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BandTMom
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 But of course.
You always were. 
And thanks for the compliments.
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| Mar 26 @ 9:07 PM |
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sweetsongs17
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A decent man takes her to dinner, maybe dancing and buys her flowers or chocolates!! and then maybe..
   
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| Mar 26 @ 9:12 PM |
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BandTMom
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Our definitions of a decent man vary. 
A decent man is one who is there when I need a safe place to go....and I'm not talking about his house.
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| Mar 26 @ 9:30 PM |
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sweetsongs17
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AAAAWWWWW!! 
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| Mar 26 @ 11:20 PM |
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kattsmeow
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A decent man will listen to my endless chatter. He will have answers when I ask questions.
His arms are always open for me.
Oh my,,,
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| Mar 27 @ 12:51 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Becky: ONLY if the moon is in its seventh house and jupiter aligns with marssss...
 ... about like when ducks start flying backwards?
Snowing in the Valley... 1998
Pali: Wow! It's a good thing I'm not Muslim. I've been married enough times, thank you very much.
...Come on Pali... do tell... if you were Muslim, how many times? ... 
...and no, I would never answer that one either; not sure I could.
C: So back to Burns' definition, I think like should come first, then feelings of passion, the commitment, then intimacy. But of course a lot of intimacy can come before. It depends on the definition.
...Is there a specific time frame, or should there be? 
...Oh... and what secrets do you have on Katt?
Katt: Am I your favorite now??
...Gosh Kat! ... what a suck up! ... ... but she is going to tell us the secrets anyway...
PS: Yes, you do have a decent man... 
Blues: I find it interesting that SensualGemini was given a "free pass" on all comments but I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
..."When you are right, your are right?"
...Alright Blues, here is the deal... you go back and read this thread and the referenced political thread and if you still think you are right and that I trespassed, come back here and say what it was I trespassed with and I will apologize for whatever it is.
PS: I will give you the "oral lube" one... but after your WD40 remark, you have to admit, it was pretty good.
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| Mar 27 @ 1:33 AM |
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Palomino
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BluesChic said:
DiamondRain...
I have to disagree with you. Yes sex is a hunger but at times one has to control that appetite. Even if one is hungry they wouldn't want to eat contaminated fruit grown across the border, nor should they want to eat contaminated fruit packaged in a pair of jeans. How does one know where that fruits been? Investigation as to the fruits whereabouts takes time.
Okay...suppose the fruit is okay it passes inspection. You really like that fruit. In fact you can't get enough of the fruit. The more you get the more you want. You realize the only thing you have in common is the fruit. Your appetite is satisfied, you're getting a lot of fruit and the fruit really tastes great but the rest of you is empty. You're wondering is this all there is. You feel compromised, but you're addicted to that damn fruit. What about your emotional needs, compatibility, spirituality. Maybe it would be wise to move slowly, to find out if you're compatible in other areas before you become a fruit juicer.
Or worse, you jump in too fast and find out it had nothing to do with fruit...you were just a piece of meat?
Personally I think I've just gone bananas. Where's the doctor?
I must say, that I really liked your analogy, Blues. 
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| Mar 27 @ 1:35 AM |
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Palomino
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SG...since I'm not a Muslim, I have actually been married three times. 
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| Mar 27 @ 1:56 AM |
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SensualGemini
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...Now, that was not the question...
...On a more serious note, if everyone married today, like they used to, rather than simply living together from relationship to relationship, most would have been married many times by now.
...Oh, I know people lived together without marriage 50 years ago, but quite honestly, into my late teens, I did not know anyone that did. But I did know several including family, that had been married multiple times... an uncle was married 9 times.
PS: I liked that part of Blues analogy as well; but I was on defense at the moment.
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| Mar 27 @ 2:55 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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... about like when ducks start flying backwards?
DUCK SEASON FIRE!!!!!!!...
