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tru2me

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I'm suffering from another identity crisis esp. when it comes to dating! Maybe a third opinion would help. Am I asian or american? I mean, I was born and brought up here in a very americanized home and only speak one language but I'm obviously asian in appearance. But when it comes to the dating world I don't know who to find more of an affinity with. Asian guys for one thing seem so elusive and distant.
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| May 6 @ 2:47 AM |
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SunBabe

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Aniana, why in the world can't you just accept the fact that you are a WOMAN and stop with the doggone "Asian" hang up?
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| May 6 @ 6:57 AM |
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michedkel

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You are an American and a woman....'nuff said.
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| May 6 @ 9:24 AM |
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SaintBacon

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Agreed. You are an American. Look for the one that touches your heart, regardless of their ethnicity. Culturally, you are American. Be proud of your Asian heritage, but don't apply any restrictions on yourself in regards to where the man's ancestors came from. If a guy seems right for you, treats you with respect and makes you feel special, then it's all good!
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| May 6 @ 10:08 AM |
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DwainP50

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| May 6 @ 10:09 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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If you want to date Asians date Asians. There's nothing wrong with "sticking with your own", a lot of people like to say there is....there's not. Many people do it they just don't announce to the entire world that they do it. So do what you want and be proud of who you are. Also, American is an "attitude"....
but don't apply any restrictions on yourself in regards to where the man's ancestors came from. she's totally free to do that if she wants to.
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| May 6 @ 10:10 AM |
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Makya

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Why does it have to be one or the other? If he's gonna be treated right, he can be Asian, American, and anything else under the sun.
Hell I'll take a Martian if he's gonna treat me right!
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| May 6 @ 10:15 AM |
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DwainP50

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Whose this Martian guy?
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| May 6 @ 12:48 PM |
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Blondino

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Date whoever you take a liking to and stop thinking in categories
How about dating a Mongolian ... or Irish .... or Greek
try em all out and let us know 
I am working my way around the globe .... Finland next
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| May 6 @ 1:05 PM |
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1RockinDude

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Date whoever you feel you are attracted too
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| May 6 @ 1:05 PM |
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Makya

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Don't forget the D*mned Martians! Little green men need love too.
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| May 6 @ 1:20 PM |
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DwainP50

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Date them all until you find the type you like!!!
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| May 6 @ 2:35 PM |
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emptypages

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do whatever you want. Why are you asking our opinion?
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| May 6 @ 6:18 PM |
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swingpup

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In my opinion Asian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world.
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| May 6 @ 6:20 PM |
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lj450

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I prefer the ones who are half asian, and half caucasion....their boobs are generally bigger than the 100% asian variety.
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| May 6 @ 6:38 PM |
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Makya

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There he is.
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| May 7 @ 1:19 AM |
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Kenn159

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In my opinion Asian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world Choose whoever floats your boat and as Makya says, Martian's need love too, so consider one as a dating partner. I dig the females floppy green antenna's. Grrrwow! Such a turn on.
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| May 7 @ 1:22 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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In my opinion European women are some of the most beautiful women in the world.
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| May 7 @ 8:12 AM |
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Automotor

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Date who ever is buying the brews
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| May 7 @ 10:06 AM |
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DiamondRain

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tru2me
Your comment about Asian guys seeming "elusive and distant" struck a chord.
I've had the same feeling about many women I have met of Asian heritage.
I don't want to overgeneralize, but you'd have a hard time convincing me that there isn't something in common in the cultures of many Asian countries that is behind this observation.
But I have to go with those who have voted for Asian women (particularly from certain countries) as being some of the most physically beautiful in the world. .
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