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cybermate3000
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Ok, this post has me laughing right from the start. Mainly because I know how much trouble its going to get me in. lol. I have faced some criticism here already because i'm a married man looking for a relationship with another woman. And thats ok. I don't mind that. But lets all try to be fair. lol. Lets consider this backwards for a moment.
Should a married man want to date a single woman? In all reality, I must concern myself with the fact that the woman is single, and ask the very important question of "why". Why is she single? Being that there are endless ways to find a mate, singles bars, social clubs, libraries, friends, and the countless websites across the internet, why is she still single? In all reasoning, just how great can this woman be? Since it appears that nobody else wants her, seriously, should I?
And of course we all heard the excuses why they are single. No time to find mate because of work, not interested at this time, just broke up and needs space, didn't find the right mate, and so on and on and on. But whats the "real" reason behind all those excuses? Thats what I want to know.
At least a married woman is solid proof that she is willing to settle down. That she can/is/will participate in a long term relationship. That she is the marrying type. That she's not afraid of commitment. And so on. The single women, at best, they are still yet to prove themselves. They are pretty much a dangerous gamble. And obviously, being that they are still single, a gamble many are not willing to take.
Ok now people. Try to laugh. lol.
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| Apr 15 @ 5:43 AM |
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mailorderannie
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I'm laughing at how absurd your post is too!
Why a single woman wouldn't date you:
You can't keep a committment
If you can lie to your wife, you can lie to your mistress. Single women don't want to hear your lies.
You just want sex...there are plenty of single men out there that want the same thing, so the single guy is a better bet.
She doesn't want to hear all the excuses of why you will cheat on your wife, but don't want a divorce. Its all just a bunch of excuses and shows that you are lazy and won't take charge of your own life. If your marriage is that bad, get out.
If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, there's probably a darn good reason and its probably because you are a lousy lover.
A single woman is free to do what she wants when she wants. She doesn't want to sit around the house waiting until you have a few minutes to spend time with her.
How great can a single woman be? As great as she wants because she isn't carrying the dead weight of a lying, cheating, dead beat husband around with her. 
[Edited on 4/15/2008 5:49 AM]
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| Apr 15 @ 8:55 AM |
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cybermate3000
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wow. what an angry group we have at this site. Does anyone here smile? lmao. And I thought "I" was the one miserable. So far most of the posters here either have something to complain about, or criticize.
Chill the hell out people. Geeeeeeesh.
It seems that some people are good at passing out the insults here. But not very good at taking them. Go figure.
No wonder so many decent people leave this site.
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| Apr 15 @ 9:02 AM |
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wandaful123
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Bravo Annie!  Perfect response!
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| Apr 15 @ 9:10 AM |
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SaintBacon
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I don't think the people here are angry, and we know perfectly well how to chill. We just don't suffer fools very well  Oops, that was an insult wasn't it. My bad 
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| Apr 15 @ 9:11 AM |
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cybermate3000
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Are you at least smart enough to realize that your doing a better job at insulting yourself than you are me?
I doubt it.
Relax people.
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| Apr 15 @ 9:13 AM |
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Loreli
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It would seem to me that you are just dealing with people with morals.
You should get some.
Annie
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| Apr 15 @ 9:21 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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moral and alittle bit of intelligence. Did you actually think peeps are gonna giggle and find humor in Adultery?
Mainly because I know how much trouble its going to get me in. Then save your bitchin about peeps bitchin.
No wonder so many decent people leave this site. If this is your definition of decent your more then welcome to join them.
Are you at least smart enough to realize that your doing a better job at insulting yourself than you are me? Are ya askin or telling. Grow some balls.
And when another one of your interest come running to me or my gents, and you wonder why it happened again, remember this post.
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| Apr 15 @ 11:54 AM |
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mailorderannie
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As far as I can see it, you insulted single women in your post, then said it was funny. Throw an insult you are going to get hit with facts. Too bad you can't handle em.
Um..Saint...you are married too?
