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lell
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Let me ask has anyone one started talking to someone on here as a really good friend and as the conversations have got longer and longer you feel more attracted to that person? how far would you go to let the skeletons out of the closet??
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| Jul 12 @ 5:56 PM |
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Loreli
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Yes.
And, I think you'll just know! 
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| Jul 12 @ 6:24 PM |
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BeachCrete
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Yes...that is exactly what happened with me and scorpiogirl....and I seem to grow more attracted to her every day.I feel like I can't get enough of her.   
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| Jul 12 @ 8:26 PM |
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broomhilda
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yes i have and im a very up front person. but your past is your past and it shouldn't matter. its done and its over with. nothing that you say or do can change what happen. and if you feel the need to share then share but if this other person can not handle your past mistakes or misdeeds in life then they are not the one for you. we are all human, and to err is to be human. but if your wanted for murder in ten states, i can see that being a big problem.
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| Jul 12 @ 8:35 PM |
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equuisdancer
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If you're really good friends those things don't matter! and yes I have started as a friend talking .for 5 months.. and it has moved on to me going half way across the country in 3 days..and yes the past is done ...only the future counts and that is what you are willing to work and make happen!  
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| Jul 12 @ 10:21 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Some skeletons just need to stay in the closet.....they probably wouldn't affect your relationship anyway.....others may be let out as soon as you think the relationship is taking a turn for the more serious comitted avenue........choose your wars......do what you feel is best for the two of you.. 
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| Jul 13 @ 3:45 AM |
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Always_Striving
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Aren't "Skeltons in the closet" just a fancy phrase for drama king or drama queen?
If this is what you are referring to, then I prefer not to listen to your past in depth.
I don't want to inherit someone else's non-resolved issues.
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| Jul 13 @ 7:38 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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Did someone say "Queen?" 
<----------------------see crown on head..... 
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| Jul 13 @ 8:04 AM |
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LaughTillYaPuke
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Howdy Lell!!! How is my girl?
Yep, I have done it. In fact, I AM doing it. As for the skeletons, he met me by reading my stuff so he had a pretty good idea about how my mind works before he even knew what I looked like. But yeah, we were sharing heavy stuff way before we decided to pursue anything more.
I'm pretty much an open book and am more than willing to claim the decisions I've made in my life. It's my past, and it does show how I have chosen to live my present and my future. And in many ways, it's the best way to judge someones true character.
No doubt, it takes guts to show your flaws and your weaknesses. They can both be used as tools to stab you with later. But in the end, some people are worth taking the chance I think.
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| Jul 13 @ 8:42 AM |
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| Jul 13 @ 9:25 AM |
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custis
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The first online friend I ever made was not even on the Inet, but on a BBS in the early nineties. Does anyone remember those? She and I are still close friends and occassionally go hiking together.
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| Jul 13 @ 9:28 AM |
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custis
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"Skeltons in the closet" just a fancy phrase for drama king or drama queen?"
Not necessarily. It can be something like being honest and letting the other person know that you live with your two-headed quadraplegic, epileptic, Nazi sister and take care of her.
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| Jul 13 @ 3:18 PM |
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signme
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I have some skeletons in my closet that only one or 2 real life people know of. It's not something I would share with an internet friend. Besides, it's past and done with. No need for people to know.
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| Jul 14 @ 2:07 PM |
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uab_5
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If it could trash a blooming relationship later on, I'd say yes tell your skeletons early.
I'm always up front and open about my bipolar disorder, the trouble it has caused me, and how my doctor and I feel I have it under control.
She's gonna find out eventually, so I might as well tell her sooner than the next morning after a great night of sex.
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| Jul 15 @ 3:18 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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it happened and maybe it could happen again.
skeletons? I'm not worried about thin kind of skeleton as they help my fantasy.
My daily life does not change, it can only improve
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| Jul 15 @ 3:40 PM |
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marylou
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Let me ask has anyone one started talking to someone on here as a really good friend and as the conversations have got longer and longer you feel more attracted to that person? how far would you go to let the skeletons out of the closet?? .....if and when you feel comfortalbe......but I wouldnt be in any hurry. People should like you for being you. If you start to get seriousl....thats the time to give a little......but like I said...ONLY if you want to and feel comfortable. And like Loreli said.....you will just know.....when that time comes.
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