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Always_Striving
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Do they have any place or temporary function in your lives?
What are "Yes Men"?
The "yes men" are guys that are willing to agree with women 100% of the time. These are the same type of guys that - when told to jump they'll ask.... how high?
They'll even pretend to favor everything that a woman likes.
Basically, they are the fakie types that only want to appease women temporarily to achieve their own real goals. After that, women find out what their personality is really like.
ALSO, ONCE THEIR REAL GOAL HAS BEEN ACHEIVED THEY MAY BE READY TO DUMP THAT WOMAN THEN MOVE ON TO PLAY THE NEXT ONE.
They consider women to be conquests and disposable at will.
Many people correlate them to "Players"
Some of them have "Leach" type personalities.
How do you recognise these types? Have you ever been a victim of one of these types and if so, how did you deal with them?
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| Apr 5 @ 8:37 PM |
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painter007
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I have never met a yes man...and would find it quite unappealing. 
Then again, my younger sister is married to a man who I would consider to be a "yes" man.....but thats because he treats her like a queen.....and she treats him like he's the last man alive.....Works for them.
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| Apr 5 @ 8:41 PM |
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Angel178
Posts: 22,614
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I was married to one...I'll never make that mistake again
I want to be with someone who will challenge me if they have a different opinion. Or, just plain say...no way! I found him 
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| Apr 5 @ 8:42 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,232
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I did too Angel. 
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| Apr 5 @ 8:45 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 20,144
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I had one of those many years ago...they get boring if they can't have discussions from their own viewpoint...
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| Apr 5 @ 8:45 PM |
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Angel178
Posts: 22,614
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 Katts....don't tell him that I like it!
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| Apr 5 @ 8:46 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,232
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Mum's the word Angel. 
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| Apr 5 @ 8:48 PM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 28,161
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Absolutely not.
I want someone with his own mind and that can challenge mine.
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| Apr 5 @ 8:48 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,881
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I want a man to have the confidence to be able to say no..................but not all the time
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| Apr 5 @ 9:00 PM |
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Angel178
Posts: 22,614
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Painter, that is right...they can have their own opinion, and they should. It's also good when they know the right time 
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| Apr 5 @ 9:45 PM |
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CathyCRN
Posts: 3,950
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I was married to one as well...never had an opinion or an original thought. So, I had no respect for him....not good.
I will not date a man that agrees with me all the time. BORING!!!
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| Apr 5 @ 10:52 PM |
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signme
Posts: 9,386
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When I first started dating the ex, he let me have my way about everything, what we did on a date, where we ate, what movie we saw, etc. I told him he should be more assertive. Well, after that I never got my own way! And in his last (I hope) communication with me he told me the reason we don't date anymore (haven't seen him since last July!) is because I get so pissed off when I don't get my way! (He's been busy telling me all the things that are wrong with me since I told him to stop calling me.) Is this sour grapes???
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| Apr 5 @ 11:00 PM |
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burnslikethesun
Posts: 9,585
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| Apr 5 @ 11:53 PM |
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beckyiv42000
Posts: 12,028
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Yes men are wimpy JMO .. someone who is equal is what I like.. and actually its nice for someone else to take the lead and make the decisions and even better when you can TRUST them to make them for you and not compromise your wants or wishes or beliefs so nice to be able to take a break from being boss and running things yanno?? 
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| Apr 6 @ 12:22 PM |
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michedkel
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Yes men traditionally are more appropriately called wusses. And in my own experience have found that that is a major turn off for women. I used to be the king of yes men and wondered why women never wanted to go out with me. I did become friends with alot of women, but never got lucky or if I did, it was usually because the woman got drunk. Striving, I've seen you post on this subject before and I think you would agree with my assessment. I have never seen a wuss who would dump one woman and go to another. Usually they consider themselves lucky just to be in a relationship.
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| Apr 6 @ 3:01 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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When I first met Ray, I made the mistake of thinking because he was generally easy going and laid back that he was too passive(or a yes man)....didn't take long to realize I was wrong. I told him I was glad I was wrong because I would have had to stop seeing him.
I want a man that has as much fiestiness, candor, humor, strength, quietness, compassion and passion as I do....and I have him. Sure..he can be annoying at times(who among us isn't at times?) but all of the good in him overshadows the annoying and makes him more then bearable and lovable to be with.
Yes men have an agenda, in my opinion, and it's to get what THEY want and once they either have it or find out they won't get it.. they move on. Anyone that agrees 100% with a partner has hidden characteristics that soon appear when something doesn't go their way
Give me a guy that challenges me but doesn't have the need to "be right" all of the time
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| Apr 6 @ 3:10 PM |
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ThangelM8
Posts: 2,392
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They have absolutely no place or function in my life!
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| Apr 6 @ 3:11 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,881
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But I dont want a bully that always says no. jmo
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| Apr 6 @ 6:16 PM |
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Skydognc
Posts: 2,653
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its always yes to sex..........
no to everything else !
works for me !
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| Apr 6 @ 7:08 PM |
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DwainP50
Posts: 5,009
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Not a Yes Man or an a$$ kisser here!  You know if you kiss a lot of a$$ all the time what are you to smell like?   Don’t need the brownie points myself! If I can’t get you to like me for myself why bother.  Plus if once she finds out you aren’t for real and full of sh$$, she will dump you sorry a$$. As they should!!!! 
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