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sirmcpuss
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Some doctors suspect that about three out of every four U.S. women are frigid, i.e., get no sexual satisfaction. After serious study of the "psychosomatic aspects" of female coldness, Kroger and Freed view the sexual sensitivity of U.S. women as varying all the way from "complete anesthesia to exquisite receptivity.
The doctors suggest a one basic cause of frigidity:
Unconscious resentments and hates, such as "a wish for revenge on men ... or a wish to avenge the mother for all the suffering she went through at the hands of the father . . ."
Factor like this, say Kroger and Freed, account for "aggressive old maids, agitative female 'champions' in constant competition with men, narcissistic women and violent espousers of virginity."
Combat & Clothes. In another classification of frigid women the doctors lump the 'gold-digger,' who is financially exploiting many sexual partners and husbands ... the prostitute ... and the nymphomaniac, the latter in search for satisfaction which is never achieved . . .
- Drs. Kroger and Freed
And you know ladies ?.  ..if you just pretending to like having sex with us, you not only not doing us a favor, but you hurting as man very much. And scaring us (man) sexually for other women as well. 
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| Feb 23 @ 6:29 PM |
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CHARLIgurl1
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Ahhh.. but men rarely know if we're not....we're the experts on fakin it ya know   
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| Feb 23 @ 6:34 PM |
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sirmcpuss
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We know…. and that’s why we move-on to onother woman, in hopes of finding the real thing. 
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| Feb 23 @ 6:42 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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the nymphomaniac, the latter in search for satisfaction which is never achieved . . .
- Drs. Kroger and Freed
Just wondering why that satisfaction is never achieved...not speaking for myself of course...  but satisfaction isn't just about technique, it's far more about trust, closeness...true intimacy. Without that, it ends up being close, but no cigar.
Is that the 'fault' of the woman? I'm not implying that it's the man's fault either, but without that real communication, women aren't gonna ever know what sex can be like, and end up, as quoted above, in a search for satisfaction which is never achieved....
So, how does one go about remedying that? As one good friend of mine said, women friends hug and speak of love freely...men friends high five each other. How do we ever learn to meet somewhere in the middle?
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| Feb 23 @ 7:05 PM |
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sirmcpuss
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As one good friend of mine said, women friends hug and speak of love freely
You see…women talk about their feelings easily than man, simply because they also enjoy torturing other women psychologically. And so do weak man…and they are not necessarily gay. They are just feminine
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| Feb 23 @ 7:22 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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guess what....I have an opinion here...
1st..that.this is wrong...
Some doctors suspect that about three out of every four U.S. women are frigid, i.e., get no sexual satisfaction.
but who am I to argue with two doctors who probably wrote a book on this topic? 
I suspect.(.based on my conversations with women.). that it is more like...one in nine are frigid. Of the remainder..1/2 of them are the victims of a pairing with a male who is not a match for their libido...and the other half know exactly what they want..and how to go about getting it...
I have no issue with the middle part of the post 
and thirdly..
..if you just pretending to like having sex with us, you not only not doing us a favor, but you hurting as man very much. And scaring us (man) sexually for other women as well
In a very limited scope, I can see where this statement has merit, as ...if there is no communication in the bedroom..how can anyone know what the other person likes needs or desires..and it would hurt the relationship..
but...
imho..if the party of the first part does not feel like having sex.. but wants to please the part of the second part...and does.....as long as both partys understand just what is what...who is getting hurt?
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| Feb 23 @ 7:33 PM |
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CathyCRN
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Perhaps a man should have sex with one partner, get to know that partner and stop worrying about being scared for other women. Perhaps the threat of a man running off to find another woman to have sex with is placing undo stress on a woman causing her to feel as if her performance is being judged. I don't think I would feel free to thoroughly enjoy myself in this type os situation.
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| Feb 23 @ 8:46 PM |
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kattsmeow
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First of all, a woman needs to know and understand her body. She needs to know what it feels like to be satified! After one time, she will never settle for anything less.
