| Dec 30, 2005 @ 11:26 PM |
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cooldht
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I'm sure this is already out there, so it will probably be directed. This is an easy question. What do women want? Not dreams, not possibilities. If I ask you want do you want, what do you want? I'm not talking about what you want in a man, but what you want out of life? If you died tomorrow, what would you like to have had accomplished? If there is some secret that all women wish men knew, let us know now! :)
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| Dec 30, 2005 @ 11:35 PM |
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AngelLight
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If I died tomorrow I would have no regrets. Honest to God, simply because I have loved.
I know Love and Love knows me!
Life is nothing more, nothing less than this.... to Love and to know Love, to be Love.
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 12:01 AM |
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MischeviousAngel
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When I reach the end of my life I want to be able to say that I have lived a good life and that I don't regret things that I didn't do. Anything beyond that is just a "bonus"
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 12:03 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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This is an easy question
You're right...the answer is the hard part!
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 12:05 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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Actually, the number of answers to this question will probably be the same as thenumber of women responding to it. Although I did like AngelLight's reply...maybe because I, too, have known what she has known....
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 12:28 AM |
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cooldht
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Hmm, but her anwer was past tense. Can you still live once you have loved? I wouldn't know, cause I haven't been in love....I thought life was over after love if you wasn't with the one you was in love with....
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 12:52 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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....I thought life was over after love if you wasn't with the one you was in love with....
Nope. There's always the hope you'll find it again. And if it ended badly, the hope that this time you'll get it right.
And Cool, there's no such thing as all women or all men. We're all unique, just like everybody else. 
For me, right now, I'd have to say that one last, best love is what I want. Someone who'll feel that I bring out the best in him and who'll bring out the best in me, where we'll both start to smile just thinking of each other...failing that though, I'll still have a great time, with friends and family that I love who love me. But I'm still gonna keep looking for now!
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 1:01 AM |
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cooldht
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Hi heaven,
I totally agree! Everyone is different. However, if you count my "luck", they are all the same. How about this. Everyone I have met in the southern half of the country has been the same. Will that work? lol
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 1:17 AM |
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Classy_Blonde
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I want to be content with myself. Everything else is a bonus.
I wouldn't mind at all finding a man and spending the rest of my days with him, but if it doesn't happen, I'll be just fine. I've loved many times over and am thankful for that.
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 1:28 AM |
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MelMel
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I don't think I could ever hear "you complete me".. *for the record.. I hate Tom Cruise!!*
But I honestly don't think I want to die without have being in love again... (of course I am in love with my child... but.. )
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 1:59 AM |
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AngelLight
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"Hmm, but her anwer was past tense. Can you still live once you have loved?"
No cool, my answer is in both past and present tense...."If I died tomorrow...." is in response to "If you died tomorrow, what would you like to have accomplished?
I also say in present tense, I know Love and Love knows me.
And "the secret" that I share, from my life experience is that life is nothing more, nothing less than to Love, to know Love and to be Love.
I believe none of us can truly live without Love. I believe Love longs for us as much as we long for Love. I don't mean just in a Love relationship, I also mean with family, friends, coworkers, extending self to strangers,etc.
If you haven't been in Love yet, in the romantic sense, simply try being Love to the people in your life first and you will eventually attract Love to you. Like energy attracks like energy.
Love is all there is cool. Be Love and you will know Love. Knowing Love's completeness is knowing that Love is enough and that Love is all any one of us needs or wants. I think that when we recognize and open to this realization we inhabit the wholeness of who we already are. Believe in this vision of Love. It is there for you, for me for everyone. This wholeness of love does exist. It is only for anyone of us to see, recognize, and claim as our own.
Be Love and you will know Love. Love will come to you because you have recognized and responded to it. Blessings.
