| May 31 @ 12:58 AM |
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SKIDELZ
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Ok so this man , who is 41 , not someone I would be interested in not only based on his picture , but on his profile and age winked at me about a week ago ...
I didn't answer cause I wasn't interested ...
So a day or two later he sends an E mail ...
it was only a sentence or two so I didn't answer
I figured he would just move on ...
So a day later he winks again .... then the same day , he sent a two or three word mail .... I answered .... I just Sais hi im Sandra ...
so , he mailed again ...
I mailed .... he is now writing only a few words and wants me to go to yim ....
I answer my mail when I get to it ... I am not always here when it says I am ... my computer is not on ...
so .... he mails ,
I dont answer ..... an hour goes by ..... he winks ..... then ..... he just mailed again ....
I didnt even open them and have not said more than five words to thins guy since our first mail ....
why ... in gods name ... do people do things like this ?? All it is showing me is that you have no patience .... are not willing to wait cause I have a busy life ..... your needy ... and have stalker potential ...
not only that ... it's getting under my skin ... I dont answer to anyone .... don't call on me like your little sow or something ... your trying to get a date . ; why blow it before you get started ???
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| May 31 @ 1:03 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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and the thing is is that I know he is trying to get me to go to yim to cyber hook up .... thats not me and why be of so little words and still be all upo in my winks and mailbox like a little boy jumpinmg for candy .....
this shit really ticks me off .....
It makes me feel like you want me to do what you say ... like mail me right now .... ught ah
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| May 31 @ 1:11 AM |
ok wtf .... this really is annoying
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BandTMom
Posts: 28,408
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That's why they make the block button.
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| May 31 @ 1:22 AM |
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SyndilLucian
Posts: 1,046
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Which I make use of constantly.
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| May 31 @ 1:38 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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which I just remembered existed ..... I think I had a vent moment lol sorry
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| May 31 @ 1:39 AM |
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SyndilLucian
Posts: 1,046
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It's fine, I hate emails like that. And once you get that upset, you just can't think straight, at least I can't.
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| May 31 @ 5:43 AM |
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marylou
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...know how you feel SKID....had a few of them myself.....maybe not as bad.....but if I dont do what they want.....they write back with some nasty comment......specially if I reply.......thanks but no thanks.......in a respectful way.....not as harsh as the thanks but no thanks.....but put it in a nicer and more polite way.........they get peed off and say all sorts. PSYCHO cases....thats what I think they are. Probably had issues with ex wives or whatever......and want to mentally bash someone else.....grrrrr. 
(there should be a *grrrrrrr* sign on here........ 
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| May 31 @ 9:00 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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I said:
ok look .. I see you... I have not had the time to write ... im working ... but the mail is there ...
the very next mail was ...
this is my yim ********** can we go chat over there
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I said ...
No , I don't like to talk to people from here on yim
... he said
. . . ok sorry
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| May 31 @ 9:04 AM |
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SyndilLucian
Posts: 1,046
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well, at least he said sorry, I have had guys get mad because I won't talk to them anywhere but here... i love that block button!
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| May 31 @ 9:16 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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I never get that far lol ... It is so hard to find someone who just speaks lol there all one worders
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| May 31 @ 10:17 AM |
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Loreli
Posts: 20,313
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In general, there is nothing wrong with nicely saying hi, but once a person "keeps it up", and you aren't interested, it's best cutting it short. 
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| May 31 @ 10:22 AM |
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zazazabuza
Posts: 75
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Ahhh... you poor women and those perverts. Id make use of the block button like everyone said lol
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| May 31 @ 10:46 AM |
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robodad
Posts: 5,863
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Why not block them this way? 
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| May 31 @ 11:05 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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loreli !
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the perv thing I bloxk I get a lot of perves .....
I almost feel guilty blocking someone like this guy only cause im not sure if he is a perv or not ... and I kinda feel really judgmental ... like im only not talking to him cause im not attracted to him ...
but then he got annoying but I think im just using that as an excuse !! lol
(((( quick note )))) im a libra on the cusp of scorpio ...
just incase ur wondering why I babble and sound so back and forth lol
Robo !! lol thats really cute !!
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| May 31 @ 1:55 PM |
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straighttalker
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well stop flashin your tits off!!!
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| May 31 @ 2:01 PM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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no wtf I got them when I didnt show my half a boob ...
there is a difference between having CLASS and approaching a woman with CLASS and being distastefull
and what the hell does my tit have to do with this thread or anything that was just said ...
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| May 31 @ 2:04 PM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,381
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you know my old picture showed nothing ... I still got them .... I could have no picture still get them ... cause men are men ... and some ... will chase just about anything .... ugh .....
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| Jun 4 @ 12:23 AM |
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EducatedRita
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 Oh, Jesus, dont I agree with MaryLou and Skid...I was sharing this yesterday with my friend Mystery, told her that I get similar situations...same about myself, I am on and off, about to take a shower..or go to work...or read a book..or scratch my nose...lol...just the fact that I had a mail from some man (initial contact one), does not mean I rush to computer typing back straightaway...but my God, dont they get spiteful when I finally DO find time to get back to them...they accuse me of all sins imaginable, its like - I OWED them ALL my time, and maybe, heart, lungs and kidneys too 
I really think so. I got a very hateful message from one man yesterday, I did nothing bad towards him except that I did not indulge in a chat marathon with him straightaway, and did not make him my "friend" straightaway as well, well, I got SUCH a passionaly negative letter from him, that I just sat down wondering with my hair going up:-)....I was just surprised and startled at the fact to what EXTENT some people contain, preserve and cherish their inner "poison"...does it not affect their OWN health, mental and physical? No doubt it destroys them too..cant help but agree with those ones who think its their unresolved issues from their broken marriages, or unrequited loves, or whatever:-)...I also had different times on my love stage, but I dont get vindictive towards the others because of it..
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| Jun 4 @ 6:50 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Rita: I also had different times on my love stage, but I dont get vindictive towards the others because of it..
...There is a reason why some people are single and absolutely no reason to immediately leave this site for another messenger service.
...As most have experienced "smothering," any form of initial demands or vindictiveness is an absolute signature to be recognized as the insecure, potentially jealous stalker of tomorrow. A response is guaranteed to cost at least something, with the minimal being emotional negativity and who needs more negativity in their life?
...In my opinion, a "wink" does not remotely qualify as a confident effort to say hello, but rather an insecure, if not lazy attempt to "test" the waters for any reciprocated interest and totally optional to respond or not... typically not.
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| Jun 4 @ 10:53 AM |
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simirae
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wow.. yeah wheres the block button sis? have to use it cuz have been getting a few very strange and disturbing messages on here, old old men keep messaging me and winking at me, one old old man from i think it said Afghanistan messaged me and said he liked my pro and wants me to move to Afghanistan to be his wife...  that freaked me out a little..
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