| May 23 @ 7:29 PM |
I need help .... pushy guy ... to many hands ..... bad date ... eeekkk!!!
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SKIDELZ
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ok ,
This happens to me like twice , sometimes three times a day.
Someone will mail me ,
I'll repond and introduce myself , nothing scary , or psychoish ......
Normal chit chat ,
They never write back.
what the hell???
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also I had a pretty bad date yesterday , and the guy attempted to try everything under the sun to get me to sleep with him , he was very pushy and stated things like " we'll see " when I told him no ... before he ever got to me I made it clear that I was not going to sleep with him , but he attempted to anyway ... and was weird nasty about other things ....
Then when he got home he called right away , I cut him short , he knew I was upset .... appologized via e mail .... then acted like he didn't know why I was upset later on that night ..... he is much younger than me and I'm not sure as to what exactly my question is , but do men stop worring so much about getting laid as they get older ?
do I give this guy a second chance?
I mean I was very very sick and didn't cancel cause I had done so once before , I have known him for a year , through here .... and I donno... all I know is he had no respect ....
he also said , well I guess now I have better matterial to jerk off to ..... but we didnt do anything .... which also really creeped me out .....
he also said he would masterbate before we went out again , so he wouldnt have to be all over me ....
am I being to harsh to never ever speak to this man again ???
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| May 23 @ 7:32 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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OK, you're 25, so is he a teenager? Actually he kind of sounds like it. 
Short answer to your question though - was there anything that made you think he might be worth seeing again? From your post, it didn't sound like it, but only you know for sure!
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| May 23 @ 7:34 PM |
I need help .... pushy guy ... to many hands ..... bad date ... eeekkk!!!
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sciurusniger
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Too harsh? You've described a pig (and apologies to the swine species). Unless you like wallowing in filth, I say walk and don't look back and don't give him a second thought.
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| May 23 @ 7:34 PM |
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mailorderannie
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all I know is he had no respect ....
Do you really want to date a guy that won't respect you? You look like a smart lady who deserves, not only to be respected, but not to be "jack off material."
Walk away guilt free.
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| May 23 @ 7:35 PM |
I need help .... pushy guy ... to many hands ..... bad date ... eeekkk!!!
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BandTMom
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Shorter answer (  )......no.
Run very fast.
And as for the first part of your post, it happens all the time. I am as puzzled as you are about it.
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| May 23 @ 7:40 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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You know what puzzles me even more? A year or two later, when you barely remember who they are, there they are again...chatting as though it was yesterday.
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| May 23 @ 7:54 PM |
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Nightowl001
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Anyone who would be so crass as this guy comes across is trash. No, it would not be harsh to not ever talk to him again. Not ever talking to him again is the smartest thing to do in regards to this idiot.
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| May 23 @ 8:11 PM |
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Jalon
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What really sucks is when you've been exchanging great emails for a number of weeks, getting to know one another and then you don't hear from them again! It's enough to make you paranoid! This happened to me (again) just recently and I'm positive it will happen plenty more times.
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| May 23 @ 8:33 PM |
I need help .... pushy guy ... to many hands ..... bad date ... eeekkk!!!
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SKIDELZ
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OK, you're 25, so is he a teenager? Actually he kind of sounds like it.
lol he is twenty .,,,, I broke rule number one I never date younger than me ... Im so young , its like dating teens .... ugh
you guys are all right and I think I knew that ...
I think I feel a little guilty cause I've known him for so long .... I only wanted to hang out with my friend but ened up feeling very violated ... i have not answered anything from him .. but I think he may get stalkerish 
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| May 23 @ 8:36 PM |
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SKIDELZ
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he was very disgusting ... and for a little boy , he was way out of line .... I felt as if he thought I was a 17 year old who would just give in ....
your right , I said that to him .... that I was a woman and needed to ne respected as such .....
Im not attracted to him , and I think this made it worse ....
running is probably my bast bet .... thank you all of you 
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| May 23 @ 8:39 PM |
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willowy1
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Just lay it all out to him. Don't sugarcoat it. Unacceptable behaviour. Or tell him to call you in FIVE years!
