| May 31 @ 10:37 PM |
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tahoma
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The idea was brought up in S, Q & Games that this might make a good thread topic.. I did a search and this particular question hasn't been posed amongst us...
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How would YOU define a lover?
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| Jun 2 @ 10:13 PM |
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drs297
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when they say no thank you, it was a great time and give the money back
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| Jun 2 @ 10:23 PM |
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SyndilLucian
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That is a hard one. I guess I would have to say there is a difference between a lover and someone you just have sex with. A lover wants to be with you for more then sex, they want to be there for the good times and the bad times. The other just wants the sex and then leaves.. that would be my take on it.
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| Jun 2 @ 10:35 PM |
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Jalon
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I think of a lover as a person who does care for you, but doesn't want any real commitment...kinda similar to a friend with benefits but they actually like you. Or, a lover can be someone you began walking down the road of a "relationship" with, but it burned out fast and furious...real feelings were there, just not lasting ones.
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| Jun 2 @ 10:36 PM |
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SyndilLucian
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Yeah, what ^^ she said.. that really says it well.
 
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| Jun 2 @ 11:01 PM |
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wandaful123
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I dream that my lover will be my life-long partner. My best friend and confidant... he with laugh with me, dance we when are alone, touch me as walks by, tell me how beautiful I am and mean it through his eyes. He will anticipate me as I do him and hang on throughout the night. He will miss me when we are apart but accept that life offers seperation at times so that we may rejoice in one anothers arms when time brings us back together...
He will Love me physically, emotionaly and honestly. He will have no doubt he is loved in the same manner.
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| Jun 3 @ 8:14 AM |
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oct_cat
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It depends what context the term is used in. If a person is already in a relationship & also has a lover, then I'd have to define that as a sexual partner with no strings attached.
If the term is used in the context of describing a person that someone loves such as a spouse or SO, then lover could be defined in the way that wandaful described it, which is how I also would define a lover. 
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| Jun 3 @ 8:25 AM |
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LaughTillYaPuke
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For me, a lover is someone that I am in a commited relationship with. It's the whispers in the dark, intimacy on many levels. A lover is someone that you don't take for granted and they feel the same about you.
It's different than an SO. A lover knows your secrets and loves you anyway. It's passion, day-to-day living, and real life. Just on a more intimate level. It's a fine line that needs to be walked to keep things fresh. Your priorities straight.
Whatever...I'm babbling again.
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| Jun 3 @ 8:36 AM |
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drs297
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wow.. I'm way off on my definition, better look at it again.. 
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| Jun 3 @ 9:13 AM |
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pamdemonium
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If I have a lover that means I love him. It's not casual.
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| Jun 3 @ 11:11 AM |
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wandaful123
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If I have a lover that means I love him. It's not casual
uh-huh... me too.
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| Jun 3 @ 11:34 AM |
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Jeffky49
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Wow..........I think LTYP description says it best
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| Jun 3 @ 1:33 PM |
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Tunes4u
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Wanda's was good too......
A man could learn to like it in a place like those two describe......
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| Jun 3 @ 1:36 PM |
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signme
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I'm still thinking about my answer. Will have it one of these days.
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| Jun 3 @ 2:42 PM |
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Loreli
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IMNSHO, a lover is more than just a friend, that you are intimate with, but haven't necessarily made a committment.
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| Jun 3 @ 3:17 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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How would you define a lover?
man or woman perfect for us 
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| Jun 3 @ 4:40 PM |
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drs297
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for us? are you a twin? never did twins before, not identical that is
[Edited on 6/3/2008 4:40 PM]
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| Jun 3 @ 4:40 PM |
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waiting41
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It's whomever I'm having an affair with on a given day.
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| Jun 3 @ 4:42 PM |
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drs297
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| Jun 3 @ 4:42 PM |
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wandaful123
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For me, a lover is someone that I am in a commited relationship with. It's the whispers in the dark, intimacy on many levels. A lover is someone that you don't take for granted and they feel the same about you.
It's different than an SO. A lover knows your secrets and loves you anyway. It's passion, day-to-day living, and real life. Just on a more intimate level. It's a fine line that needs to be walked to keep things fresh. Your priorities straight.
Aha!!! I just got it! (little on the slow side most days...)
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