I am SURE glad Sens asking you paly not me
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| Mar 27 @ 4:08 AM |
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SensualGemini
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...Now Becky, are you trying to get me into more trouble? 
...Obviously, I do well enough on my own, thank you! ...
...But, a bunch of us were talking about this very same thing the other day, because a woman had been married 5 times and some thought that was a bad thing... yet, she had married every guy she was ever intimate with and suddenly, it was a different perspective. 
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| Mar 27 @ 4:19 AM |
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Blueschic
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This was composed by me and presented to a college microbiology and a college health class to raise awareness. Although done in a humorous tone for the sole purpose of gaining listeners attention it was not done to be taken lightly. So you see I have and always will have a way to make a point through humor... as I was trying to do with the fruit analogy. Thanks Pali on the positive comment on my fruit analogy post. TwoTall ..I read that you made your comment about the health cards because you were trying to display the light side of STDs but as you can see I failed and do fail to see the light side. I have no animosity toward you even though you made the comment that I apparently need a renta man as you were going to send me one.
Neisseria gonorrhoeae
Hi, let me introduce myself. My formal name is Neisseria gonorrhoeae. I am named after Albert Neisser, who discovered me in 1879. I am also known as gonorrhea or by the name “the clap” from the French word clappoir, which means “brothel”. I frequent brothels quite often. I prefer to be known as gonorrhea and that is what I will refer to myself as.
I am a diplococci, which means I hang out with a buddy. We are always together just like “two peas in a pod” but we look more like kidney beans. I am quite fragile, but don’t call me a sissy. I am susceptible to most antiseptics and disinfectants, so I can survive for only brief periods outside the body. You can only rarely contact me on a toilet seat. I told you that I like to frequent brothels, that’s because I like the “action” that goes on in a brothel. I am addicted to sexual intercourse. I wish I could have it myself but that is not possible. To compensate I like to be present when sexual intercourse is taking place. I guess I am somewhat a voyeur. Actually, it doesn’t have to be vaginal intercourse, I also like to be there when rectal intercourse or oral-genital sex is taking place. If I happen to be visiting a pregnant mom, she can pass me on to her newborn. I initially like to be on mucous membranes. Places like genitalia, anorectal area, oropharynx or the conjunctiva. What I just said was I can be in your mouth, eyes, genitals or your rear end. But I don’t stay there. I like to go sight seeing in your body.
I am actually on the job now. Currently I am living inside Shasta, she has no idea that I am inside her. I can take from one to three weeks to show up or Shasta may be asymptomatic, which means she has no symptoms. She could have a thin watery discharge and that could turn thicker but these symptoms could be so mild they go unnoticed. Shasta has been on one of those internet dating sites. She is quite an attractive woman. She has recently met Mikie. He is a bodybuilder also quite attractive. They have been communicating and flirting with each other over the internet for quite awhile. Right now they are at a local bar having drinks and getting to know one another personally. They have been so touchy feely that I think this may go somewhere tonight. I can’t wait. I am a voyeur, I already told you that. Now, Mikie could protect himself from me by using a condom. But will he? Oh, they’re dancing now. Wow, Mikie is really a sensual dancer. They’re doing a bump and grind. There it goes, Shasta has lifted her leg to wrap it around Mikie’s upper thigh. Where did his hand go? Oh my, they had better get a room. The three of us are walking out into the parking lot now. Mikie has a big luxury Cadillac parked over there. We’re headed that way now. We three are inside the car. What’s this, music.
I recognize this song, it’s Marvin Gaye singing “Let’s Get It On”. It’s getting quite steamy in here now. The windows are all fogged up. Well I guess that’s a good thing. Is Mikie going to pull a condom out of his wallet, glovebox, anywhere? You know how guys are, they claim the sensation is diminished. He’s telling Shasta that now. She’s buying it. Well we know it won’t be the first time that she didn’t insist on a condom. Mikie will soon find out that he’s “bitten off more than he can chew”. His symptoms will appear in two days to two weeks. He’s going to have a tingling sensation in his urethra that he won’t like. A few hours later, when he takes a pee he’s going to have a burning sensation (ouch) followed by a milky discharge. As the infection progresses Mikie is going to experience pronounced urethral pain and a creamy pus-like discharge. Mikie is not going to be a “happy camper”. Will he know that Shasta infected him? I guess that depends on how many “dates” Mikie has or will have from the internet dating site.