And the answer to your first question is~NO! 
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| May 23 @ 8:41 PM |
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Always_Striving
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Sounds like you and men don't hit it off very well......... try dating women.
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| May 23 @ 8:47 PM |
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BandTMom
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Jalon said:
Posts: 387 What really sucks is when you've been exchanging great emails for a number of weeks, getting to know one another and then you don't hear from them again! It's enough to make you paranoid! This happened to me (again) just recently and I'm positive it will happen plenty more times.
Oh how well I know about this one. 
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| May 23 @ 8:59 PM |
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SKIDELZ
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oh I have one that has been in my mail for like a year , and never says more than a few words .... its really strange and wont exchange numbers ... and he lives in town ... I cant tell if he is just soft spoken or idk , but he always mails me ....
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| May 23 @ 9:21 PM |
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emptypages
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that's pretty gross to be talking about masturbation to you on a first date. This guy sounds desperate and immature.
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| May 23 @ 9:53 PM |
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peachylisa
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first tell him to stop snorting viagra
then stay away from the sex freak
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| May 23 @ 10:38 PM |
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SKIDELZ
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that's pretty gross to be talking about masturbation to you on a first date. This guy sounds desperate and immature.
yeah , again I think it was the age , but after my shocked reaction , he mentioned it like 4 or five more times ....
It's not the first time something weird has happened to me , involving someome and masterbation , but it's still really creepy
first tell him to stop snorting viagra 
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| May 23 @ 11:23 PM |
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daisy315
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run darlin.. run..
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| May 24 @ 1:16 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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but do men stop worring so much about getting laid as they get older ?
when they get smarter ..the answer is yes...
food for thought.. after you said no to where a normal person would know that you meant it.. he is crossing the line.. and can be charged with attempted....yeah thats right..
http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/attemptedattempt v. and n. to actually try to commit a crime and have the ability to do so. This means more than just thinking about doing a criminal act or planning it without overt action. It also requires the opportunity and ability. Attempts can include attempted murder, attempted robbery, attempted rape, attempted forgery, attempted arson, and a host of other crimes. The person accused cannot attempt to commit murder with an unloaded gun or attempt rape over the telephone. The attempt becomes a crime in itself, and usually means one really tried to commit the crime, but failed through no fault of himself or herself. Example: if a husband laces his wife's cocktail with cyanide, it is no defense that by chance the intended victim decided not to drink the deadly potion. One defendant claimed he could not attempt rape in an old Model A coupe because it was too cramped to make the act possible. The court threw out this defense. Sometimes a criminal defendant is accused of both the crime (e.g. robbery) and the attempt in case the jury felt he tried but did not succeed. Copyright © 1981-2005 by Gerald N. Hill and Kathleen T. Hill. All Right reserved. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ATTEMPT, criminal law. An attempt to commit a crime, is an endeavor to accomplish it, carried beyond mere preparation, but falling short of execution of the ultimate design, in any part of it. 2. Between preparations and attempts to commit a crime, the distinction is in many cases, very indeterminate. A man who buys poison for the purpose of committing a murder, and mixes it in the food intended for his victim, and places it on a table where he may take it, will or will not be guilty of an attempt to poison, from the simple circumstance of his taking back the poisoned food before or after the victim has had an opportunity to take it; for if immediately on putting it down, he should take it up, and, awakened to a just consideration of the enormity of the crime, destroy it, this would amount only to preparations and certainly if before he placed it on the table, or before he mixed the poison with the food, he had repented of his intention there would have been no attempt to commit a crime; the law gives this as a locus penitentiae. An attempt to commit a crime is a misdemeanor; and an attempt to commit a misdemeanor, is itself a misdemeanor.
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| May 24 @ 10:26 AM |
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SKIDELZ
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when they get smarter ..the answer is yes...
when do they get smarter???
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I dont think he needs charges brought against him ....
and when you do do something like that , as a woman your entire life gets put on trial ......
it's not worth it
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