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Is My Worrying Justified, Or Do I Seem Jealous? In Much Need Of Advice!
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brianhof_65
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Hi everyone. This is my first post, so please bear with me. I'm 21 and have been dating the love of my life, also 21, for what will be a year and a half in June. Well, I live in Mississippi and for the better part of the last 6 months, she's been going to college in Georgia. Thankfully, we've been able to keep a happy and healthy relationship, despite the distance. In about a month she gets to come home for summer break, and while talking to her on the phone last week, she informs me that the weekend after she gets back, she's going to Florida for three days to visit an old, very good guy friend (not boyfriend, i repeat: not an ex-boyfriend), whom she hasn't seen in forever, and whom I have only met once in the past, just to hang out and catch up. I trust her more than i have ever trusted any girl or anyone, for that matter, before, and we have a very loving and honest relationship with each other. I'm just catching a bad vibe from the whole situation. I'm probably just worrying for nothing. Maybe I am a bit jealous that she's spending her second weekend back with an old friend.
My questions are: 1. Who's in the wrong here? If anybody
2. Is my possible Jealousy justified?
3 And, am I worrying for nothing, over something that's probably Harmless?
Any Advice would be most appreciated, but please, no nasty comments.
Thanks for hearing me out. Looking forward to hearing everyone's feedback
-Brian
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| May 5 @ 11:55 AM |
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Loreli
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The "jealousy" is because you haven't seen her much for awhile, and to leave right away without you probably hurts.
But you're both young. Who knows how she really feels about him?
You should let her go with no fuss.
When she comes home, be yourself, ask her about her trip...did she get to go to any beaches or parks, etc...watch her face and body language. You may be able to see if she gets evasive, etc. But don't PUSH...be happy to see her!
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| May 5 @ 2:41 PM |
Is My Worrying Justified, Or Do I Seem Jealous? In Much Need Of Advice!
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Bluebonnet72
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Being jealous is normal and human in the limits of course !
Try not to press her and let her free ......in case of something not clear you will notice 
I agree with Loreli 
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| May 5 @ 4:35 PM |
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Makya
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Good advice Lor
I say let her know your reservations so she can give you reassurance.
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| May 5 @ 4:40 PM |
Is My Worrying Justified, Or Do I Seem Jealous? In Much Need Of Advice!
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CHARLIgurl1
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I have a question for you Brian,
WHY are you jealous?.. has she given you good reason before.. or are you just insecure?
Most peoples emotions like this are based on passed experiences.
Trust is the no1 priority in a relationship.. things can get rocky if one starts distrusting the other.
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