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May 8 @ 7:39 PM Hopeless romantic in loss of hope :(    
SerenityAnn


Posts: 1 		Yes I know I am young and I have plenty of time to find my match or my partner. My question is why do I have to deal with so many messed up relationships to get to "the one"? Is ther such a thing?

Why is it that I can not find a good guy wih good intentions?

I have learned that you can REALLY never judge a book by its cover.

I have had a few reltionships in my short life so far. The men you least expect to hurt you do it to you the worst :(

I have never done a forum before so I am not sure what I am doing I guess just trying to vent and talk to other people that understand what I am going through.
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May 8 @ 8:27 PM Hopeless romantic in loss of hope :(    
marylou


Posts: 10,619 		Sure....many understand what you are going through.....many have been there. But unfortunately..we live in the world of goodies and big bad wolves.....all in the world is not positive...LIFE IS GOOD!!.....BUTTTT.......bad experiences....hurts....disasters of one kind of another.....tragedies and so forth.....are just as much a big part of life as anything else. None of us are prepared for everything in life that can afflict us......whether sickness or anything else. We grow through the *not so nice* experiences as we do from the *good ones*. You are young yet. You have tons of time.....you will learn as you go and grow.....how to deal with things. AGE and wisdom through experiences teaches you that. DEALING with things.....takes practice.....and lots of it. You may have many heartbreaks...to get to that place. Many of us say *WHY ME*.....when it comes to the bad stuff......and there is no answer. All we know is that many others go through similar. We can only LIVE our own lives and the cards that we have been dealt so to speak.......but KNOW....that you are not alone.....not on your own......and OTHERS have gone through similar experiences as you. And if they havent yet....they *may* one day.

Hope this has been a little helpful......
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May 8 @ 8:32 PM Hopeless romantic in loss of hope :(    
Silvertongue62


Posts: 6,932
Yes I know I am young and I have plenty of time to find my match or my partner. My question is why do I have to deal with so many messed up relationships to get to "the one"? Is ther such a thing?

Why is it that I can not find a good guy wih good intentions?

I have learned that you can REALLY never judge a book by its cover.

I have had a few reltionships in my short life so far. The men you least expect to hurt you do it to you the worst :(

I have never done a forum before so I am not sure what I am doing I guess just trying to vent and talk to other people that understand what I am going through.

Make better choices and you will get better results. We live by the decisions we make.
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May 8 @ 8:53 PM Hopeless romantic in loss of hope :(    
marylou


Posts: 10,619 		TRUE.....we either make a decision to meet someone and to get to know them......but we have no control over how we find them to be. Meeting people and getting to know them is part of life.......and not everyone is going to be the *ideal* or what we are looking for.....some WILL BE cheaters or liers or such. BUT....if we dont make that decision to go and meet someone......then we dont get anywhere....and STOP LIVING.
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May 8 @ 9:04 PM Hopeless romantic in loss of hope :(    
pamdemonium


Posts: 14,546
Make better choices and you will get better results. We live by the decisions we make.

Some things are much harder to get out of than into. Good rule of thumb. jmo
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May 9 @ 1:00 AM Hopeless romantic in loss of hope :(    
marylou


Posts: 10,619 		....each time we start a relationship we can feel like we have made a good choice at that time.....but later they can turn out to be snakes......but there is no sign of it for the first 3 mths...6 mths.....sometimes one year. For some it turns out a good choice and remains that way........but not in every case or even many cases. Liers...cheats and deceivers are everywhere......you can live alongside them for years.....and not know.....as in Holly Berry.
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