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Bionic_Angel
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>> How it started << Click here to find out. 
I was thinking if this is a going to be an ongoing discussion on a positive attitude to finding love and the Universal Law of Attraction then it would be best placed in the Forums. The blog link explains how it all started.
Please feel free to read and post your positive thoughts of the day. The idea is to encourage and support other people in their search for love. Of course questions and problems can be posted here too, the idea is to create a kind of support network. The reason for this is I, personally, who love Blogland to bits, find the constant bemoaning of the opposite sex by members a little bit of a drag. I love to write but I'm only here because I want to find a partner - whether I find him online or not I think my general attitude towards finding someone is all important, what I think, feel, say or write has to be positive.
It's an experiment, it may prove to be popular, it might disappear like yesterday's blog.
Feel free to join in or ignore. 
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| Apr 18 @ 12:54 PM |
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georgiapeach42
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It took me 2 years to finally get to the point that I am happy with my life as it is and that I don't NEED a man in my life. I just changed my profile to even show I was looking again. I don't want to jinks it but I have been talking to someone special.
I will keep you informed.
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| Apr 18 @ 1:01 PM |
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budo13
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i support any one's search for love and i hope they find what they seek BUT IMHO looking for love on the Internet is a fool's pursuit (not saying that their hasn"t been success) their are tooooooooooo many scammers and disingenuine people i prefer to look for love the old fashion way looking into her eyes the windows of the soul
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| Apr 18 @ 1:01 PM |
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ladros
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'want' and 'need' get mixed up sometimes because i think it perfectly normal to have the feeling of needing a significant other in our lives
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| Apr 18 @ 1:08 PM |
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SaintBacon
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Good Idea BA. I can think of few things more worth while than finding that special someone. I have been truly blessed in this department, and wish that all of my friends here find the kind of love that they desire. Wow, what a positive way to end the week! 
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| Apr 18 @ 1:11 PM |
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kattsmeow
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This is a good idea.
Looking for love can be so hard, so I say, look for friendship. Look for people that you enjoy, then it all falls into place sometimes.
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| Apr 18 @ 1:15 PM |
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Bionic_Angel
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Budo 13 : I appreciate your comments but we're not just talking here about looking for love online - personally I've pretty much given up on online dating but it doesn't mean I've given up altogether. This is about putting out into the Universe what we want - I'd really like to leave the discussion as to whether we're doing the right thing or not in the blogs. I've come here to form a united positive front - some of us genuinely want to find a partner, how we find them isn't up for discussion, it's more about changing our personal attitude and encouraging one another to be the best we can.
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| Apr 18 @ 1:17 PM |
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Bionic_Angel
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Well done Peach - it took me 8 years to get to that point, so you're doing great. Don't worry about jinxing anything, just enjoy each encounter for what it is. Don't hang all your hopes on them but stay open to the idea that if it's meant to be it will work out. Equally, if it's not right for you it won't. We just have to trust that the Universe has our best intentions at heart...... and our friends too, we're backing you 1000%
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| Apr 18 @ 1:20 PM |
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Bionic_Angel
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Ladros - according to the Universal Law of Attraction - want and need is irrelevant, it's about knowing what will make us happy and putting that intention out there in a positive way. No "I don't want" this kind of person - if we do that that's all we'll get. How many people put "No scammers, time wasters, unsolicited sexual emails" on their profiles and then find that's all they get? How many people put "no liars or game players" on their profile and find themselves dealing with just that over and over.
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| Apr 18 @ 1:29 PM |
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jerzygrl328
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Like other's have said, I'm at a point where I am happy with myself and my life. I do deserve someone who appreciates and cherishes the "me" that I am. I'm ready for it to happen and when the time is right, it will! Until then, I'll enjoy everyday for what it brings...
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| Apr 18 @ 1:32 PM |
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georgiapeach42
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Right now he lives in Mississippi, but was born in GA. We are taking our time getting to know each other and maybe it will work out. He said he needs a reason to move back here. I am trying to be that reason.
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| Apr 18 @ 1:36 PM |
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ladros
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yes once we find our significant other its fine to need them because then you have found the person that puts that want into you
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| Apr 18 @ 1:39 PM |
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budo13
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all the positive reinforcement in the world will not matter until one learns to love oneself despite all of the perceived negatives must learn to expect nothing and never be disappointed, Change is effected by only one
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| Apr 18 @ 1:47 PM |
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cartay25
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This is great Angel A place for us to gather and let each other know that it's ok to feel good about yourself and what you are looking for in life. Be it in love, career or everyday life a positve attitude can make a difference.
Good luck Peach. 
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| Apr 18 @ 1:47 PM |
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Bionic_Angel
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Budo : Exactly, and that's what we're here for. Looking for happiness outside of yourself is a waste of energy. It is only through self love and finding happiness from within that we create the right vibration to attract the same to us.
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| Apr 18 @ 2:15 PM |
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Bionic_Angel
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Jersy: That is just the attitude we're looking for. I'm firmly convinced we have to love ourselves first or why would anyone else want to.
I've made what some might view as mistakes with men since I've been dating again but I don't see it that way. I've learned something from each guy. I've learned it's OK to be me but I should also keep a little something for myself. If they're really looking for a serious relationship they'll be happy to take things slowly.
I've also learned that although all men like sex and subconsciously it may motivate them, if they have the "hello sexy" approach, they're not just being friendly, they're only interested in sex - no matter what they might like to tell us.
I used to think everyone deserved a chance. It's not about that, it's about common courtesy - I'd never approach a guy with a sexual reference so why should I accept a disrespectful approach. Nothing wrong with just wanting sex, just be up front about it and give us who aren't the opportunity of saying "thanks but no thanks". 
Being online should be no different to meeting offline - there is such a thing as nettiquette - However some think they can say whatever they want - things they'd be too embarassed to say in person.
I've been very niave, I'm the first to admit it, but maybe on some level at that time I didn't think I deserved anything better. I now realise I do - not only that, I deserve the best. It's not too much to ask to be treated with respect.
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| Apr 18 @ 3:29 PM |
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Blueschic
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Hey good luck all. I didn't know this was going to be a club accessed by the forums. I hope it's a great success. I prefer to stay in blogland.
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| Apr 18 @ 3:44 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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My thoughts for the day -
Think happy. Think of anything that makes you happy, and those endorphins kick in, and before you know it, you really ARE happy. That opens you up to all the good things around you.
Give. Give all you can in any way you can. Even if you get a slap in the face in return, keep giving, because it's the giving that's important, and the joy you get from it.
Charity. If you need it, take it gratefully, and when things are better, remember that you need to pass it along. Just do it and the world will become a better place.
And before you know it, you may find somebody on your doorstep with a bunch of flowers who'll literally sweep you off your feet...
Yeah, I did.
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| Apr 18 @ 8:11 PM |
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leprichaun_magic
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yes, I think youre right ,,[ btw ,,"heaven .]. think Happy ..
does work ..but still good to have a support network around .. to bounce ideas off?:) 
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| Apr 18 @ 8:14 PM |
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Makya
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their are tooooooooooo many scammers and disingenuine people Budo, I have found that to be the case the old fashioned way as well.
Okay, so Angel, do we get special decoder rings and t-shirts?
[Edited on 4/18/2008 8:15 PM]
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