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Feb 8, 2008 @ 3:49 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
sweetguy54321


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Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (East Indian) living in the US...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one American girl....she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me. That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most American girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behavior? cleanliness? manners? height? color? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.
Thanks.
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Feb 8, 2008 @ 4:06 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
robodad


Posts: 9,248
Probably because they keep repeating themselves
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Feb 8, 2008 @ 4:38 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
EvolvednReal


Posts: 41
Just a thought but why are you looking at them? Men in general don't go around openly looking at women for no reason. It might seem odd or rude to them. That's my guess anyway. As for the woman you were partnered with in the fitness class who didn't smile at you, well, did you expect her to? I would just be businesslike and formal in the same situation with a complete stranger. Being too friendly with a man just gives him the wrong idea and makes you look desperate. Without knowing more about the situations, my best guess is different cultural expectations about interactions between women & men.
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Feb 8, 2008 @ 5:32 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
Loreli


Posts: 31,996
This is close to troll...but I'll answer

Maybe the "girls" you hook up with are merely protecting their own security. From anyone. Not just Indian.
Maybe they DON'T like you...someone will someday. Get over it!
How is YOUR behavior....take a good look in the mirror. There's plenty of them at the gym!

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Feb 8, 2008 @ 5:41 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
LipGlossQueen9


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Everyone has preferences. Some people have racial preferences; it is a fact of life....a sad one, but a fact nonetheless. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, it just mean that not everyone will be attracted to you. I had to learn this because of my weight.
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 2:24 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
sweet5red


Posts: 13,107
there are many indian drs at my hospital and i would date them.. but many are residents and very young.. but the ones that are staff dr';s are for the most part married.. Sweet N Louisiana
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 2:26 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
Angel178


Posts: 32,068
Many cute ones in the stores in my neighborhood...I'm nice....
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 4:08 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
malexand


Posts: 36
Maybe it's because you are different. More so than the average white boy at least. I don't mean that in a discriminatory way, but it has been going on in this country for a very long time. The more you learn how to be an American, then the more you will be treated and respected as one.
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 4:17 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
Heaveninawildflower


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We have a number of (East) Indians at work, most of whom are much too young for me. I'd have absolutely no problem dating someone in my age range if there were any kind of chemistry, but failing that, I've become good friends with one guy there. Among the younger generation, I know of at least one pairing where a 'white' girl was dating an Indian boy, but when it got serious, his parents said absolutely no way, and he bowed to their wishes. When you're thinking in terms of starting a family, it's certainly an important factor to be considered - that is, the difference between attitudes and cultures. I don't know many American born and bred guys who'd break up with a woman that he loved enough to want to marry just because his parents felt it was inappropriate (she's a good friend, and trust me, a good woman too - she's still hurting, and that was a couple of years ago).
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 5:51 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
L8angel


Posts: 60
Don't discount the power of "positive thinking"...! I looked at your profile, and you have nothing to say about yourself! Could it be that you project that in person? ! And that your feelings of rejection have NOTHING to do with your being Indian?? Celebrate the positve, sugar! And relish the rest......"viva la diference"!
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Feb 10, 2008 @ 7:01 AM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
Edelweiss


Posts: 3,100
I think like Heaven does.
Also were I live a lot of jobs went to India, My job did too last year. Right now People from India are here learning our accounting, so accounting will move to India too, and another 200 people will be let go and have no jobs.
I know this has nothing to do with you, but it does leave a bad taste in our mouth, specially for the younger people, and for the ones who have worked there for a very long time.
It would also help, if you did finish your Profile.
I also came from another country and I did adopt all the local customs, so I would fit in, I love America and I am now a citizen and very proud of it.
I do wish you good luck on MD.
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Feb 10, 2008 @ 11:45 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
beatricebo


Posts: 36
sweet

in the end the indian guys usually pair up permanently with their own heritage. no white female wants to be used in the meantime.

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Feb 14, 2008 @ 8:06 AM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
User267


Posts: 2,500
Speaking of Indians:

A businessman boards a flight and is lucky enough to be seated next to an absolutely gorgeous woman. They exchange brief hellos and he notices she is reading a manual about sexual statistics. He asks her about it and she replies, "This is a very interesting book about sexual statistics. It identifies that American Indians have the longest average penis and Polish men have the biggest average diameter. By the way, my name is Jill. What's yours?" He coolly replies, "Tonto Kowalski, nice to meet you."
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Feb 14, 2008 @ 11:31 AM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
CHARLIgurl1


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Sometimes, its because theres a chance they may be Pakistani, and they dont really have a wonderful reputation for thier treatment of women
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Feb 16, 2008 @ 12:59 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
LipGlossQueen9


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I dunno, I hate to say this but a lot of my single friends who get hit on by Indian or Pakistani guys say they seem "desperate". I have no idea why that is, but that's what they say
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Feb 24, 2008 @ 3:50 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
sweetguy54321


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LipGlossQueen9 - It is very true that Indian guys seem pretty desperate and I believe there are 3 reaons for this -

1. Strict norms of the Indian culture and society when it comes to sex and dating (which is virtually non-existent in India). You can be certain that 95% of the Indian guys you see around you haven't even kissed a girl!!..forget about having sex.

2. When such sexually repressed Indian guys come to America, they are bombarded with sights of extraordinarily beautiful girls wearing highly revealing outfits in day-to-day life..on streets, at the gym, in clubs, at school!...outfits which are only seen on page 3 in India.

3. And when they try to approach a girl, most of them are met with disdainful looks and unfriendly gestures because of whatever reason..accent, appearance, stereotypes etc.

This repressed psychology compounded with a failed social interaction with Americans is probably the reason why they seem so desperate. This is the plight of single Indian guys in the US. When I came to the US, I was also one of these desperate guys...I lost all my self-respect and hated myself for being so lustful and desperate and not being able to concentrate on my work.
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Feb 24, 2008 @ 4:47 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
whatagal


Posts: 1,185
For a nation that invented Karma Sutra, it is one of the most sexually repressed countries in the world. It is a remnant of the British culture when it occupied India. Y'all need to lighten up and go back to your real roots and ditch the Queen Victoria era lifestyle!
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Feb 24, 2008 @ 6:50 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
Automotor


Posts: 130
I think it's because they don't want to end up living on the reservation.
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Feb 24, 2008 @ 8:47 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
whatagal


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^^^^^^^^^
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Feb 24, 2008 @ 9:07 PM Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?    
definitelydi


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I think it's because they don't want to end up living on the reservation.


I had this twice before I got it!
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