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ItMustBeLove
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Hello,
I have done some reading on the subject of Older Women - Younger Men throughout the last few years and I came across some genuine, well written, interesting, practical and straight to the point online articles related to this subject. I would like to post the reasons for Why should Older Women date Younger Men (taken from those articles)...with hopes it would be very helpful & easier for older women to understand & accept that younger men are not to be disqualified. In my personal experience of dating women older than me and also based on what I heard from people I know and met online throughout the years who either dated younger than them or older than them (respectively), I would like to tell you dear women that dating someone younger than you is not wrong nor it means that your young man would take an advantage of you and/or seek a sugarmama or to score on you. Furthermore, it doesn't mean that younger than you is not responsible, mature and etc.
Lots of us younger men have good, genuine, sincere and positive intentions by choosing to date older women. Yes, younger men should be given a chance and even two.
Sincerely.
So here is what I would like to share:
Article #1:
1. He’ll keep you feeling younger.
2. You can teach him and guide him in the bedroom.
3. The two of you will have to overcome the adversity together. It will make you closer.
4. He’ll dress better than older men.
5. He is more likely to come to you for advice and guidance. An older man may not look up to you in that respect.
6. If it works out, you can retire sooner than you planned.
7. He won’t compare you to his ex-girlfriends.
Article #2:
1) The sexual chemistry is fabulous, naturally. They are earnest, imaginative and very very eager to please her.
2) Loads and loads of fun as he is young, upbeat and adventurous and never boring.
3) Younger men listen, are never afraid to show their true feelings, and hold you when you need it.
4) Great with kids. They are right there in the thick of things, having a good old time with the kiddies. They're especially great with the teenagers.
5) Most independent and self reliant. Most younger men have no problems sharing the housework, and whatever responsibilities two people living together share.
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 2:18 PM |
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KAOS2007
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Stereotyping at it's finest. It's not someone's age that matters, it's WHO they are.
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 2:26 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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I glanced at his profile to see how old he was...( btw...he's also a gold member...)
he says that he is 33 years old...  ... does that mean he considers himself young?? 
( think about it........ )
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 5:39 PM |
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home_nuff_alrdy
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 5:56 PM |
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jdc67
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Who here wants to be honest..
ok i will
One of the funniest and ironic things I hear is when
you have group "A" men who date younger woman because it makes them feel younger , they know how to treat them right and they can keep up with there energy
and group "B" the women wo date younger men because it makes them feel younger , they know how to treat them right and they can keep up with there energy
so you tell me what is the truth why is it then tht group a doest date group b
I know I've made this arguement before.. Would I date someone my age 34-40 yes. Do I date women 34-40 no because most that I have seen date men 24-30.. So what is then left for me you guessed if I usually date women 24-30.
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 6:04 PM |
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sensuouswoman
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1. He’ll keep you feeling younger.
Whatever......I feel young already!! 
2. You can teach him and guide him in the bedroom.
Forget it................I want to have a remarkable experience! 
3. The two of you will have to overcome the adversity together. It will make you closer.
Closer then what?
4. He’ll dress better than older men.
Huh? Some older men are hawt!! 
5. He is more likely to come to you for advice and guidance. An older man may not look up to you in that respect.
Forget it.........I ain't his momma! 
6. If it works out, you can retire sooner than you planned.
I want someone I can grow old, retire with! 
7. He won’t compare you to his ex-girlfriends.
No he wouldn't have to.........I'm much better! 
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 8:03 PM |
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BandTMom
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 8:12 PM |
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Merchitown
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Hear hear! 
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| Oct 20, 2008 @ 8:37 PM |
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Fender
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I dated a 21 year old guy about 2 yrs ago. I'm 32. We had nothing in common. Except he was sexy and I was...He looked like a rapper and dressed like one. He was black and had sexy lips...Besides his hotness we had nothing in common,lol...
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| Oct 21, 2008 @ 9:08 AM |
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custis
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I hear you. Hot is nice if sex is all you want, but for anything else you have to have some things in common. I dated a 21 yr old a while back and her jealousy issues were beyond all rationality. In fact, it was flat out insane.
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| Oct 21, 2008 @ 12:07 PM |
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marylou
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I always thought I would like someone around my age or a little older....but lately many of the men in that age bracket I have met........have been kranky old goats........so am starting to think a younger man seems more attractive to me by the day...........they arent as cranky and not so long in the tooth............
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| Oct 21, 2008 @ 7:18 PM |
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signme
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Amen Marylou!! The guys my age or older I've dated just can't keep up with me. Neither could the younger ones! LOL And here I have a bad hip, arthritis and other various aches and pains. Sheeeeeeeeeesh!! I may have to lower my sights to 35-45!
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| Oct 21, 2008 @ 7:37 PM |
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DiamondRain
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With all due respect to the OP, your proposal is doomed from the start.
First of all, the notion that you can convince someone who they should want to date is absurd.
I once read a profile written by a young woman. She said something like this.
“Please don’t send me any e-mails if you are a man over the age of 40. I am not interested in dating anyone over that age no matter how much you try to convince me of the merits.”
It’s like trying to convince someone why green should be their favorite color. It’s not about logic, it’s about attraction.
Second, you rely too much on generalizations. A lot of young men are immature, inexperienced and don’t have a clue. Yes, some are more mature than others, but so too do some older men have the traits that you describe and apply to younger men.
The logic doesn’t matter. What matters is what a person is attracted to. Some older women like younger men, some older men like younger women, some younger men like older women and some younger women like older men. And some people only like to date people around their own age.
You can’t change that with a logical appeal. It’s a matter of taste.
I forgive you for not understanding this yet. It’s your youth and inexperience at fault, son, not your intellect. 
PS: At 33 you better hurry up if you want to date older women! It won’t be long until you’ll have to hit the nursing homes to find ‘em!
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| Oct 22, 2008 @ 12:12 AM |
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signme
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Remember DR, we have a date at the nursing home!!
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| Oct 22, 2008 @ 12:39 AM |
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DiamondRain
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I have to wait THAT long Sign?!
There IS no God!
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| Oct 22, 2008 @ 1:00 AM |
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signme
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The rate I'm going DR it won't be long for me!!
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| Oct 22, 2008 @ 4:26 AM |
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Ruthless666
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5. He is more likely to come to you for advice and guidance. An older man may not look up to you in that respect.
I'm not his mother.
7. He won’t compare you to his ex-girlfriends.
Yes he will. He may not tell you he's comparing, but he is. It's human nature.
ahhh but younger men are so......fun
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 1:51 AM |
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fromscratch
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Article #1=BULLSHIT Article #2=WTF -You have wasted alot of time reading stupid shit, its not practical,not genuine, if u have a fetish then go with it...no biggie  .It's the person whom u care about, not the age, color,height,weight....Obviously you have something for older woman and thats cool, just calmn down a bit sparky...  your almost begging, your gonna give some a case of the creepies.....
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 8:46 AM |
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emptypages
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I would think it would be the same reason older men go for younger women....sex.
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 10:50 AM |
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bucsfan553
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Here's the deal..........people are paid to write articles because people don't buy magazines/newspapers that have blank pages or just advertisements! Yeah, really. Just because someone wrote an article doesn't mean it's "right" or "accurate" its because someone paid them to. 
Betcha if I were to look, I could find article(s) on reasons older women shouldn't date younger men.....(hell fire, I could write THAT one myself!! Someone get me an agent, quick!)
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