| Dec 26, 2005 @ 12:23 PM |
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RareQuestor

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I was rather surprised today when I checked the "Viewed Me" link and noticed that a lot of men have been recently checking my profile. I am wondering if this is something that I should be worried about. I once had an ad at another site that the owners mistakenly placed in the homosexual category (even though I specified in the ad that I was searching for women!) I contacted the owners about it, but still got some strange messages and soon canceled that ad. Is there some way to find out whether this has happened again or is there another explanation?
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 12:26 PM |
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msdodie835

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the one thing you don't have to do is answer a wink or email. so, no one knows how to contact you except thru here...also they just might be looking but, don't contact when they see your profile doesn't mention key words to encourage them to reply to your profile....don't worry, be happy.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 12:30 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower

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I think it may relate to the forums...about ten percent of the people who've viewed me are fellow females, and I've never been approached by any of them . I think it's just a natural curiosity to look at the profiles of people whose posts you've read (I do it too!)...something like reading the author's bio on the dustjacket cover!
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 12:32 PM |
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spongebob777

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I sometimes look at mens profiles. It's not that I'm seeking a man or anything, it's just that some profiles are more interesting than others.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 12:52 PM |
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Classy_Blonde

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Spongecakes,
We are so relieved to know you aren't hitting on the guys here. The girls would be very upset, if they learned they had no chance w/ you.
Same as Heaven. When I read forum posts, I often want to know who I'm posting w/. I do it all of the time. Gives me a better idea of who the person is.
Then again, you are a cutie. Maybe the guys think you are a hottie.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 12:55 PM |
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MotownManiax

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Well, Rare, since I'm not Gold status I can't see who has been viewing me. After your post, maybe that's a good thing?
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 1:00 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR

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Maybe their scoping out the competition
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 1:06 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower

Posts: 15,333
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Mo...you may not have had everyone, but you sure have been viewed by everyone!
Oops forgot...Sponge too...especially to check out his blog.
[Edited on 12/26/2005 1:07 PM]
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 1:07 PM |
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chinabull2000

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I view male profiles of some of the guys that post on these boards a lot, and believe me, it's certanily not romantically or sexually related! lol
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 1:43 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR

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I view the womens..no no haven`t changed me preferences..i still like the
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 2:01 PM |
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Classy_Blonde

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I viewed MoMo's this morning, because I thought he said he had brown eyes in a post here. I could have sworn they were another color. I was right.
Tinker you're right about the competition thing too. Good one to bring up.
Why did your banana leave you? Hope you aren't too sad.
You might want to try changing your preferences. What about dating a cucumber instead?
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 2:23 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR

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Cause HE--------------> ran off with the cucumber!!
Ok...The reason I view the womens profiles is I like to see the competition ..NOT..I view them simply because I like to learn all I can about the person or persons I`m chatting with..
I in no way feel competitive...so I don`t consider anyone as someone I`m competing against...not even lookin` at da moment..my choice
But I can still take that flirtin` class
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 3:18 PM |
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Classy_Blonde

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Your banana was bi-sexual???
I knew what you meant about the competition, but it is another thing to add to the list for some.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 3:24 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR

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Bi indeed..the prevert
I know...don`t know why people have to compete..after all theres enough men out there..where competing shouldn`t enter into it..after all you can`t force someone to like you if they like another
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 3:34 PM |
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Pete73052

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I agree with China - I look at the profiles of men on this forum for any number of reasons (attraction not being one of them). I woudn't get too worked up about it. OTOH, it wouldn't hurt to post a less metro-sexual photo too... just sayin'...
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 3:58 PM |
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Classy_Blonde

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I like his photo. It's sexy, in a subtle way. Alas, he's too young for my taste.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 4:35 PM |
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dictatario

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If I am talking to someone specific on the Instant Messenger, and I lose the connection, whilst trying to reconnect, I tend to browse other profiles. I have also checked out the competition. It doesn't matter who views you. If they message you, though, and they aren't what you want, just ignore them!
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 9:33 PM |
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NJSteve176

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When I read a retarded post I just have to take a look at the profile - man or women.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:17 PM |
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Classy_Blonde

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Are you speaking of me, Steve???
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:38 PM |
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NJSteve176

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You're just a drop in the bucket
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