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Tyhronn01
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hey everyone whats going on ? just need some advice. I have been talking to a girl online for a while now and everything seems cool. Finally she gives me her Phone # and all it seems like our conversations are going well. But, I have noticed I call the most, and she does respond back. But, I'm thinking is she really interested or pulling my leg ? Last night we talked and she ended our conversation by just saying I'll ttyl I don't know what to say ????
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| Feb 17 @ 8:56 AM |
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theresam77
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Chill out
I am not a caller. I guess it's a little old school in me, but I think the man should pursue. Also, I don't want to be the "needy" chick. SO, I will return the call. But, I don't initiate it.
Good luck 
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| Feb 17 @ 9:07 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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I agree with Sam......she may be a little old school and if she returns your calls then that is a good thing! If she wanted to avoid you she wouldn't even do that...
Time will tell......and give her some time....some of us are slow going into a relationship....
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| Feb 17 @ 9:19 AM |
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Angel178
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I agree with Sam and Spring
Edited cause it didn't sound nice and I didn't mean it to come across that way
[Edited on 2/17/2008 9:47 AM]
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| Feb 17 @ 9:37 AM |
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Tyhronn01
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Thanks guys for your advice, I guess after the luck I've had my self esteem is kinda shot so... I'm always having doubts I guess but, she does call back so, that is def good
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| Feb 17 @ 9:41 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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With a smile like that Ty.....your self esteem should be soaring! Good luck!
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| Feb 17 @ 9:44 AM |
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Tyhronn01
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yeah I guess thank you for the compliment  but, I call her once a day and I'm thinking like damn am I calling her too much  I just want to show my interest
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| Feb 17 @ 9:44 AM |
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Loreli
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It does sound like it's going pretty well, Ty.
The fact that she says "ttyl" is a good thing!
Good luck 
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| Feb 17 @ 9:46 AM |
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Angel178
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Good luck...sounds like you are doing things just right
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| Feb 17 @ 10:01 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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The women here are so sweet. Yet I wont tip toe. Dude CHILL. And while your chilling re read your OP.
Anything standing out?
The sence of panick, (desperation) Women dont do desprate men.
Finally she gives me her Phone # Who is setting the pace here? Dont push, ease back on your end of out going calls. You do not need to show her you are always available this soon in a relationship. Be busy yourself.
Disapointment, ( she ended our conversation by just saying I'll ttyl What were you expecting her to devote her entire life to you threw a good bye?
If youre thinkings she interested, then odds are she is. Dont kill it before it gets to really roll. If any of the above personalty traits are appearing or crossing over in your conversation or interactions with her, youre shooting yourself in the foot. When youre in the kindeling of a flame, DONT BLOW youll put out the sparks. Gentle huffs and puffs build the flame.
This is what you got going for yourself. Youre a genually caring person. Youre interested in others and have a curious nature. Your smile is strong and youre a good looking chap. Relax, control yourself. Make the situation ones where she wants to seek you out. Have fun finding your inner man of mystery
JMHO
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| Feb 17 @ 10:47 AM |
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Angel178
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The women here are so sweet
Aww...thanks burns 
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| Feb 17 @ 10:49 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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just calling it as i see it.
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| Feb 17 @ 10:54 AM |
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mailorderannie
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and some pretty good advice there too burns.
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| Feb 17 @ 10:56 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Yep, but don't cut back on calling her now, she'd probably think you lost interest.
(Don't we all love that 'thinking' game?) 
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| Feb 17 @ 11:00 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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Yes Burns...thanks for the sweet remark..... 
Maybe I'll get Spring here sooner now.... 
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| Feb 17 @ 12:50 PM |
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marylou
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(Don't we all love that 'thinking' game?) .....
...not me.....its either happening or its not....LOL
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| Feb 17 @ 12:52 PM |
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Angel178
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Hey Marylou!!! We are on at the same time again!!!! 
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| Feb 17 @ 2:20 PM |
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definitelydi
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Personally, I think calling everyday is excessive. As Burns said, keep yourself busy and don't make yourself seem so "available" even if you are! Don't think it to death, Ty! You may just end up spoiling a good thing. Enjoy it as it comes!
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| Feb 17 @ 5:16 PM |
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luvmycats
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I BETTER get a call everyday, or I call him. Of course it is a little different since we are "official". Its more of the how was your day, I want your body type call. 
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