| Apr 26 @ 5:16 PM |
What are good questions to ask to get to know someone really well?
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Palomino
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Silvertongue62 said:
There are none! (good questions)
There is only the illussion we want to create about ourselves which forces us not to be truthful about who we really are. When was the last time you heard someone say I am a liar, or a troll, or insecure, or obcessive ect....? But I can bet you a dollar to a donut these same people when asked gave you answers from utopia for which you later found to be less than accurate. Many of us veiw the world through rose colored glasses in an attempt to paint our own existence as one of openess and righteousness. We use code words like compatibility, taste, preference, and a whole host of other nobilities to hide our personal issues.
If you really want to get to now someone well?
Take the time to!
Put the effort in!
And be true to yourself before all others.!
50 questions later you still know nothing about the person.
Were they lying or telling the truth?
  
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| Apr 26 @ 5:21 PM |
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ThangelM8
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Silver pretty much said it all!
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| Apr 26 @ 5:22 PM |
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SpiritEnergy
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but I am a good listener to the things that aren't said.
People read between the lines, but she listens between the words? Yes, some people definitely can.
I try not to give away too much info about how to get to know people because when it is posted here, anyone can research it from the internet. Including the scammers. The less said in public, the better. I try to never give ammo to the other side. Why put guns in the hands of people out to harm you?
[Edited on 4/26/2008 5:25 PM]
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| Apr 26 @ 5:24 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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When was the last time you heard someone say I am a liar, or a troll, or insecure, or obcessive ect....? <-----------------a lying scoundrel always up to no good ... 
Oh and insecure and chubby with tendencies to steal candy from children...
just to set the record straight! 
Seriously.....good post Silver...as usual...Oh sensible one
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| Apr 26 @ 5:40 PM |
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Il_Uomo
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 honestly.....I never thought of you in that way..(as being.."chubby"....)
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| Apr 26 @ 5:43 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Well thank you ll............and you didn't have a problem with me lying? 
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| Apr 26 @ 5:50 PM |
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Palomino
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Spring......
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| Apr 26 @ 5:57 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Oh yes and pali....I have a list of very important questions for you since I am sharing a cabin with you on the camping trip.......and if I have to share a cabin with you then I need to know you really well
Do you snore quietly or loudly?
Do you want the top bunk or bottom?
Do you talk in your sleep...if so...I will bring a tape recorder...
Will you get really angry if I put your hand in warm water while you sleep?
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| Apr 26 @ 5:58 PM |
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SpiritEnergy
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| Apr 26 @ 6:04 PM |
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Palomino
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I just KNEW you were going to question me! But I figured you would wait until the camping trip.
OK, here goes. Are you listening? ~giggle~
Do you snore quietly or loudly? I'm not sure. You would have to ask Robo.
Do you want the top bunk or bottom? I'd prefer the top bunk unless I can have a bottom bunk to myself. I sleep nekkid. Oh ewwwww.....I guess that wouldn't be a pretty picture if I was climbing down from the top bunk.
Do you talk in your sleep...if so...I will bring a tape recorder... I refuse to answer this question on account that I don't want to be recorded. 
Will you get really angry if I put your hand in warm water while you sleep? Not if I'm on the top bunk and it has plastic mattress covers to make the pee run down to the bunk below. 
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| Apr 26 @ 6:06 PM |
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Palomino
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Spring, do you mind if I bring my pet bearcoon into our cabin? I know he's just as excited to meet you and I am! 
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| Apr 26 @ 6:06 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Fair enough then....I will opt for the top bunk as well....that will keep the shenanigans down.......remember...Heaven is our roomate as well
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| Apr 26 @ 6:08 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Oh NOOOO you don't! No bearcoons....
On second thought I did fall out of my air mattress last year...maybe I should stay close to the floor....
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| Apr 26 @ 6:12 PM |
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Il_Uomo
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you lied to me
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| Apr 26 @ 6:15 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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| Apr 26 @ 6:15 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Uomo, depends on which part of Spring you're looking at...some of her is ahem....QUITE chubby... 
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| Apr 26 @ 6:17 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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That would be "2" things Heaven.....
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| Apr 26 @ 6:17 PM |
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Il_Uomo
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are you refering to her pouty lips?
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| Apr 26 @ 6:18 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Yes..that is it....my pouty lips.... 
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| Apr 26 @ 6:29 PM |
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Il_Uomo
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