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fenderchick
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How long would you go without intimacy in your relationship if you truly loved someone?
One mth, a week, people are so different and get so worked up about this?
...Fendering minds need to know!
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| May 5 @ 12:14 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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in my mind.. how long... is not as important as the why?
once I found out why.. I would know how long I would wait... 
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| May 5 @ 12:17 PM |
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peachylisa
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i went 10 years in an 18 year relationship
never again not for a single minute 
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| May 5 @ 12:30 PM |
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Loreli
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If I "truly loved someone", that would mean I had gotten to know them, spend time with them, talk about anything and everything.
Whenever it happens after that, it happens...
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| May 5 @ 12:33 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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i went 10 years in an 18 year relationship
 who was incarcerated..???
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| May 5 @ 1:18 PM |
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warrior674
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As long as it takes I guess...
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| May 5 @ 1:23 PM |
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fenderchick
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See I've went months, but then again when I was single, I was celibate for over 4 years..
I just don't get that 4-5 mths no love when you've already had that in the relationship.
Also, why do men get so pissed off when you ask if they can't get it up? I know I'm going off on another tangent here but my ex didn't touch me for almost 5 mths, he said it was because he was mad at me.
I don't get it 
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| May 5 @ 1:32 PM |
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Pete73052
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How long would you go without intimacy in your relationship if you truly loved someone?
Forever.
Also, why do men get so pissed off when you ask if they can't get it up? I know I'm going off on another tangent here but my ex didn't touch me for almost 5 mths, he said it was because he was mad at me.
I don't get it
Keep asking guys why they can't get it up and you may never... um... get it. 
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| May 5 @ 1:36 PM |
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fenderchick
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That could be true, it's just I waited so long for him I was actually concerned whether it was something medical or not.
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| May 5 @ 1:43 PM |
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Pete73052
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Sounds like it was emotional. Hey we men aren't machines you know... we gotta be in the mood too.
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| May 5 @ 1:55 PM |
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pamdemonium
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How long would you go without intimacy in your relationship if you truly loved someone?
Forever.
That's the most romantic thing. He gets it. 
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| May 5 @ 2:25 PM |
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kattsmeow
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That could be true, it's just I waited so long for him I was actually concerned whether it was something medical or not.
I know I'm going off on another tangent here but my ex didn't touch me for almost 5 mths, he said it was because he was mad at me.
 Now that was a bad excuse he had. Good thing he is now an ex huh?
Pete, you mean men aren't machines??? 
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| May 5 @ 2:28 PM |
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fenderchick
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According to him it was emotional, I was using him  For what I don't know?
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| May 5 @ 2:32 PM |
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Pete73052
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Pete, you mean men aren't machines???
Well, as long as you keep winding Haban's crank regularly... you're sure to get a lifetime of satisfaction.  
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| May 5 @ 3:22 PM |
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lj450
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Also, why do men get so pissed off when you ask if they can't get it up? I know I'm going off on another tangent here but my ex didn't touch me for almost 5 mths, he said it was because he was mad at me
I would think that if you wanted "it up", you would be nice and kind and suckingly gentle.....take it in your little hands and really breathe some life into the little fella.
Rather than standing there with your hands on your hips, pointing and laughing as you bellow.....GET IT UP DAMMIT, MOMMAS WAITIN!! *taps foot*
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| May 5 @ 3:27 PM |
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SyndilLucian
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Well, you certainly weren't using him for sex! 
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| May 5 @ 3:28 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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 ....I don't get it.....
edited for.....( LJ's post...)
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| May 5 @ 3:32 PM |
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Silver1961
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i went 10 years in an 18 year relationship
Ya would have beat me by about 9yrs 11mo 
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| May 5 @ 3:38 PM |
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SyndilLucian
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What Fender said,
According to him it was emotional, I was using him For what I don't know?
My comment was, obviously she wasn't using him for sex!
and OT-- I agree with GH.. depends on what the reason is. But still...  
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| May 5 @ 3:53 PM |
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SaintBacon
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Due to cancer, Mrs. Bacon and I have gone 5 years. Chances of us ever being "intimate" in that sense again is nil, but it hasn't hurt our relationship one little bit. We can still cuddle and that is all the intimacy I really have to have. We ripped it up good for 20 years and those memories are pretty special, so I don't feel bad at all about the situation. I still have two good hands! 
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