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Feb 11, 2008 @ 6:59 AM multiple dating sites    
seekingadistraction


Posts: 7
how many men or women are on multiple dating sites and dont tell the person they are dating of continued activity on other sites. If you are concerned, if he/she seems to be bored, maybe they have met someone on another site, try googling their user name, you might be surprised
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 7:48 AM multiple dating sites    
Lee_Danger


Posts: 4,215
I was on 7 sites. I met a guy on AMD a few months ago and thought we "had something" so I cancelled all 7... even my myspace page. About a month later I realized he was playing me so I reactivated my MD and AMD accounts, but everything else is still cancelled - at least all i could rememember and find.

Not that it matters, as I have no one who cares.
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 8:48 AM multiple dating sites    
Loreli


Posts: 31,995
I care, Lee



[Edited on 2/11/2008 9:58 AM]
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 9:29 AM multiple dating sites    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 22,712
Is it necessarily dishonest? I've joined so many sites over the years that I honestly don't even remember all of them...and I even get emails from sites where I KNOW I cancelled my profile. Since I used different ID's on all of them (I generally joined on a whim, as I did with MD ) googling wouldn't do much for anyone I was dating, but if they were the same ID, they'd be waaaaay wrong in seeing it as a red flag since I don't cheat, period. I know my SO's profile is still active on the site we met on, as is mine. I'd be kind of surprised if he hadn't gotten any emails from there, I know I have, and I'd be equally surprised if he hadn't responded as I did - thanks for your interest, but I'm currently seeing someone. If it doesn't work out, you may be hearing from me but so far so good...best of luck to you anyway...

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Feb 11, 2008 @ 9:44 AM multiple dating sites    
Loreli


Posts: 31,995
nm

[Edited on 2/11/2008 9:57 AM]
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 9:52 AM multiple dating sites    
MotownManiax


Posts: 7,922
I'm with Heaven and Danger....I can't even remember all the sites I've joined over the years but never revisited...lol. All I know is the subscriptions on the "pay" sites I joined have long since ended, and I never renewed. I'm still on Match but just hid my profile 'cause, like most sites nowadays, nobody can do anything without paying. The only site I'm active on is this one, and this is just for the forums. I was heavily on Plentyoffish over the summer and fall hosting meet and greet parties but decided to take a break and come back here.

I'm sure most people on one site are on others, too, but whether they're "paying" members (hence actively dating from the sites) is another question entirely. I simply can't afford to be on multiple paid sites.
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 10:20 AM multiple dating sites    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 16,779
if some player was going to play you... they will... the internet only makes it easier for them...

what I find interesting seekingadistraction is that your first post is dealing with this...fact??
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 11:00 AM multiple dating sites    
katydid438


Posts: 7,589
Ah! the internet is a virtual smorgasborg
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 12:31 PM multiple dating sites    
Bluebonnet72


Posts: 3,022
This is the only site in which I have my profile
it's too difficult remembering all different IDs and all different passwords
No no I stay here because I love this site and these people
For me all this it's enough
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Feb 11, 2008 @ 7:03 PM multiple dating sites    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 22,712
No no I stay here because I love this site and these people
For me all this it's enough

And we're so very glad you're here!!

(just for the record, the reason I stay on the other site, and pay, as I do here, is because I have great respect for it and want to do my share to ensure its continued existence...)

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Feb 11, 2008 @ 8:47 PM multiple dating sites    
bucsfan553


Posts: 93
I'm only on two...that's enough!
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Feb 12, 2008 @ 2:46 PM multiple dating sites    
Bluebonnet72


Posts: 3,022
And we're so very glad you're here!!
Thank you Heaven

I'm MD's addicted
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Feb 12, 2008 @ 4:28 PM multiple dating sites    
emptypages


Posts: 948
the only ones I have ever tried are this one (I really don't count it as a date site) and Match.com, which sucks. Match seems like it's become more of a 'professionals' dating site nowadays. I don't think you;re doing yourself too much good being on more than one at once anyway. Just use one, and try to get out more and do some activities.
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Feb 13, 2008 @ 3:16 AM multiple dating sites    
Automotor


Posts: 130
I'm only on here because it's free. I wouldn't pay to be on any site.
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Feb 13, 2008 @ 8:09 AM multiple dating sites    
txrose972


Posts: 2
Your topic is interesting because I just had the same thing happen with me.

How long had you been dating this person before you decided to google him and what made you decide to do so?

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Feb 13, 2008 @ 12:26 PM multiple dating sites    
dt3d2001


Posts: 3,668
I'm still on Match but just hid my profile 'cause, like most sites nowadays, nobody can do anything without paying.

I know what you mean Motown,,, I joined Match and got 3 emails the first day,, but could not read them without being a paying member
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Feb 13, 2008 @ 8:17 PM multiple dating sites    
dooney123


Posts: 2,313
I don't care how many sites he has profiles on. I trust that he's only with me. If I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him.
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Feb 14, 2008 @ 5:44 AM multiple dating sites    
seekingadistraction


Posts: 7
about a year, i stumbled on one of his websites by mistake, was looking for an article on something else and you know how all sorts of stuff can be included in a search, his name and user id came up and so i just decided to google it.

I know I am new to this but I felt he was sincere. But looking back it seems he has been playing me all along.
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Feb 14, 2008 @ 5:59 PM multiple dating sites    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 16,779
taking "he was playing you" at face value here..as I have no reason to doubt it.. but I am thinking as the internet makes it easier to meet people..it also makes it easier to find out if they are cheating.... the gray area is... when is it cheating?

I especially liked Dooney's answer...


I don't care how many sites he has profiles on. I trust that he's only with me. If I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him.
...

and we are back to... when does one trust someone...or not? which imho.. has nothing to do with dating sites... but has to do with a real relationship...

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Feb 14, 2008 @ 6:21 PM multiple dating sites    
Angel178


Posts: 32,073
Gallows.....

I have been on other sites, as was/is Pete....I pretty much cancelled all of mine. Not because of him, but because I didn't use them. I cancelled gradually. He is on others and the ones I don't know about would be easy enough to track.

Dooney and Gallows are right.....it's about trust in the relationship. If a person is going to play you, it's going to be more than on the internet.
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