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SensualGemini
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Blues: I have a suggestion for you. When she comes out of the health clinic, slap a chastity belt on her, make sure you have the only key and she is too dumb to have ever heard of a locksmith.
...Are you saying all women are ho's and they need a chastity belt? 
That was not very nice...
...Personally, I know a lot of women that do not need a chastity belt, so that cannot be truth.
...Nor did I volunteer to be your counselor... you started the attack, so you own it and you can quit it anytime. Thus far, I have been nice. 
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| Mar 25 @ 5:04 PM |
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Blueschic
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I do not think I made mention of all women being HOs. In fact I wasn't the first to use the term, you were. I was simply giving you a suggestion so that you don't need to be on post outside the health clinic all the time.
I started nothing. I interpreted your comment
I'm beginning to think the old adage is true....If you can't find something nice to say, then say nothing at all. Since you and I seem to be not 'on the same page' I will say nothing to you.
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| Mar 25 @ 5:36 PM |
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lobo65
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[QUOTE]Never make someone a priority if they only make you an option."
Story of my life. 
As for the OP, I haven't read all the replies, but there was some good advice given. Not all guys, including me, chase any skirt that comes along. At this point in my life I would prefer love over sex, but that doesn't mean they can't mutually co-exist. 
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| Mar 25 @ 5:40 PM |
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BandTMom
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Most people (men and women) who are looking for a new relationship have not had any sex in a while and that is at least part of the reason they are looking for that relationship. Doggie said:gotta disagree....... a lot of us...will take the comittment first.....and find the love first..... then its not even a discussing about "having sex" anymore!
Commitment, compatibility, and love always come first, but I don't think we realize that until we are older. Most of the time sex won't get you through the rough spots, but the above mentioned will.
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| Mar 25 @ 5:46 PM |
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BandTMom
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Sensual Gemini said:
...Back on topic, most decent men do not screw around with anything and everything, while waiting on the one that is forever plus one day. But of course, like everyone else, mistakes are made in thinking there was that potential, which gives Nah's, Loreli's and even my post a bunch of relevance in the real world
But I will amend that to say most decent people do not screw around while looking for our forever and a day.
i know...this is about decent men 
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| Mar 25 @ 10:32 PM |
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blueyes101
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I find it interesting that so many men/women here have learned the sex without love is empty, besides the fact they are putting themselves at risk of pregnancy and disease.
But if you mention this about young teenage boys/girls, many attempt to defend the fact that abstinence and waiting until you are in a committed relationship and even mentioning the word god and values brings the wrath of those that say, kids will do it anyways, give them condoms.
Some how having multiple partners and multiple births and or diseases before they even leave high school is not shameful, it is Americas fault, Europe does not have as many hang ups as we do, what is our problem... ?
It seems to me, many wish our youth to be strangled by their mistakes, only to find the advice they should have been given was held back, for fear they would not listen.
We all must make mistakes, but when the mistakes involve children/teenagers or infecting multiple partners, we owe them a certain level of responsibility.
Why are some parents holding the important information back, and still wondering why they have grand children on the way?
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| Mar 25 @ 10:36 PM |
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Loreli
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I taught my young men well.
They may have started sooner than I would like, but they bought their own condoms....and to the very best of my knowledge, are monogamous
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| Mar 25 @ 10:39 PM |
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| Mar 26 @ 1:04 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Blues: I'm beginning to think the old adage is true....If you can't find something nice to say, then say nothing at all. Since you and I seem to be not 'on the same page' I will say nothing to you.
...Great! ...maybe you should have thought about that before you ran your mouth with... "Well you two can dip, double dip whatever... your fruit in any cheesy creamy dip of unknown origin that you please."
...That was an attack to a reasonable response, nasty and although far from being your accused "prude," I don't do ho's... period.
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bandt: But I will amend that to say most decent people do not screw around while looking for our forever and a day.
...Absolutely! ... We all make relationship mistakes, but most of us are getting better at making better choices. Personally, the STD's scare the hell out of me, as many are viral and once contracted, they are forever. Just the HPV has about a 100 strains and growing.
...Raising kids as a single parent, we should certainly try to set an example.
PS: I have a heck of a time calling you "Mom." If we were ever to be the forever plus one day, what would that make me?  
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blueyes: We all must make mistakes, but when the mistakes involve children/teenagers or infecting multiple partners, we owe them a certain level of responsibility.
...We made them, so we owe them every possible chance of developing to their fullest potential and becoming happy, productive assets to society.
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| Mar 26 @ 1:37 AM |
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Blueschic
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Did somebody say something? No. I didn't think so. Must be that ole squeeky wheel that constantly needs oiled. I'm outta W-D 40.
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| Mar 26 @ 1:44 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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After reading this and the un called for attack on Sen and Two Tall Im so glad I promised to behave...  otherwise .. no no... I promised .. I WILL behave .. sheesh 
aww screw it ....
Blueschic you went far beyond civil with your post to those two gentlemen.. neither of them insulted you ... Sens Post was a joke and actually a very pertinent answer... and you got rude and nasty with TWO very dear friends of mine .. maybe you should THINK before you post your nastiness unless your A** is what you ARE trying to show because you sure did that here.. 
