| Jun 13, 2008 @ 9:58 PM |
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sonic07
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back to topic....
I"ve learned.............Live and Learn from my mistakes..and proceed with life, we only have one so make the best of it..
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 10:06 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
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Posts: 2,343 Willow has as much right (not to mention far more capability) that just about anyone on this site to express her observations.
You, of course, may feel free to ignore her comments; I found her statement completely on topic.
Well...since you don't govern this site NOR ME...mind your own business. I have as much right as anyone to post whatever my opinion or thoughts are without first getting you or her approval.
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 10:28 PM |
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capobeachguy
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I have as much right as anyone to post whatever my opinion or thoughts are without first getting you or her approval.
As do she and I, without your approval, as long as we adhere to the rules set forth by Matchdoctor, which I believe we have.
You stated that "I've learned to trust no one." Personally, I find that quite sad and I am entitled to hold and express that opinion. You, of course, can choose to disagree.
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 10:40 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
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You stated that "I've learned to trust no one." That's correct...I did state that...it's my "personal" opinion which I'm entitled to have without you or anyone else ridiculing it.
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 10:40 PM |
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SunBabe
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I've learned to trust no one
How sad. 
I've learned to trust most people until they show me differently.
Same way as in offline-life. (But I've also learned to read "red flags" -- sometimes even pink ones. That's when I usually make the choice not to even think of getting involved or appear to lead someone on.  Makes life a lot easier for everyone...especially me, lol)
sonic said:
I"ve learned.............Live and Learn from my mistakes..and proceed with life, we only have one so make the best of it
Yep! That's it! 
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 10:42 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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If he hits you once, he will hit you again.
Controlling behaviour does not equal love.
It is not okay for someone to berate you but it is even more reprehensible for them to berate you in front of your peers. It is even worse when they ask their friends to destroy your property.
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 11:23 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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I learned that when someone is hurting.. that sometimes others tend to want to poke at fresh wounds..instead of just nodding and saying something Like.. "I understand how you are feeling right now.. but in time you will learn to trust again..."
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| Jun 13, 2008 @ 11:49 PM |
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CathyCRN
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Or, I'm sorry for your loss (or whatever) and I'm here for you if you need me...that's all...
I've learned that every other man is not my ex...look at every relationship as a new and exciting journey...who knows what will happen!!!
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 12:57 AM |
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EvolvednReal
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I've learned to be true to myself, not to let myself be diverted by someone else's goals.
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 4:21 AM |
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custis
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I have learned enough stuff to fill volumes.
One of the most important observations I have made is that there are a number of basic character types out there who consistently behave in a very predictable manner and need to be avoided. These include but are not limited to the following.
Party girls.
Meth heads.
Alcoholics.
Physical or verbal abusers.
Spineless followers.
Rescuers.
The fiscally irresponsible, most notably, those who cannot be trusted with credit cards or charge accounts.
Drama addicts.
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 8:23 AM |
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BeachCrete
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I have learned that if she has been hurt before and doesn't trust....then you are only setting yourself up for a big let-down if she says that she does, because she doesn't and never really will trust any man!
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 8:32 AM |
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Annie544
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I have learned that I can trust my own judgment.
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 9:56 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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I've learned that certain types of people are untrustworthy and they will never change.
When it comes to on line relationships..let people "earn" your trust don't be quick to hand it over and then wonder why they deceive you 
"Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 10:03 AM |
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BeachCrete
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^^^^^^^^You will never be able to let your heart trust...as soon as they get close your defense mechanism kicks in and you start the accusations...all because of your suspicions and paranoia.
You are fooling yourself! 
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 10:22 AM |
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jamminjerry
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i also trust most people ( unless they are wearing a uniform). i have learned that with the majority of women, there is an unbridgable snapse somewhere along the distance from their brain to their hand. that is where a man becomes handy, aka "handy man". i have yet to create a relationship with a woman who does not almost immediately use the words " can you fix this for me?" . CALL MR FIXIT!! i have enuff problems in my own life! should i ever find an independent woman who can actually use the phone for her own benefit, i just might hook up, hang out, maybe even talk about more than just tonight. we be jammin 
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 10:24 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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^^^^^^^^You will never be able to let your heart trust...as soon as they get close your defense mechanism kicks in and you start the accusations...all because of your suspicions and paranoia.
Not nice to take "your" personal accusations public.. 
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 10:37 AM |
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marylou
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....that us people are funny little creatures....we may feel one way this month and another way another month. That people can be complex creatures. Approach with caution at times......but also with humour. That people are as different as the foods we eat.......but as necessary as the air we breathe. That people are like jagsaw puzzles......different shapes and different sizes. And that they all cant be judged the same way......as they come from different backgrounds and have had different life experiences...many sadder and more disturbing and more traumatised than others. That sometimes your best friend can turn into your worst enemy. That loss of any kind is a large part of life........and that we have to learn to recover from it as best we can.......and to try to move on.. To swallow our pride at times.....and to reach out.......and allow others to support us. The world is like a merry-go-round........it wont stop for us to get off......so we have to keep on riding the cycle of life.....as scarey as the unknown may be.
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 11:41 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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.....need to be avoided. These include but are not limited to the following.
Party girls.
Meth heads.
Alcoholics.
Physical or verbal abusers.
Spineless followers.
Rescuers.
The fiscally irresponsible, most notably, those who cannot be trusted with credit cards or charge accounts.
Drama addicts.
that sort of narrows the field down to...
....one ?? 
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 6:14 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I have learned that if she has been hurt before and doesn't trust....then you are only setting yourself up for a big let-down if she says that she does, because she doesn't and never really will trust any man!
Sorry, but this isn't true. Maybe for some people it is, but it's not always true.
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| Jun 14, 2008 @ 6:42 PM |
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Loreli
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I've learned if you need to "fix" a relationship....it doesn't happen here.
If you really want to build one up...it may not belong here either
If you don't want to fix it....
move on and be happy!
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