my ex hubby's mom thought that day was for HER ONLY ... Bad memories BUT lessons learned ... Sometimes, though, I wish my son would send me wishes that day ... he has a sour taste about V-Day and moms cause of that ... so sad ... and hell yeah son's ROCK!!!
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| Feb 8 @ 12:35 AM |
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painter007

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Tell your son how it would fill your heart ...Let him know......He can start a new tradition.
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| Feb 8 @ 12:44 AM |
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beanie68

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Awwwwww ... I think I will!
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| Feb 8 @ 1:17 AM |
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JesterDrawers

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Sometimes Valentines Day can be sooooo misunderstood! ;-)
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