It’s been just five days now and Mikie has already started having symptoms. Mikie feels like kicking himself in the rear for not using a condom. He knows something isn’t right. He doesn’t know what he has. Mikie’s mind starts to wander. He wonders if he has AIDS, herpes, gonorrhea or who knows what. He’s dreading going to the doctor. This is going to be so embarrassing. Here he is 45 years old, certainly not a youngster. Did he think it wouldn’t happen to him? I am gonorrhea and I proudly do not discriminate. I will infect anyone at any time. I don’t care if you are rich or poor, clean or dirty, promiscuous or a virgin. If I get the chance, I’m coming into your body and I don’t have to be asked twice.
Mikie is now at the doctor’s office. The doctor has just informed Mikie that he must insert this long instrument in
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| Mar 27 @ 4:24 AM |
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Blueschic
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into Mikie’s penis to get a sample of the discharge. This procedure is really uncomfortable. Mikie tries to think of something else other than what the doctor is doing. His mind reverts back to Shasta. Why didn’t he use a condom, he had them in his glove box. The sex wasn’t even that good. He should have known better. A man of his age connecting with a girl that was so much younger than he was. She must get around a lot. You know how young people are. They seem to think that they are indestructible. Mikie is swearing to himself that if he gets over this he will either be in a monogamous relationship or he will always use condoms. The doctor is finished now. He informs Mikie that his sample will be sent to the lab and he will call Mikie with the results. Now it’s a waiting game for Mikie.
Mikie decides to call Shasta. She informs him that she has no symptoms, so he must have gotten infected from someone else. But Mikie knows he hasn’t been with anyone else. He has done the responsible thing and called to inform her. What she decides to do is up to her.
Mikie’s doctor has sent the specimen to the lab where they will culture it. The specimen has been planted on blood agar and chocolate agar. If I am detected, which I should be, I will appear as small grayish white, convex, translucent, shiny colonies with either smooth or irregular margins. I have been identified. I am a gram negative diplococci. The doctor will be calling Mikie to tell him that he has gonorrhea. Penicillin should take care of me inside Mikie’s body. Hopefully he has learned his lesson, he was a nice guy.
Shasta on the other hand has refused to even contemplate being infected. I will now move to other body sites inside Shasta. I may cause pelvic inflammatory disease or disseminated gonococcal infection that may include bacteremia, arthritis and metastatic infection.
I am gonorrhea and I have been around for many years. If Mikie has not learned his lesson and does not practice safe sex, I no doubtfully will visit him again.
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| Mar 27 @ 5:13 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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Now Becky, are you trying to get me into more trouble?
MOI?? 
Blueschic
okay sorry but Im not seeing where you posting this explains why you attacked anyone?? In fact it kinda blows your case in the weeds.. since you are making light yourself with the humorous scenario as you put it to keep the attention of the listeners yet not to be taken ,lightly okay so I guess its okay for you to do so but not others hmmm kinda like you attacking but scream foul when you receive the same in return okay I don't get it
Man there has been oodles of duplicity lately cant some people just keep to one side of the fence
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| Mar 27 @ 5:42 AM |
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Blueschic
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No Becky you don't get it at all. If something is boring people don't pay attention. If the presentation peaks their interest and it keeps their attention and maybe just maybe something sinks in. If it prevents contraction of an STD mission accomplished. If humor is what it takes used in a positive way and it works then what you were trying to accomplish is a success. Your conclusion in that the way the message was "packaged" is to make light of the subject is entirely incorrect as was by evidenced by this composition being kept for future presentations.
