| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:26 PM |
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teddybearagain
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I would think we all have our different ideas of what being romantic is.
So, what if you are the type of person who wants/needs/enjoys
romance and your SO is everything but romantic. You talk to him/her
about it, but it's just not them.
Everything else you want and or need is there, in the relationship.
Do you stay, or do you go?
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:33 PM |
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sweet5red
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hes all that.. very romantic.. my ex wasnt.. he always will be.. and so will i.. i love mushy.. Sweet N Louisiana  
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:34 PM |
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BandTMom
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Romance can be very subjective. Everyone has their own unique stye of showing someone they care.
Not all speak in hearts and flowers or shower their loved ones with gifts, but if you really listen to what they are saying and pay attention to what they are doing, the romance is always there.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:35 PM |
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SunBabe
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LOL, don't ask me to define "romance". I'm the one who turned totally to mush when I watched a "new SO" trying to fold towels into thirds for the first time in his life, all on his own...and I realized he'd read me posting about that little "foible" of mine -- probably a year before we ever thought lustful things about each other. 
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:38 PM |
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BandTMom
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Sunny!
That's exactly what I am talking about.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:40 PM |
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teddybearagain
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I hear ya ladies, .. but if you were the kind of person who defined romance
in whatever way you do, and your SO didnt step up for whatever the reason would
you stay in the relationship?
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:46 PM |
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sweet5red
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raymond seems to know my every thought, before i even say or do anything..
its like he sees my every desire.. thoughts and actions.. not always hearts and flowers but he makes my knees weak and i dont need to speak..... if that makes sense..Sweet N Louisiana
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:48 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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um how important is the color orange to an orange? There ya have it.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:48 PM |
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BandTMom
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To be honest, I have changed my definition of romance. I used to be all about the hearts and flowers, but I have learned that my man's way of showing romance is even better for it is the person he truly is and I wouldn't change him for the world.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:50 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Romance is anything that make the heart dance with your lips to a smile.
That special key turner to any given lock you may have at any given time.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:51 PM |
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BandTMom
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:54 PM |
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Bamadreamer
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I have dated more than one man who's idea of romance meant sex..lol
It is pretty important to me, and I don't really see myself falling for someone who is not romantic..
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:56 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Pillow whispering is romantic, that tends to lead to sex.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:57 PM |
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youbetcha
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I think tenderness and sensuality are a big part of romance...hearts and flowers take money...tenderness and sensuality only take desire...
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:57 PM |
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Jeffky49
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For me romance and passion are building blocks in a relationship and I place a high degree of importance in it. I have to walk.............I don't want to feel empty.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 9:58 PM |
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teddybearagain
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^^^ oh, romantic and smart!
edit: ok, that was meant for Burns, ..
Jeff, romance and passion, .. says a lot
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 10:00 PM |
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BandTMom
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.hearts and flowers take money
My reference to hearts and flowers was metaphorically speaking. I have never been a materialistic person.
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 10:02 PM |
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Bamadreamer
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OK Burns, I will go for that lol Damn, I was easily persuaded on that one! 
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 10:02 PM |
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youbetcha
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Passion is more a result than it is a part IMO
Mom the Queen of Hearts goes with the King of Hearts so you're right
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| Aug 28, 2008 @ 10:03 PM |
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teddybearagain
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What I think is romantic may not be what you think is. It's only important
that our SO know what is to us, and puts knowledge to action, IMO.
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