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| Apr 15 @ 12:05 PM |
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cybermate3000
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First, that opening post here was just a stupid joke in reply to the thread against my profile, and the posting of my profile in my posts by others. I'm in good humor. Its some of you that seem to be getting a little stressed out.
Some of you here need to calm down. Other people on this forum don't need this crap. You don't like what I do. You voiced your opinion, you hate me, and everything about me. Yes. I heard you. We all heard you. Now take it easy.
I mean really. Name calling? Whats that about? This has gone a little too far don't you think? Some of you really do have issues. Its one thing to be against something, which even I can respect, but its another thing to act in the manerism that some of you are displaying. Which does very little to support your complaint. Seriously, you are doing more to insult your own selves than you are me.
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| Apr 15 @ 12:14 PM |
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mailorderannie
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Okay, deep breath taken.
Let me explain something to you though from a single person's viewpoint and maybe you will understand why this hits home for a lot of people.
Many people here were married and had their spouse cheat on them. They've seen what cheating does to families and how it breaks hearts.
Secondly, there are many married men who think single women are easy prey. Quite a few women have been fooled into thinking the guy they were meeting was single, only later to find out he's married....some found it out a LOT later.
In both of these scenarios, people got hurt, so can you blame us for thinking any married man who would come into a single's site looking for an affair and flaunts it, is fair game?
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| Apr 15 @ 12:25 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Man your about as smart as a box of rocks aint ya.
I'm in good humor. BUT IT WASNT FUNNY. maybe to you, and that explains why your single.
I aint talking about or to anyone else in this thread but you and your lame ass humor and poor empty accusations.
Seriously, you are doing more to insult your own selves than you are me Um hello have you been reading the post? Ya need a shovel? It will help you dig alittle deeper. Cybertwig, leave if you dont like the response to your posting. It was in bad taste. Much like everything else about you.
Go try AMD.
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| Apr 15 @ 12:32 PM |
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willowy1
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Cybercheater you are self centered and only care about YOU! Your life is all about YOU. You don't care about your wife's feelings and you sure as hell don't care about the woman you are hoping to cheat with. You have nothing to offer a single woman. NOTHING.
So what is it the thrill of the forbidden? The excitement? The sneaking around? Or do you think that you are just so smart that you won't get caught?
I doubt that you have even given serious thought to the ultimate consequences? Losing your family, the betrayal of trust,STD's?
That's just not going to happen to you... right?
should we date single people? NO YOU SHOULD DATE YOUR WIFE!
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| Apr 15 @ 12:40 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Cybercheater 
NO YOU SHOULD DATE YOUR WIFE!
Why is it that the Mr. that got what I desire most treat it so bad?
Well when it get tired and turns arround the fair play, they get what the make I guess.
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| Apr 15 @ 1:06 PM |
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SaintBacon
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Yep Annie, I'm married too. To a wonderful, understanding, intelligent woman. Cheating on her would be a dreadfull sin of the worst kind. Fools like this character give us married men a bad name. Doesn't do much for the reputation of pigs either 
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| Apr 15 @ 2:58 PM |
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kissmya55
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Hey, as long as the other person knows that you are married and can make their own choice as to if they want to get involved. Date away. It just wouldn't be my choice. 
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| Apr 15 @ 3:08 PM |
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Loreli
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IMO, it is a very sad person that cheats on their spouse, or cheats with a cheater. There are too many single people out there...(for the single)
You took vows (for the married)
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| Apr 15 @ 4:29 PM |
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lobo65
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I think the single women here, and anywhere, could find a lot more reasons to not date a married man than he could to not date them. You should have realized that you would get the responses you did when you posted this topic.
If you want to date, or have sex with a single woman, fix your marriage or become single yourself.
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| Apr 15 @ 4:32 PM |
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pamdemonium
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^^^ Sexiest man on MD. I don't care if it's the wrong thread...He is.. 
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| Apr 15 @ 4:38 PM |
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lobo65
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Thanks. 
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