I fail to see anything positive from the comments made to me by SensualGemini in regard to my post. He in my opinion took light of the situation and I was offended. Simple as that. That's not going to change. Each of you disagree. That's not going to change either. I am not trying to change anyones opinion as that would be futile.
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| Mar 27 @ 5:55 AM |
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BandTMom
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C: So back to Burns' definition, I think like should come first, then feelings of passion, the commitment, then intimacy. But of course a lot of intimacy can come before. It depends on the definition. ...Is there a specific time frame, or should there be? ...Oh... and what secrets do you have on Katt?
I don't think we can put a time frame on it. There are cases here people meet, fall in love within days and are married the rest of their lives. And then there are people that date for a very long time and then are divorced shortly after making a final commitment. So how can we put a time frame on anything? Waiting three days to call, sex on the third date and being recognized couple after five?? Nope. We are all different and what works for some doesn't work for others.
Of course, I believe in love at first site and that some times people are destined to be together too.
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| Mar 27 @ 6:23 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Blues: Neisseria gonorrhoeae
...Not certain about other places, but here, Mikie would be questioned about his recent experiences and the County Health Clinic would be visiting Shasta to have her tested and then antibiotics administered. In no uncertain terms, she would well know that refusal will bring criminal charges against her for the next victim that came forth.
...Gonorrhea is one of the oldest and easiest of all STD's to identify and eradicate, as symptoms occur rather quickly in males, but about half the females are not symptomatic.
...As Nah pointed out earlier, many STD's do not initially show up with testing, including the many strains of HPV, which may take up to 9 months of incubation and now the No #1 STD in the US with no cure. Chlamydia is No #2, but there is a cure, while HIV is another slow, but deadly STD and as with Herpes, there is no cure. Even Syphilis has a slow incubation period for testing, but is curable in the early stages.
...Pap Smears do not test for STD's...
STD's....
Blues: I read that you made your comment about the health cards because you were trying to display the light side of STDs but as you can see I failed and do fail to see the light side.
...He was being honest and so was I... today, it is simply common sense, common practice to be tested and have your potential partner tested; it could be a matter of life and death.
...If you have ever been tested, you would know they do give you a health card, something written that shows you are clean... or not of STD's and if not, simply ask for it. Any responsible and potential partner will be interested in same.
Blues: He in my opinion took light of the situation and I was offended.
...Nonsense, as I was the first to introduce being tested for STD's at the clinic and Two Tall was second. Your reply was rather nasty and uncalled for.
...The truth is, you were offended from the Political thread and you know it. You questioned my post and I bantered back as fair is fair. From your few postings, you don't like to be contested and you always have to be right... but when you are not, admit it and you will gain a lot more respect. I have done it many times...
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Becky: kinda like you attacking but scream foul when you receive the same in return
...Becky, it is no big deal... we have all seen many come and go through here with some point to prove, how much smarter they are than all the rest, some chip on their shoulder from recent or past events, etc.
...Some change and some don't. I gave her the chance for an apology above... all she has to do, is prove she was taking the high road and being a lady that was unduly chastised.
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C: Of course, I believe in love at first site and that some times people are destined to be together too.
...My sister met a guy while being a waitress at night, while a hairdresser during the day. He told he was going to marry her then and there and she told him where to go. A week later, they were married ... and that was over 20 years ago.
It is possible! ...
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| Mar 27 @ 6:34 AM |
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BandTMom
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Yes, it is possible. I think if a person is open to the possibility, but doesn't expect it or cling to the possibility, it can happen.
I also think it boils down to what we are looking for.
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| Mar 27 @ 6:38 AM |
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SensualGemini
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...She says you will know it when you see it..
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| Mar 27 @ 11:12 AM |
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kattsmeow
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...Oh... and what secrets do you have on Katt?
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