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Danger
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i've seen advertisements on here for men looking to date married women. a FULL site of this?! is there some kind of excitement in dating a married woman/man? call me old fashioned but i would never date someone that was married or in a relationship...
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:06 PM |
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SyndilLucian
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I, personally, have no interest in dating a married or involved man. My guess would be that those sites are for women (or men) who don't respect marriage vows or themselves very much.
Edited to add:
And I think some men are willing to 'date' married women because there is no chance she can force them into a commitment they don't want.
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:16 PM |
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Loreli
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Yep, Danger...that's it...the excitement.
They want to "have fun" and go home to the person that may work as hard as they, keep house, raise kids, press his pants.
Sick.
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:19 PM |
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signme
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Not a site I'd even consider looking at. And if I get a wink or email from a married man I just delete it. Nothing in my profile says I'm looking for someone already in a committed relationship.
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:29 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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...hmmmmm....trend you say???.....married???.....  ........WHERE IS KATTSMEOW!!!!!!........  ........  ........ ..........  ......... 
ok Pepper....you can keeel me now...... 
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:31 PM |
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DwainP50
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I am single and have been since 1999! Now I will not date someone who is married and don’t care what she has thrown towards my way! I will not do that to another man because I know how it feels and the pain endured in having an unfaithful wife. I have said no to more than a few propositions while being in the military and now being single parent. 
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:36 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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ummm....you weren't ever on Ft.Dix/McGuire AFB between 1990-1995 were you? forget it......never mind 
J/K D ...but I know the plight of the married military couple....
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:48 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Don't do it to someone else's husband or wife, unless you are willing to have it done to you!
Here's a new concept............ "you reap what you sow" 
or
"what goes around...comes around"
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:49 PM |
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DwainP50
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Fort Drum during those years 
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| Apr 10, 2008 @ 9:50 PM |
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DwainP50
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I wouldn’t mind you coming around my way (1stsignofspring) 
[Edited on 4/10/2008 10:01 PM]
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 1:20 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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Married, but to me.
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 1:44 AM |
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pamdemonium
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If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.
Ask me how I know....
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 1:57 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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Okay...how do you know?.......
Actually, this wouldn't even be a topic of conversation if EVERYBODY
dated married people....that is....
if everybody, once they got married, simply remembered to
CONTINUE DATING EACH OTHER!
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 7:59 AM |
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SeaWhitegotlost
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And if I get a wink or email from a married man I just delete it.
And that's probably what I should do SignMe. What I actually do if I get an email from a married man looking for a "discreet relationship" is to give him a right good telling off!! 
I suppose my reasoning is that
1. I somehow still feel I should reply to all emails (but not all winks)
2. Being told his behaviour stinks might be a bit harder for a man to ignore than my simply deleting his email!
But I wonder if it actually makes any difference. And, if it doesn't, maybe I shouldn't waste my energy on it ...
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 8:01 AM |
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pamdemonium
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if everybody, once they got married, simply remembered to
CONTINUE DATING EACH OTHER!
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 9:01 AM |
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sciurusniger
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I'm too lazy to go dig out my saved copy of a great come-back comment posted somewhere here at MD a long time ago about this very subject, but it was along the lines of, "If your wife doesn't want...you, why should I?"
Which is the flip-side to, "If you don't respect your Self, why should anyone else?"
While it's impossible to legislate morality, a part of me finds the trend stated by the OP to be a disturbing one. It speaks volumes about how far we've come as a society from our Puritanical roots (not that there's much to be said for them, either; extreme of any kind isn't healthy). This isn't so much a condemnation of "open marriage" (that's a whole 'nother discussion) but a reflection of society's increasing acceptance of the lack of honor, loyalty, and personal responsibility towards one's stated commitments.
Sad. And scary. 
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 10:15 AM |
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Danger
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a part of me finds the trend stated by the OP to be a disturbing one.
thats why i thought i would ask...this was such a shock to see on here-an advertisement like that.
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 11:58 AM |
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BandTMom
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Go gold ad you won't see them. 
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 12:32 PM |
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Jalon
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ad you won't see them
Was that supposed to be a pun?
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| Apr 12, 2008 @ 12:35 PM |
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BandTMom
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No, it's this darn laptop keyboard.
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