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rickc
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What's up with someone in a one on one relationship having intimate conversations and photo exchange with numerous other people?
Far more than just friends...
Is this acceptable behavior?
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| Jun 28 @ 1:34 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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It seems to be a common phenomenon
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| Jun 28 @ 1:44 AM |
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rickc
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"It seems to be a common phenomenon"
Did this happen to you?
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| Jun 28 @ 1:48 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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It seems there's a lot of people that have little to no respect for anyone in a relationship...sorry you had such a bad experience. I can relate.
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| Jun 28 @ 1:50 AM |
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rickc
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Well, moral values don't seem to be what they once were...
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| Jun 28 @ 1:55 AM |
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rickc
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I would appreciate anyone's perspective...
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| Jun 28 @ 2:00 AM |
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Nightowl001
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I'm not the kind of person who labels anyone else's behavior "unacceptable," except in context to how it relates to me. There are married couples out there who engage in physical intimacy with partners outside the marriage with the consent and sometimes even participation and approval of their partner. Apparently that is acceptable behavior to them. Acceptable is one of those words that is pretty unambiguous. It is what you are able to accept. No one can decide that but you.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:01 AM |
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1RockinDude
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It is better to find out more early then later  If anything was serious. Unless it is just about friendship
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| Jun 28 @ 2:06 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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I think what the op is trying to say, is why get into a serious one on one relationship and then play around with others. Doesn't make sense to me.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:08 AM |
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rickc
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It doesn't make any sense. I think I was just one of many.
Not what I thought...
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| Jun 28 @ 2:10 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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I think what the op is trying to say, is why get into a serious one on one relationship and then play around with others. Doesn't make sense to me.
this sums it up in a nutshell...if you are in a committed relationship and you are still playing...it is not cool..in fact it is cheating...
the rub is....define "committed relationship" as it pertains to on-line romances...
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| Jun 28 @ 2:11 AM |
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lacyvsq
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Well, if one of the 'players' is operating in one-to-many, obviously to call it a one-on-one relationship is a misnomer.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:14 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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define "committed relationship" as it pertains to online romances
do you really want me to?  cos i know what it means to me
however it may mean different things for different people.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:20 AM |
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rickc
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"define "committed relationship" as it pertains to on-line romances... "
Well, it was understood that it would be just the two of us...
But one of us had other ideas...of what constitutes fidelity
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| Jun 28 @ 2:21 AM |
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Angel54214
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I believe it is what one sets as "moral values" of oneself; where their true treasures are and what one understands the depth meanings of love. If morals don't retain good values within, they certainly will not retain good values without. Immorality is not a virtue to morality. Eventually it will be a payback consequence that will bite hard.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:22 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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do you really want me to?
 no..I was being rhetorical ...a player says whatever it takes to keep playing...
I know you are not a player... 
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| Jun 28 @ 2:27 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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...a player says whatever it takes to keep playing Unfortunately it's not easy to determine you're being played until it's too late.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:29 AM |
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Say_Yes
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As long as you are honest and don't lie to anyone about what is going on (including lies of omisssion), then I don't see the problem. If you are lying, doing it behind the back of your partner and/or intentionally trying to hide your actions, then you are in the wrong. Then again, if all parties are aware of the situation and have no problems with it, then why should anyone else?
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| Jun 28 @ 2:32 AM |
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rickc
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This was a relationship that was ongoing for several months. We were planning our future together. And I found out I was just one of many on the roster.
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| Jun 28 @ 2:33 AM |
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1RockinDude
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So true Scorpio...
I see on profiles no players..But a player that wouldnt deture them the least, untill a person is played..I think.
Everyone has been played in some sorts or another. Sad but True
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