| Oct 9, 2008 @ 6:13 PM |
PLEASE be honest: am I unattractive?
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Merchitown
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 6:58 PM |
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Fender
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lb your too funny...
Le Christophe, don't be so hard on your self...If someone doesn't like you for the you that's inside they are not worth your time...Trust me on that. I've had homely boyfriends and good looking ones...Sometimes cute outside is ugly inside...
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 7:17 PM |
PLEASE be honest: am I unattractive?
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Laidback742
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^^^ What she said.
Except for the boyfriend part.
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 8:41 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Honey...that is the beautiful thing. We are all attracted to different things. Different personalities and different looks. What I find attractive others might find no appeal in. What others are drawn too may do nothing for me.
Isn't it wonderful how it tends to work out for each of us in the end? Just wait. Be patient. The girl who will love you forever is looking for you too.
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 9:17 PM |
PLEASE be honest: am I unattractive?
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Laidback742
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What's meant to be, will be.
Or some philosophical shit like that.
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 9:24 PM |
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teddybearagain
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Please be honest, ... am I being too brutally rude when I say,
"You've got to be kidding me"
(that a thread was actually started with this topic)
Sorry, to the OP, but what the hell would you do about it if we all said yes?
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 10:19 PM |
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LeChristophe
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Well I wouldn't have to worry about the honesty thing, then. Hmm...I guess there's poison, razor blades, or the good ol' exhaust in the car window trick...
But seriously, I know that personality is the most important thing -- for lasting relationships at least -- but I guess knowing if I have any serious flaws in countenance would help me know what I've got going for me (or could work on to compensate), or if I'm not so much ugly as out of style...and if appearance is likely the primary reason girls refrain from giving looks or showing interest.
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 10:24 PM |
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LeChristophe
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Maybe a better way of putting the question would have been "Would you say my looks are likely to be the main thing keeping gals uninterested, based on what's presently considered attractive". I don't think they let you edit the title, darn it!
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 10:25 PM |
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Kenn159
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I know of a beautiful women that thinks you are very attractive, and she told me to tell you she wants you to "take her now". 
All you have to do is send her a few hundred dollars so she can come back here from Africa where she is currently stranded. 
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 10:26 PM |
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Merchitown
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You certainly seem intelligent enough. I don't think it's the looks hon. That's good news, it's cheaper than a surgeon. 
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| Oct 9, 2008 @ 10:52 PM |
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LeChristophe
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So intelligent, I can't figure out how to EDIT the thing again! Gah...
Kenn159...couldn't Jolie take that one?
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 12:24 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Okay...honest? You need a good haircut. Go to a stylist, not a barber.
No, there's nothing wrong with barbers...but in your case...you need a little
help w/ the hair.
And if you insist on a moustache, put a little goatee with it.
There's a start for you. 
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 3:22 AM |
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Josuha
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Hi everyone -- I'm delighted to see that there is a forum where so many people offer advice on dating and meeting people! I hope this is the right category for a question like this...
Ok..Man to Man.
No shit.
I'm shooting from the hip.
Knock off the shit "I just want to date and meet people."
You want to get layed.
Your a man.
Stop lieing..it's a sin..
So cut the crap and let's get down to business. *sigh*
I'm 23 and girls simply do not look at me; I've actually never received an interested look before. Unless it's just because of my tendency to act nervous in public, that probably implies that I am NOT good looking...
First, get rid of that haircut.
It may be ok in the office for a desk clerk, but your a barbarian dude.
You know.
We painted our faces blue and raided villages and shit.
So get back to your roots.
Ditch the haircut and grow it. (Swords and shields are optional.)
I know moustaches are a little out of style these days, but I think they look refined (like Errol Flynn! And trust me, I don't look good without one at all...I've tried!).
Mustaches are cool.
But alittle bit of facial hair.
Yea..that'll do it.
And get some decent rags.
Leather is cool.
I perfer black myself.
But don't look like a yuppie going to a baptism.
As for the teeth, yeah, I've definitely got to get braces one of these days...but are they really THAT bad? And c'mon, does everyone REALLY need a cleft chin?
Do the brace thing later..no biggie..
But knock off the 'needy' crap.
People pick up on it.
Be like me..Don't give a shit.
And stop being nervous.
Men are twice as strong, faster and have more agility than women in combat.
There are more eligable women than eligable men.
Your in demand.
What's the worse that can happen?
Some broad beat your ass?
Not going to happen.
Well..I did know one gal at the pool hall that was..er..well, maybe another time..
Anyway, you get my point.
And remember.
Always wear protection.
Lots of weird shit out there.
This has been a public service announcement free of charge and thank you for your participation.
Yea..black is good.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sl-lSmO80yQ
[Edited on 10/10/2008 3:28 AM]
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 4:23 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Yeah, you're pretty narly looking there, dude.
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 9:29 AM |
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cOuNtRyGiRl816
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Don't mind these guys....they catch onto something funny, and they can't let go. Lmao!
Anyways, I wouldn't say unattractive. Not really my type, but I'm sure there are women out there who would find you attractive.
But since you asked for honesty, here goes. Your hairstyle is a little dated as well as the mustache. You have nice eyes.
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 7:46 PM |
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SunBabe
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BTW, "flirting" and attention from the opposite sex rarely has anything to do with looks -- the key is ATTITUDE and self-confidence. 
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 9:38 PM |
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LeChristophe
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Alright, here's a twist that might make the question more interesting (and slightly LESS self-centered): what's the difference between someone that's out of style, and a trend-setter?
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 9:49 PM |
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Fender
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There is not such thing as a trendsetter...Being original is the trend...But to be brutally honest(Keep in mind you can say whatever you want about my pics) I think you just need a different hairdo...Your only 23, spike it up some...mess it up, shave the stach or grow a goatee...Or just be you. That could be the best thing of all.
LIke someone said earlier, and I've done it myself...Anyone that seems too needy is not for me...I'll run away from that. Smile, be yourself, there are lot's of ladies//girls out there looking for nice guy's. Trust me.
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| Oct 10, 2008 @ 11:12 PM |
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Merchitown
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| Dec 21, 2008 @ 2:39 AM |
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scotlove674
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You are not unattractive, but you are dressing too old for your age. When I saw people were calling you 23, I was surprised. I thought you were like 38. Nothing wrong with 38 year olds. 38 year olds can be hot, lol, but if you're 23 looking 38, might not be the look you're going for. Maybe your hair needs to be changed, I don't know, but attitude is the key. People mirror back to you what you think of yourself. Change the way you see yourself, the responses will change.
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