| Jul 11, 2008 @ 7:35 PM |
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misslady84
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This is a stupid question, but I'm asking anyway. I had an overnight date last night. We never actually had sex, he couldn't stay *aroused* for lack of better terminology. We spent all night kissing and cuddling...not just until we fell asleep. We cuddled all night. He kissed me on the cheek, on the forehead, etc.
Even the next morning after he got up and dressed for work he hugged and kissed me. We cuddled on the couch for a few minutes before left, and when we left he hugged and kissed me again.
So I guess the knot in my stomach is wondering if that was just part of playing the night, even into the next day, or if the feelings might be real.
Was the *arousal* problem something I was doing?
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| Jul 11, 2008 @ 8:45 PM |
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Loreli
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I don't know....how long have you known him?
How many dates have the two of you had?
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| Jul 11, 2008 @ 9:47 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Hope the guy doesn't see this thread and take offense to you telling thousands of people his "problem" 
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| Jan 25 @ 6:21 PM |
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Loreli
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So-what happened?
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| Jan 25 @ 6:24 PM |
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Winnie4010
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Sounds like he may have needed the "little blue pill" 
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| Jan 25 @ 6:26 PM |
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Dukums
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Well I am not sure what to say here. You will know if he continues to pursue you. If it was a lack of personal attraction then there is not a lot you can do about it. If not but a physical problem. Then to quote our hometown King here in Vegas. Viva Viagra! 
Or another option is to put a ring around it so the blood flow doesn't go back out. Can anyone spell the houshold appliance that sucks? 
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| Jan 25 @ 6:31 PM |
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BandTMom
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Vacuum.
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| Jan 25 @ 6:55 PM |
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custis
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If he was not hard, he definitely needs the little blue pill. Men are often afraid to deal with this problem and just hope a miracle will happen. What does not help is the fact that for whatever odd reason, a lot of women say they will not date a man who uses viagra. Why? A hardon is a hardon. Why does it make a difference if he needs assistance in getting one? If you continue to date, you need to be up front and ask him if he is having trouble and if you like him, tell him that you will work with him on it.
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| Jan 25 @ 7:02 PM |
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signme
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Well things may have finally worked out, the OP hasn't been on for 3 months!
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| Jan 26 @ 6:17 AM |
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eyesofastranger
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maybe he is a deep intellectual thinker and ED is a symptom until he is comfortable enough to share that side of him. The blue pill is maybe not an option he would consider. I suspect if he is dating but is not mentioning a serious erectile dysfunction then it doesn't exist. It's easily curable but he doesn't know he has it. Maybe..he has a mind that doesn't share intimacy until there is a connection.... maybe?
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| Jan 26 @ 6:26 AM |
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adrian555
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Well things may have finally worked out, the OP hasn't been on for 3 months!
One smart gal 
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| Jan 26 @ 7:07 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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misslady84
24-year-old Female
Seeking Men: 18 - 45
Beverly Hills,
guess what the zip code is for beverly hills....
hint...
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098749/
and someone that actually lives in that zip code
would be too snooty to mingle with us common folk....
so.............smart....?? not hardly....
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| Jan 26 @ 7:11 AM |
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adrian555
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http://www.matchdoctor.com/blog_80416/Some_times_I_just_feel_like_not_talking.html
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| Jan 26 @ 7:14 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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http://www.matchdoctor.com/blog_80416/Some_times_I_just_feel_like_not_talking.html
... and your point is????
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| Jan 26 @ 7:15 AM |
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adrian555
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Sorry princess , I didn't mean to hurt your pea
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| Jan 26 @ 7:20 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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| Jan 26 @ 8:38 AM |
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Loreli
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Well things may have finally worked out I think it would be nice if these people that asked for advice let us know the outcome.
(I've noticed that many of them have no photo, and only a couple of posts.... )
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| Jan 26 @ 2:23 PM |
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custis
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They would be better off asking Dr. Ruth than us. Ha ha ha.
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| Jan 26 @ 2:49 PM |
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redhairNfreckles
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My take on the problem.......he probably had a wife.....
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| Jan 26 @ 3:40 PM |
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KatiefromStafford
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or just performance anxiety... although giving it a second thought, he very well might have been married, as the cuddling is something he most likely doesn't get at home.
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