| Mar 23 @ 4:38 PM |
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NevrAgain
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Im curious. Has anyone else here hooked up with someone, and totally regretted ever becoming involved in the first place? Im looking for the nearest exit door, although since my move was long distance, thats easier said than done due to the expense, etc.
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| Mar 23 @ 4:58 PM |
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painter007
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Im sorry it went wrong. It could of had the same outcome if they were in the same town..In life we take risks, if we truely wish to live.
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| Mar 23 @ 5:39 PM |
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jamminjerry
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gosh, i was expecting you to be at least under 25. but since you are much older and much wiser, you did get a refundable round trip ticket. 
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| Mar 23 @ 5:53 PM |
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NevrAgain
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Stupidity knows no age limit Im afraid.  Return ticket? Wish it were that easy & simple.
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| Mar 23 @ 5:58 PM |
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jamminjerry
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well mam, it don't get any simpler nor any easier than a round trip refundable ticket. if anyone knows any simpler or easier answer, please let me know. we be jammin
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| Mar 23 @ 6:01 PM |
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Loreli
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Painter said it well.
I'm sorry you were hurt...best wishes to you
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| Mar 23 @ 6:10 PM |
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NevrAgain
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Thanks Loreli.  JamminJerry-Uhaul lets you schedule a return ticket? Sorry, Im being sarcastic which at least is a change from depressed or angry. What I have left, Id like to keep though if possible, which means truck rental again, few hundred in gas, 1st months rent plus deposit, etc.
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| Mar 23 @ 6:19 PM |
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sciurusniger
Posts: 2,959
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You can't put a monetary value on life lessons. If you play it right, this one is actually invaluable. Might be hard to see that now, but trust me, it's possible.
Good luck. It's never easy when something doesn't work out.
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| Mar 23 @ 6:34 PM |
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NevrAgain
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Thanks sciurusniger
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| Mar 23 @ 6:48 PM |
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Skydognc
Posts: 2,913
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what can I say girl......
your blog seems like you are getting more critisism than support.....
yeah, we both can swim for the paddle, like a few others here......
but one thing you will find...... true friends here, who understand!
Sci is right....... could have been much worse......
pick up the pieces, move on, evaluate, learn !
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| Mar 23 @ 6:51 PM |
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painter007
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I feel for you......but we need to pay attention to the flags You will survive and you have support here 
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| Mar 23 @ 6:53 PM |
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Skydognc
Posts: 2,913
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ok..... I gotta say somethn here........
how many of us, totally ignored the flags?
I am totally guilty !!!!!!!!!!!!!
because I dont / didnt want to believe it !
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| Mar 23 @ 7:18 PM |
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Jalon
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Yep, flags are always much clearer in hindsight! I think at the time we're too busy convincing ourselves otherwise.
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| Mar 23 @ 7:20 PM |
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selectiveman
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Is there not someone close to you, a friend or relative, back in your home area who's willing to help you short term, with a place to stay, and store some belongings until you get your own place ?
If so, you could maybe ship a lot of your stuff, and pack the rest in the car .
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| Mar 23 @ 7:30 PM |
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Skydognc
Posts: 2,913
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I just wanna green flag some day !!!!!!!!!!
then I will be happy, when I see the checkered one !
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| Mar 23 @ 7:50 PM |
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mailorderannie
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I almost moved to be with a guy, and for various other reasons it didn't work out. I've thought about what would have happened though IF I had moved and it went sour, and I know I would have been in the same situation you are in now.
I feel bad for you, because I'm sure selling a lot of your stuff wasn't that easy for you either. Give yourself credit for recognizing that its time to leave...a lot of people would stay just because they wouldn't want to admit that moving was a mistake.
Good luck getting back home...I agree with others here that hopefully you can find someone there to help you out.
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| Mar 23 @ 7:57 PM |
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robodad
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Wow, alot of flags on this thread...flag football, anyone?
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| Mar 23 @ 8:00 PM |
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burnslikethesun
Posts: 9,609
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Let me cut you a check right here right now.
Send me your yahoo.
Return ticket? Wish it were that easy & simple.
although since my move was long distance, thats easier said than done due to the expense, etc.
Big right where you claim you are. It wasnt at all hard to leave.
Nor did i go pan handling sites either. I packed, and left.
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| Mar 23 @ 8:03 PM |
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mailorderannie
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I don't think she's panhandling burns....and for some its not that easy to pack up and move.
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| Mar 23 @ 8:16 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Bull POOP Annie.
Been there done that heard it all. And still left.
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