| Jun 19 @ 9:38 PM |
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capitalview
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Movies remind us they are fantasy when some regular looking dude is getting an obvious knockout .
Following are 16 most mismatching movie couples:
http://movies.yahoo.com/summer-movies/The-Love-Guru/1809932977/photos/370
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| Jun 21 @ 6:43 PM |
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jdc67
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women are completely unpredictable and from experience in person. I've had some unexpected results.
I've had a few experience where i dated women out of my league and many times were I was rejected by those around my equal or so that was my take..
You really never know
But then if your some old lazy looser with nothing to offer hitting on any hot girl in her 20's Yah get real
the same goes in reverse. What would a grandma age women think she could offer or have in common with me...I rarely get emails but the few have been quite interesting.
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| Jun 21 @ 7:46 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I don't believe in "leagues". The idea is childish to me. My boyfriend and I are on way different attractiveness levels. He's much more attractive than me. Of course, he doesn't think so and he thinks I'm gorgeous.
It's funny though that on the tv and in movies you hardly ever see an unattractive or average looking woman with a gorgeous looking man when in real life I see this quite often. It kind of pushes the idea that a woman's looks matter over everything else and a man will not "date down". My friend Jeanine and her ex were a perfectly good example of this. He was very good looking and she is below average (hate to say it) in the looks area...yet he loved her very much and he considered her the most beautiful woman in the world.
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| Jun 22 @ 3:12 AM |
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jdc67
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you have an excellent point lipgloss.. The idea of league is silly. I guess at a few points in my life i have been bless with having met women who for that time saw something worthy in me..
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| Jun 22 @ 4:03 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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League = Compatibility ..
(  imho...there is so much more to the story than just looks...  )
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| Jun 22 @ 4:18 PM |
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kattsmeow
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There is no such thing. I can't imagine anyone thinking this.
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| Jun 22 @ 4:39 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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No one above the age of 16, anyway
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| Jun 22 @ 6:36 PM |
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lobo65
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I think a lot of guys, myself included, think a beautiful woman is out of our league, so we don't even try to approach. Or we think she has to be taken. I know every time I'm out, and see a hot lady by herself, her boyfriend always appears within a few minutes.
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| Jun 22 @ 9:06 PM |
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michedkel
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Noone is out of anyone's league much less attractive women. I have found that attractive women in general are looking for a guy who can make them feel good regardless of what the guy looks like. It's all about creating attraction.
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| Jun 22 @ 10:06 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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I agree Mich.....alot of good looking women are sitting at home and not dating at all because men won't approach them.....it doesn't matter about who's the better looking......I don't believe in leagues.....it is really not about looks...only compatibility...and the whole package. Men that are considered great looking can be proud, conceited and abusive sometimes just like an average Joe......people are people....no matter what they look like. 
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| Jun 22 @ 11:44 PM |
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emptypages
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Capital, I'm in disagreement with you on this one. I've seen some very beautiful women with fat, bald, or average looking dudes. And NO, not all of them had lots of money to conpensate, because I knew some of them. But they must have had lots of charm. It is harder, but not impossible.
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| Jun 23 @ 6:42 AM |
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michedkel
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Spring, alot of beautiful women are approached by men every day, but most of these men are all wussy around women, kissing up to them.... complimenting them on their looks, buying them things, laughing at all of their jokes even when they're not funny and so on. They do all of these things hoping the woman will like them. I know because I learned the hard way and spent literally thousands of dollars only to find the girl go home with a total loser while I went home and masturbated and telling myself that it was her loss. When I learned that a woman could like me because of how I make her feel, not what I do for her, THEN the girl was leaving someone else and she was going home with me. The bottom line is I finally learned to just be myself.... funny, masculine, intelligent, deep, confident and no wuss. I have a great rule of thumb, I never buy a woman a drink at a bar.
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| Jun 23 @ 10:25 AM |
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pamdemonium
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When I learned that a woman could like me because of how I make her feel, not what I do for her, THEN the girl was leaving someone else and she was going home with me.
That's a pretty apt description. I've always told my daughter...handsome men come and go. In time, you don't see a person's face, you only know how you feel when you hear their name. It's absolutely about how they make you feel.
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| Jun 23 @ 11:04 AM |
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georgiapeach42
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On the flip side of what Mich said I tend to get hit on a lot because I am a little larger than the average woman and guys feel like they can approach me and not get shot down. Which can make it hard because sometimes I go into man overload and have to weed them out. Right now there is a special one that I am trying to get to know.  to Bill. On my profile it says that I am in a relationship and not looking but still get emails and not just one from scammers.
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| Jun 23 @ 11:24 AM |
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DiamondRain
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I don't hit on anybody anymore.
I just wait for them to hit on me or forget it.
Been a hell of a long wait too.
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| Jun 23 @ 11:30 AM |
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pamdemonium
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How YOU doin?  
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| Jun 23 @ 11:30 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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The bottom line is I finally learned to just be myself.... funny, masculine, intelligent, deep, confident and no wuss.
As you should......keep being yourself Mich....it will pay off! 
Yes it has been a long wait DR.......but just think we get to learn patience.... 
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| Jun 24 @ 5:40 PM |
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lobo65
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"I don't hit on anybody anymore.
I just wait for them to hit on me or forget it.
Been a hell of a long wait too"
Ditto that. I do the same. It's worked out no better for me either though. Ha ha.
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| Jun 24 @ 7:15 PM |
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jdc67
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Well I won't wait for someone to hit on me.. If I like someone I will approach them..That which was meant to be is. At times there has been attractive women that in a very short conversation I found us to be in no way compatible..
I just think either man or woman if you like someone go for it.. Why waste time playing head games with yourself.
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| Jun 25 @ 6:46 PM |
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dooney123
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It's not just all about looks. It depends what the guy has to offer. Physically unattractive men often attract beautiful women if they have a good sense of humor, are high-profile (actors, musicians, politicians), or have money, etc.
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