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Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?


Mar 1, 2008 @ 4:48 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
sirmcpuss


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Why do women say that they want a man who is sensitive, but do not understand that someone who is gentle and thoughtful can also get hurt very easy when his feeling are not returned or betrayed by the one he trusts ?...and also, being sensitive thus not mean being weak. It’s just a way how someone relates with others and his perception of the distinction between right and wrong, his responsibility to someone he cares about and harm that he can cause to others.Has nothing to do with acting like a wimp in need of attention who just wants a someone to unload the responsibility for himself on her.
And why, when a woman meets a man and thinks that he is the one she has been searching for...why, will she still play games with him, like with all the other man ?

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Mar 1, 2008 @ 4:50 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Cal_Cowboy


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Those darn women are just no good.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 4:54 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
signme


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It really depends on the woman. You two must just meet the wrong ones. Quit hanging out in bars and strip joints and maybe you'll find the nicer ones. JMO of course.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 4:58 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Cal_Cowboy


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And why, when a woman meets a man and thinks that he is the one she has been searching for...why, will she still play games with him, like with all the other man ?

Maybe because Alaska has the highest male to female ratio of any state in the country.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 5:01 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
sirmcpuss


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Woman will shed tears watching a sentimental movie, but in the same time has no sensitivity for real pain that she causes in life.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 5:04 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
ColdinWisconsin


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Bend over baby. Let's test that theory.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 5:05 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Cal_Cowboy


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Is Mcpusses drain stopped up again...
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 5:26 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
DipityDoo


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Why do women say that they want a man who is sensitive, but do not understand that someone who is gentle and thoughtful can also get hurt very easy when his feeling are not returned or betrayed by the one he trusts ?...and also, being sensitive thus not mean being weak. It’s just a way how someone relates with others and his perception of the distinction between right and wrong, his responsibility to someone he cares about and harm that he can cause to others.Has nothing to do with acting like a wimp in need of attention who just wants a someone to unload the responsibility for himself on her.
And why, when a woman meets a man and thinks that he is the one she has been searching for...why, will she still play games with him, like with all the other man ?

Is the translation this:
Why, when a woman doesn't want to date a man, and makes that clear, she is insensitive and hurtful?

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Mar 1, 2008 @ 5:31 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
freetime503


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DD, that is funny!

I don't think it's the women that are insensitive. If I found a sensitive man, I would never hurt him intentionally with games. It's all in how you perceive the situation. Sounds like you have been hurt. But, from reading your posts, can't really say that you fall into the "sensitive man" category.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 6:12 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
pamdemonium


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Sorry you're hurting, McPuss.

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Mar 1, 2008 @ 6:51 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Heaveninawildflower


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Yep, I'm sorry too. But sometimes we end up getting exactly what we're asking for, whether we admit it or not.

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Mar 1, 2008 @ 6:52 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
sirmcpuss


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But, from reading your posts, can't really say that you fall into the "sensitive man" category.

Well, I’m very sensitive and it’s easy for a woman to hurt me…because I don’t show it does not mean that I’m thick- skinned.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 6:56 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Cal_Cowboy


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Actually, you come here about every few weeks and act like such a dumb ass that everyone feels like throwing tomatoes (or insults) at you. I'm guessing you have VERY thick skin - why else wouldn't you get the hint? If you were "sensitive" you would get that your posts make most normal people's skin crawl - and that your insensitivity toward women (in general) has become your calling card here.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:00 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
sirmcpuss


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Yep, I'm sorry too. But sometimes we end up getting exactly what we're asking for, whether we admit it or not.
Well I can’t help it, I don’t commit lightly to anything and don’t expose my Achilles’ heel to just anyone…it takes time to gain my trust. Unfortunately women this days have no time for romance. It’s all sex, money and…I WANT ALL OF IT NOW !
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:01 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Cal_Cowboy


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Well I can’t help it, I don’t commit lightly to anything and don’t expose my Achilles’ heel to just anyone…it takes time to gain my trust. Unfortunately women this days have no time for romance. It’s all sex, money and…I WANT ALL OF IT NOW !

Here's a thought - give them money for sex.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:02 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
CathyCRN


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Well typed, Cal!! If your actions show as little regard for women as your postings, it's a wonder you can get a woman to get close enough to hurt you (romantically, of course). Try showing some respect for women...we're people just like men only softer and less hairy (well, most of us)
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:16 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
burnslikethesun


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stop dating girls that laff at or dont know true pain?
All men feel pain, just not all of them cry about it when it happens. A heart break feels no different from one person to the next. The difference is how they allow it to effect them.
Theres lines and all. Learn to color with in them.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:17 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Heaveninawildflower


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have no time for romance. It’s all sex, money and…I WANT ALL OF IT NOW !

Trouble is that romance is usually all about form rather than substance. I don't know that we women who have no time for romance are only interested in money or sex...a lot of us feel a need for friendship, and how can you form a friendship with someone who'll never let his real self show? Men who hide behind the tough guy facade demand an awful lot...you make us women jump through hoops just on faith that you're not really the jerk that you seem to be, especially when experience has taught us that we can get burned really badly ourselves for making that leap of faith.

Come to think of it, Mike and Pete have more than a little in common....
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:21 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
sirmcpuss


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A heart break feels no different from one person to the next.

No…a selfish women (people) are just that ….selfish, and are not capable of feelings.
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Mar 1, 2008 @ 7:24 PM Why do women say they want a sensitive man ?...and then they hurt them ?    
Heaveninawildflower


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Nobody on this earth is incapable of being hurt. The ones who hurt others the most are usually the ones who are hurting the most...that's when all of us lash out, when we're hurting. Sometimes it works out though, when we can learn something in the process and maybe avoid it the next time.

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