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| Mar 26 @ 1:47 AM |
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Blueschic
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Bleeyes....
Great post and oh so true.
Loreli...
I'm with you on that one. It was my responsibility to have the 'conversation' with my boys. Be open and honest and then hope for the best.
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| Mar 26 @ 2:16 AM |
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Blueschic
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Becky...
Although your are within your right to defend your friends, I would no more tell you when or if you feel offended than you should be telling me. If someone feels offended, the offense lies in their perception, not yours. I haven't heard from Two Tall and to my knowledge haven't conversed with him before. SensualGemini has previously "rubbed me the wrong way". If you find SensualGemini's initial comment about waiting outside health clinics a reasonable expectation of how someone should handle the problem of STDs then your reasoning is in question also. His accusations that I referred to all women as HOs was out of line. I didn't call women HOs he did. I see you have not addressed your feelings on that . I found nothing that he said to be funny or a joke. If you did then I guess that's why he's your friend. As far as civility that's in the eyes of the beholder. You should examine your post for civility. The last I heard name calling whether typed with letters or typed with symbols in place of letters is not an expression of civility my dear. This is entirely my opinion and I have a right to express it as much as you have a right to yours and your expression of such.
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| Mar 26 @ 2:17 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Blues: Must be that ole squeeky wheel that constantly needs oiled. I'm outta W-D 40.
...Apparently, you still have plenty of oral lube; so maybe try that...
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| Mar 26 @ 2:28 AM |
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Blueschic
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Sometimes those among us who can not refrain from comment and leave well enough alone...."show their true colors".
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| Mar 26 @ 2:46 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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Blues show me where Two Tall offended you?? or where in this thread Sen did BEFORE you attacked??
Posts: 2,046 How does one know where that fruits been? Investigation as to the fruits whereabouts takes time. ...Stand outside the Health Clinic, as they come out with papers in hand?
now to a person without an agenda that post makes sense.. go to the source to find out if they have any STDs etc .. makes perfect sense to me or is there ANOTHER place one would find out if a potential partner is what they say they are??  How about going TOGETHER to a clinic.. same thing you would be waiting for a result right?? a CURRENT one...
Two Tall posted
check health cards too
what is wrong with THAT post?? yet you chose to be rude and tell them both
Hey....I'm just sayin'....Well you two can dip, double dip whatever... your fruit in any cheesy creamy dip of unknown origin that you please.
nasty little snide comment
now to your comments about me..
If you find SensualGemini's initial comment about waiting outside health clinics a reasonable expectation of how someone should handle the problem of STDs then your reasoning is in question also sorry I would SO be there AT the clinic to see the results FIRST HAND TYVM and if that is in question just what do you do?? have them mail the results to you after they have been able to play doctor with them?? kinda scary
and about the HO's thing.. sheesh I wouldn't want to date a HO either.. but he did not call ALL women HO's ... he called HO's , HO's can you not see that ??
and dear one I did not call you an Ass .. believe me if I was going to call you a name I'm sure there are better suited ones for you .. what I said was that you were showing yours and you still are
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| Mar 26 @ 3:21 AM |
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Blueschic
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No, what's really scarry is that people make light of a very serious problem. The ability to contract a STD that you have for the rest of your life. The false perception that only HOs (whatever your definition of a HO is) are the ones to be avoided. The truth is that STDs know no boundaries...whether it be age, gender, socioeconomic status or intelligence for that matter. If your real sentiment and solution is to follow someone to a health clinic then by all means do so. But there are people who think they are in a manogamous relationship but end up contracting an STD. My initial point was, before SensualGemini made light of the whole issue, that taking the time to develop an honest meaningful relationship with a potential partner would be in order before taking that leap that could prove to be life altering or threatening. Yes, I'm sure you are able to spew vile nasty names as anyone with the ability to talk can do including me. I choose not to. It seems to me that reasonable people can agree to disagree as they will never see eye to eye. My disagreement with SensualGemini could go on and on. Why continue an already less than cordial continuation of this. I simply choose not to engage.
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| Mar 26 @ 3:36 AM |
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nah12
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Well Blue the way i read it you leaped and bit off more than you could chew and now trying to back track..the only thing is you are still trying to say others are out of line and people just don't take kindly to that type of back tracking IMO....
But hey you can spin it any way you choose but don't be so surprise when others let their opinions be known...they have the same right as you do you know...
And honestly i have to agree with Becky on this one....and nope i'm not on her friends list either so that will save you a trip on clicking to see....
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| Mar 26 @ 4:11 AM |
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twotall911
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Becky--
Blues--my comment was put in for the lighter side of the forum and there are states now that are giving cards out after a work up and testing for severe diseases just like the new requirements for kids to have shots
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| Mar 26 @ 5:57 AM |
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BandTMom
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Blues you are new here o many yo don't realize that this is like a small community....even a family and we protect and defend our own. We always welcome new "family" members, but sometimes it's hard when the new member is on the defensive all the time.
SensualGemini said:
PS: I have a heck of a time calling you "Mom." If we were ever to be the forever plus one day, what would that make me?
Bandt will do just fine.
...Raising kids as a single parent, we should certainly try to set an example.
Absolutely! Our children learn by the examples they see, not by the ones they are told.
[Edited on 3/26/2008 6:11 AM]
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