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May 6 @ 2:44 AM date asians or americans?    
tru2me


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I'm suffering from another identity crisis esp. when it comes to dating!
Maybe a third opinion would help.
Am I asian or american?
I mean, I was born and brought up here in a very americanized home and only speak one language but I'm obviously asian in appearance. But when it comes to the dating world I don't know who to find more of an affinity with. Asian guys for one thing seem so elusive and distant.
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May 6 @ 2:47 AM date asians or americans?    
SunBabe


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Aniana, why in the world can't you just accept the fact that you are a WOMAN and stop with the doggone "Asian" hang up?
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May 6 @ 6:57 AM date asians or americans?    
michedkel


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You are an American and a woman....'nuff said.
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May 6 @ 9:24 AM date asians or americans?    
SaintBacon


Posts: 1,679
Agreed. You are an American. Look for the one that touches your heart, regardless of their ethnicity. Culturally, you are American. Be proud of your Asian heritage, but don't apply any restrictions on yourself in regards to where the man's ancestors came from. If a guy seems right for you, treats you with respect and makes you feel special, then it's all good!
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May 6 @ 10:08 AM date asians or americans?    
DwainP50


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May 6 @ 10:09 AM date asians or americans?    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,088
If you want to date Asians date Asians. There's nothing wrong with "sticking with your own", a lot of people like to say there is....there's not. Many people do it they just don't announce to the entire world that they do it. So do what you want and be proud of who you are. Also, American is an "attitude"....

but don't apply any restrictions on yourself in regards to where the man's ancestors came from.

she's totally free to do that if she wants to.
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May 6 @ 10:10 AM date asians or americans?    
Makya


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Why does it have to be one or the other? If he's gonna be treated right, he can be Asian, American, and anything else under the sun.

Hell I'll take a Martian if he's gonna treat me right!
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May 6 @ 10:15 AM date asians or americans?    
DwainP50


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Whose this Martian guy?
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May 6 @ 12:48 PM date asians or americans?    
Blondino


Posts: 4,265
Date whoever you take a liking to and stop thinking in categories

How about dating a Mongolian ... or Irish .... or Greek

try em all out and let us know

I am working my way around the globe .... Finland next
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May 6 @ 1:05 PM date asians or americans?    
1RockinDude


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Date whoever you feel you are attracted too
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May 6 @ 1:05 PM date asians or americans?    
Makya


Posts: 1,131
Don't forget the D*mned Martians! Little green men need love too.
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May 6 @ 1:20 PM date asians or americans?    
DwainP50


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Date them all until you find the type you like!!!
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May 6 @ 2:35 PM date asians or americans?    
emptypages


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do whatever you want. Why are you asking our opinion?
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May 6 @ 6:18 PM date asians or americans?    
swingpup


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In my opinion Asian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world.
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May 6 @ 6:20 PM date asians or americans?    
lj450


Posts: 8,407
I prefer the ones who are half asian, and half caucasion....their boobs are generally bigger than the 100% asian variety.

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May 6 @ 6:38 PM date asians or americans?    
Makya


Posts: 1,131


There he is.
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May 7 @ 1:19 AM date asians or americans?    
Kenn159


Posts: 2,774
In my opinion Asian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world

Choose whoever floats your boat and as Makya says, Martian's need love too, so consider one as a dating partner.
I dig the females floppy green antenna's.
Grrrwow!
Such a turn on.
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May 7 @ 1:22 AM date asians or americans?    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,088
In my opinion European women are some of the most beautiful women in the world.
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May 7 @ 8:12 AM date asians or americans?    
Automotor


Posts: 258
Date who ever is buying the brews
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May 7 @ 10:06 AM date asians or americans?    
DiamondRain


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tru2me

Your comment about Asian guys seeming "elusive and distant" struck a chord.

I've had the same feeling about many women I have met of Asian heritage.

I don't want to overgeneralize, but you'd have a hard time convincing me that there isn't something in common in the cultures of many Asian countries that is behind this observation.

But I have to go with those who have voted for Asian women (particularly from certain countries) as being some of the most physically beautiful in the world.
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