| Mar 8 @ 5:35 AM |
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BloodMerchant
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Hey guys,
There is this girl that came up to me and introduced herself to me and asked for my name about 6 months ago. Over time, we were being friendly and acquainted with each other. Around December, I friended her on facebook and she accepted the request.
For weeks, we were acquainted with each other and speaking to each other or exchanging smiles whenever I had the opportunity during classes.
And recently (about last week), I had the courage to ask her if we could hang out some time. She agreed, and sent me a facebook message that I'm welcome to sit next to her in lectures. And this week, I think I screwed up completely.
Well, everything started out fine, we talked about schoolwork and random stuff, until I took my camera out yesterday just for fun. So I scouted the room with my camera, and she asked me whether I taking a picture or not. Being honest, I said I wasn't taking a picture. She asked me again, I gave her the same response, and she replied: "You are sooo taking a picture!" But something popped up in my head. How about pointing the camera in her direction?
And she later covered her face and said, "No, I don't want my picture taken."
I replied: "No, I wasn't going to. I was just kidding."
She replied in a harsh tone, "I didn't find that funny, you know."
"Well, how come?"
"I just don't like my picture being taken by someone I don't really know."
"Oh okay. I'm sorry."
"No, it's okay."
At one point, I decided to leave the room. When I came back, I threw my stuff onto the chair, and since the seats were full, i jumped onto a seat and jumped over the row of seats to sit next to her. She then later asked me if I was hurt or anything.
A couple of minutes, she skips a few minutes of lecture to go speak to her friends on her cellphone.
All this time sitting around her, I felt nervous and jittery around her.
So when I left, we parted on amicable terms. She told me to 'Have fun' afterwards as I left for another class. Her tone wasn't as harsh or neutral as before, but she had a slightly-open smile on her mouth.
A few hours later, I found out that she defriended me on facebook for no apparent reason. I refriended her a few hours later, only have my request declined.
I asked a mutual friend, and she said that the girl of my interest, in particular, hates anything 'wierd' going on. So that could be the root cause. But then again, she has a reputation of being friendly.
Why did she defriend me and decline my request? And what's the right course to take? Is there any hope left for me? I just don't understand her reasoning.
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| Mar 8 @ 6:58 AM |
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freetime503
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I think that you should forget the computer thing and just talk to her. 
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| Mar 8 @ 7:27 AM |
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acslim
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'defriend'?
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| Mar 8 @ 9:58 AM |
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Loreli
Posts: 20,313
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I would invite her out for coffee or something non-threatening. If she declines, move on.
She already declined your attempt to reinstate her as a friend.
I'm sorry....but it really sounds like she isn't that interested.
Someone else will be 
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| Mar 8 @ 11:01 AM |
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twotall911
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'defriend'?
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| Mar 8 @ 11:08 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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What you doing taking your cam out in class anyways? Not a smooth move. Whens the last time you sat in lecture and seen someone snapping pictures. It gives me the ews just thinking about it. Your friend is right, youre being really weird. Yeah your making a big ass out of yourself. Save the Tom Sawyor antics.
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