A man can help her, but she needs to know herself.
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| Feb 24 @ 8:31 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Heck...I'm the coldest woman here....and I still manage to have fun.
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| Feb 24 @ 8:46 AM |
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CathyCRN
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I bet you are!!! How cold are you today?
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| Feb 24 @ 8:57 AM |
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capobeachguy
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Heck...I'm the coldest woman here....and I still manage to have fun.
You need to try it with a partner some day!!! 
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| Feb 24 @ 9:07 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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I bet you are!!! How cold are you today?
The weather God's are saying 35 degrees. Can you imagine? It's like a vacation in a tropical paradise! 
You need to try it with a partner some day!!!
I'm trying...I'm TRYING!!!
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| Feb 24 @ 9:25 AM |
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CathyCRN
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Geez, Cold...You having a heat wave!!!
Heat Wave
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| Feb 24 @ 10:00 AM |
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Loreli
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I don't think those figures are accurate...JMHO
If they just get a "test group" to make the study on, it's possible those women DO have those issues, while the next 100 women will give different results...and so on. It could change daily!
And, McP? If they are pretending-how does the man know?
If I have 9 friends that I KNOW enjoy sex with their SO/husband,(no in-depth discussions on it, though) and I know I do...then pretense is shot out the window to my knowledge!
Hey...there's gotta be something else a woman needs to do, rather than pretend and fake in the bedroom
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| Feb 24 @ 10:21 AM |
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Kenn159
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The fraise “Old Maids” is a judgmental term out of the 19th and early 20 century, I wondering what kind of credibility these two so called researchers have when throwing around labels like this.
You see…women talk about their feelings easily than man, simply because they also enjoy torturing other women psychologically. And so do weak man…and they are not necessarily gay. They are just feminine
What? 
Crack physiology
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| Feb 24 @ 10:24 AM |
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Kenn159
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The weather God's are saying 35 degrees. Can you imagine? It's like a vacation in a tropical paradise!
Today's expected high is 78 degress 
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| Feb 24 @ 10:26 AM |
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| Feb 24 @ 10:47 AM |
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psychmajor
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"After serious study of the "psychosomatic aspects" of female coldness, Kroger and Freed view the sexual sensitivity of U.S. women as varying all the way from "complete anesthesia to exquisite receptivity. "
Are you referring to William Kroger and Charles Freed???? Both are MD's... neither have any documented expertise in women or their sexual sensitivity other than a study that no one other than themselves as labeled "serious"
I also find it funny that men, who by their own admission dont understand women can justify their in depth knowledge regarding this comment.... "Unconscious resentments and hates, such as "a wish for revenge on men ... or a wish to avenge the mother for all the suffering she went through at the hands of the father . . ." Factor like this, say Kroger and Freed, account for "aggressive old maids, agitative female 'champions' in constant competition with men, narcissistic women and violent espousers of virginity."
It sounds to me like these self proclaimed sexual sensitivity experts have a few unresolved issues of their own that are clearly noticed in the undertone of their message.
clearly they are underachievers who have no idea how to handle a real woman... why else would they confuse a term like nymphomanic by saying. "and the nymphomaniac, the latter in search for satisfaction which is never achieved . . ." when in fact that is not the definition of nymphomaniac at all. Maybe they should just admit that they cannot handle a woman with excessive sexual desire (nymphomanic's true definition) instead of trying to blame a woman for their inability to satisfy them....
Its only my opinion.. but if you cant stand the heat men.....get out of the kitchen Instead of the whining about being hurt... do the job right and we wont have to fake it
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| Feb 24 @ 11:02 AM |
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Kenn159
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It sounds to me like these self proclaimed sexual sensitivity experts have a few unresolved issues of their own that are clearly noticed in the undertone of their message.
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| Feb 24 @ 11:25 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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Its only my opinion.. but if you cant stand the heat men.....get out of the kitchen Instead of the whining about being hurt... do the job right and we wont have to fake it ...
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