| Sep 7, 2008 @ 4:00 PM |
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jdc67
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All men have lied to woman about something they consider at least at the time major at first maybe later they admitted to it but at least one time they did. No exception.
So what behind it all.
1 Saying too much
I have noticed most women paint a picture in there head of who they hope there man to be..They sometimes hold the picture behind there back and say can you guess what the picture i drew is.
or they paint a fussy picture of a bird show us and say what do you think of the duck..
You risk a whole lot if you give to much info before they are ready. the best thing is to be very careful in what you say and how you say it..
This can be deceptoin by omission..
2 saving you from the harsh realities
some times we are asked questions that we know the instant we are asked we best come up with a good answer.. These are usually highly personal image questions like. Do I look fat to you ? perhaps some intimate moment.. question
or it coud be an honest mistake we made.. Its your anniversary.. its 4pm and you have not got the flowers you usually get.. He has been slammed with work and lost track of the days and honestly forgot that that day was your anniversary.. You call up almost in tears and ask if maybe your forgot the day..
are you going to completely honest and say yah I did or take the cue to fix the issue by buying those flowers or making that reservation to her favorite restaruant.
The problem i have is how for some they dont get it and will say but you should always be honest. NO if your in or have been in a relationship with a great man he too has lied to you... BUT it does not mean he is a bad person.
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 4:12 PM |
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SunBabe
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...and the conclusion? ALL WOMEN should stay away from ALL MEN. 
My conclusion: most REAL women would be wise to stay away from men like you who aren't yet mature, muchless skilled in communication of abstractions. 
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 4:15 PM |
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kattsmeow
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All women have lied then too.
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 4:16 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 4:20 PM |
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RachelVaz
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Lying is something we naturally do, but what a relief to find someone u can truly be yourself with - - nothing hidden.... everything in the light. I don't think u are always able to trust someone to tell them the entire truth at first, but starting a relationship off with lies is never right. The truth will set you free!
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 4:42 PM |
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robodad
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Is that person really a guy (or not)?
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:02 PM |
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kattsmeow
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:11 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:16 PM |
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RachelVaz
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:18 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:25 PM |
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robodad
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I trust this guy  more than the OT
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:31 PM |
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BandTMom
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All men have lied to woman about something they consider at least at the time major at first maybe later they admitted to it but at least one time they did. No exception.
I really don't understand the point here.
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 5:53 PM |
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robodad
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Personally, I think he's lieing
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:09 PM |
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Loreli
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I think you're lieng about the lieing...and if you lie to me and say you aren't lieing, then you'll be lieing about lieing about a lie....
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:17 PM |
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robodad
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I think you're lieng about the lieing...and if you lie to me and say you aren't lieing, then you'll be lieing about lieing about a lie....  I'd be lieing if I said that I heard that one before
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:22 PM |
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jdc67
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The many times that I wish that I lied.. it could be about how I said it too.. who knows..
its sad really.. It would be so nice if you did not pay for being honest and could do so. but its not that way
at times its either like a job interview or an interegation
so if your guilty your guilty so incomparision are you one to admitt going 70 in a 55 or if they clocked you at 65 but you were really going 80 are you going to say no judge I going 80 please take my license now
or in a job interview are you going to exagerate a little..
There is a balance
the point is. I get tired of hearing about looking for honest men or on how men are liars..
Im here to back that up and say you are right we are liars..
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:27 PM |
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robodad
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Im here to back that up and say you are right we are liars..  What's this "WE" crap? Speak for yourself and don't include "us" 
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:28 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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My boyfriend lied to me once, when he mixed pot with alcohol, and the lie wasn't even a big deal. He told it to protect me, and I got over it within a few minutes.
Since then he hasn't lied =)
Just because you're a man doesn't mean you know "how men work".
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:29 PM |
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BandTMom
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I still don't get it.
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| Sep 7, 2008 @ 6:30 PM |
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robodad
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I'd like to say, on behalf of all the men, that jdc67 is not (I repeat NOT) affiliated with us in any way
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