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Apr 8 @ 12:28 AM Mr./Mrs. "Boundaries"

Makya

Posts: 1,131 Have you ever been in a casual dating situation where both parties enter with the understanding that neither is looking for anything too serious? Then it changes.

One person finds that they enjoy this person so much that it begins to become burdensome to remain casual. Is the other person feeling the same way, and neither of you choose to speak about it because of the prior "understanding"? Could the other person have no interest in pursuing anything more?

If someone finds themself getting in too deep should they break it off? Should they come right out and tell the other person? Should they try to stay in the casual relationship and keep their feelings to themself?

Apr 15 @ 2:09 PM Mr./Mrs. "Boundaries"

Moonwalk

Posts: 258 I met this situation to my married friends, when they date outside of their marriage, and then I help them by listening their stories because the situation cannot be change.
I think it depends why you set the boundaries...

Apr 15 @ 2:40 PM Mr./Mrs. "Boundaries"

SaintBacon

Posts: 1,679 Hmmm, I think that being honest about your feelings with someone you have a relationship with is the best bet. Even if the relationship started out casual, if one or the other is feeling something more develop, then I think sooner or later they are going to have to do one of two things: get out of the relationship, or come clean about the new feelings they are having. For me, it would be devilishly hard to keep those feelings to myself. It would also start having an effect on how I related to that person (wanting to me closer, more connected, etc.). The other person might not feel the same, you might even lose the status quo. But there is no sense in putting yourself through unnecessary heartache if what you begin to feel is stronger than what your friend is feeling for toward you.

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