| May 28, 2008 @ 11:50 AM |
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huggybear123
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ive known this girl(both almost 17 years old)for 2 years now, when we were in school together 2 years ago then we seperated schools we had feelings for eachother but a fool of me i didnt do anything she even gave me a kiss and etc. now ive been starting to hang out with her again during her work breaks since we both just found out that we are going to the same school again starting in september, 2 days ago ive decided to ask her out in person and also wrote a love letter to express myself even more at the same time, her response she told me that "she honestly needs time to think about it" and never heard of her again since 2 days ago. like is she saying this to not be mean and shes actually saying NO fck off? or tryna hold me off at much as possible OR actually thinking its been 2 days...but i deff know shes not a that mean to ignore me what should i do? any opinions on what shes thinking? was i to late...?  
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:04 PM |
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Loreli
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You're both young.
Talk to HER.
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:08 PM |
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huggybear123
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thats what i want to do today, but im afraid that im going to make her mad..? and that she thinks im pushing her...but at the same time i dont want to wait more then 2 - 3 days ugh.....
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:11 PM |
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Loreli
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Well, if she told you she needs time to think, let her get in touch with you when she's ready!
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:12 PM |
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huggybear123
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i guess..how long should i give her? 
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:15 PM |
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DiamondRain
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I agree... talk to her. But dont ‘be pushy.
Maybe think of something fun to do that isn’t too serious ... and ask her if shed like to go with you.
Don’t be afriad. All you can do is give it your best shot.
If she is interested, she will let you know. If she is not, you don’t lose anything by trying.
Never be pushy, but don’t be afraid to be honest and give it a try. If it doesn’t work out, it will hurt a while, but you will find someone else. And you will always be able to say you were honest and gave it your best shot.
Talk to her, be nice to her, be honest and treat her response with respect.
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:19 PM |
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huggybear123
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thx alot guys  i feel way better now i hope it works out...ill probably pass by her work tomorrow...from school
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:24 PM |
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DiamondRain
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Good luck my friend.
If you know you were truthful with yourself and with her, and you know you gave it your best, most honest effort, you can’t got wrong.
Most women appreciate a man who can do this and are flattered by the attention even if they are not ready for a relationship.
And no matter what happens, you will always be able to know that you did your best. That’s a great feeling even if you don’t always get what you want.
Good luck!
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:30 PM |
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huggybear123
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haha aw thx man...yah she was totally flattered by me she kept on asking me "can i read it now, can i read it now, can i read it now" hahaha..  btw is there anything else i should know? like what to say to her because the only times i get to see her is at her work and i dont want to embrasse her infront of customers and co-workers(works at starbucks) so its really busy haha... any more advice i should know cause im listening and learning 
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:42 PM |
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Loreli
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Go to her station, order a cappucino, since you already "had" something, casually say, would you like to see a movie tomorrow?
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:45 PM |
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huggybear123
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sounds gooooood :P lol hehe, i like movies and all. but ive heard movies are not so good for first dates? cause you are not able to connect with the person just sitting there watching the movie but not talking...? is this true i was thinking of taking her skating but i respect your advice im not saying its bad lol xD 
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:52 PM |
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huggybear123
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well "had" something...yah but i dont know it was confusing she gave me a kiss and never seen her again until 2 weeks ago i guess she had feelings for me it was kinda obvious i guess she mixed up right now
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:53 PM |
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waiting41
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you're kidding, right?
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| May 28, 2008 @ 12:54 PM |
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huggybear123
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kidding about what? im kinda new at this
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| Jun 5, 2008 @ 7:27 PM |
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TheDangerZone
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Dude... You gotta take the chance... You gotta take your balls off the mantle, yeah, those things the size of elephant ears, and reattach them to your groin... This is how you do it...
Go down to Radio Shack and pick up a megaphone and a new car stereo, with an amp... You gotta have an amp for this...
Next, go out and buy a copy of Meatloaf's greatest hits... I know, sounds corny, but girls really do like Meatloaf... Why do you think they cook it all the dang time....
Drive over to her house at like 2 AM, park outside her window... Then, put in Meatloaf's Paradise by the Dashboard Light.... Set the player t repeat... Turn on your amp and then turn the volume up full blast... Put the megaphone/bullhorn right in front of your speakers...
Grab a dozen red roses, rip them out of the wrapper and shove the stems down your shirt... Then start singing the song to her... This wil let her know just how crazy you are or her....
Good Luck Man!!! 
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| Jun 5, 2008 @ 9:18 PM |
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Loreli
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Is there an update? 
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| Jun 6, 2008 @ 12:26 PM |
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daisy315
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personally.. it would scare the heck outta me if someone I never dated sent me a love letter.. I would turn tail and run..
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