Angel
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 2:38 AM |
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sweet5red
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well lets see... i am 50 and have acomplished alot as far as my life goes.. I am still looking for my "one:" but i work , I pay my bills.. I rebuilt my own credit and bought my house 2 years ago ( on my own) and just bought a car not new but newer.. than what i had.. ( 98 ford escort with only 62000 miles on it) and talked the salesman outta a new set of tires lol.. I am very proud of me.. yes i want a man in my life but Notice i said want NOT need..   i want to love and be loved.. but for myself... Sweet N louisiana  ps angellight love the post before mine.. it is awesome... 
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 6:35 AM |
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sciurusniger
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what you want out of life? If you died tomorrow, what would you like to have had accomplished? If there is some secret that all women wish men knew, let us know now!
In this regard, I think the "secret" is that women are not really all that different from men. I think what most people want to get out of life is a sense of fulfillment, a sense of accomplishment, to have lived to their Highest potentials. And to have done so a positive way.
To have lived a life of honor and integrity, to be remembered with respect for following one's best path and allowing, no, encouraging others to do the same - I would guess that is how most would like to be remembered. I mean think about it, do you really think people like Hitler or Attila the Hun laid on their death bed with any real, true sense of satisfaction?
It gets a little esoteric, but AngelLight is right: Love is all and all is Love. Not mushy, romantic love, but Love in the sense of it being an energy that creates a state of mind, an overall attitude. Love is the strength that allows one to see the best in others, but that does not mean one is a doormat. No, instead it is the strength to know when to say "when" and let go, to walk away if the situation warrants for it also allows one to see the best in one's Self and so also deserving of kindness and respect.
Buddha said, "We live in fear, therefore we do not live." Love banishes fear and replaces it with peace. Living a life of Love allows us to see beauty in all things, to accept pain without suffering, to rejoice in the Now without fear of the future.
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 6:41 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I want the impossible.. 
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 8:59 AM |
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someone_me
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I want the impossible..
Now there's a very honest woman!
It gets a little esoteric
Just a little?! LOL, I think a lot in this case. 
Hey cool, I know this might stir up some controversy, but I'm not unacustomed to that. I see a lot of women who SAY they want this or that but when it comes down to brass tacks I've found that most are really looking for that one guy who sparks that unexplainable something down inside of them. Quite often, it goes against everything they say they want. It gives them this feeling that most of the time they can't explain. It's a challenge for them, elusive even. It gives them excitement yet bewilderment at the same time. A lot think it's in romance but it is deeper than that. And you know something, it's not even esoteric.  It is something that's always been here, just wired into their basic makeup.
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 9:08 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Theres always hope..to attain the impossible that is..lol..hmmmmmmmm...now where is that impossible man
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 11:48 AM |
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Angel54214
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Tink! You have had him all along.... hehee
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 12:02 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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<--------Oh yeah..there he is...lol..
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 1:31 PM |
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danae74
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I've found that most are really looking for that one guy who sparks that unexplainable something down inside of them. Quite often, it goes against everything they say they want.
Someone, you're right in most cases, I also believe. But there are a few that eventually learn that it's not a man, not even the most perfect man for them in the whole wide world, that can really give them that feeling. It's something inside that the man just happens to bring out. Thus, I'm going with Scurious:
In this regard, I think the "secret" is that women are not really all that different from men. I think what most people want to get out of life is a sense of fulfillment, a sense of accomplishment, to have lived to their Highest potentials. And to have done so a positive way.
When you live like this, the man becomes what he's supposed to be: a partner and a friend in the endeavor.
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| Dec 31, 2005 @ 1:41 PM |
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Angel54214
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At my age, I have learned what love isn't, so I stick to the old fashion basics of love. You know the 'new and improved' methods of everything else, most of the time goes back to the basic ingredients.
Honesty
Respect
Care
Admiration
Communication
Dedication
Trust
There's no easy way out, no simplifying or taking short cuts. If one of the basics is missing, we sure to fall short of the true love. A nutured relationship takes work and growth. A couple can play their own cute games with each other. Strip poker is a great one! hehee. I just stirring the broth here...I such an Angel.... 
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