| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:36 AM |
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wantlove35
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I've been dating a guy for a little while. All of sudden he stops calling and he doesn't come by anymore. Is he blowing me off or being stand offish? What do you guys think?
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:40 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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Get a hold of hi and ask HIM.
Personally,
Either way it doesn't matter.
Whats important is how does it make you feel and what your response will be.
Will your tolerate this type of behavior or not, is it what you desire to receive?
Your question it way to general without more of the story. Like what was and wasn't going on before the disappearing act.
Good luck.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:50 AM |
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wantlove35
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Everything was going great at least I thought it was. He was calling we had good conversation. My daughter liked him. It went from hot to cold in a matter of a week. I was guessing he was afraid of commitment or he starting dating someone else. But I haven't talk him about it because I want to talk to him in person. I haven't seen him to talk to him. I figured I should just move on.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 1:00 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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Good figuring.
The whys while are comforting to know aren't as important and the whats. Like what do you want. What does your heart and gut tell ya to do.
Whys are mostly just excuses.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 1:09 AM |
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lj450
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he stops calling
He was calling
Why does he have to call you? Dont you have his number?
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 3:35 AM |
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custis
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Offhand I would say that you need to cross this one off and go back to the drawing board. He is not just blowing you off, he is done with you. If you just can't let it go, take Burns's advice and call him. My pride would not let me do that, but if you must, you must.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 8:00 AM |
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eyesofastranger
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his behaviour should tell you all you need to know
he being standoffish = he's a dick
he moved on without saying = he's a dick
he thinks you should do the chasing = he's a dick
you have a kid is this the sort she needs?
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 9:01 AM |
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Fender
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Well I'm a girl and I can tell you flat out...Sometimes guy's will stop calling girls...It's happened to me and the only reason was because he thought I wasn't interested in him because I alway's waited for him to call me. I liked him too. Oh well.
...When your dating it seems kinda childish to do that. Men will do that though. All I can say is your probably wasting your time.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 10:14 AM |
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The_Unholy
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Either he moved on without telling you which makes him an ass or he became a victim of unforeseen circumstances and since he may need or needed you and you haven’t bothered to contact him that makes you an ass.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:25 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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so..just who are you.... 
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:27 PM |
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Carol386
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OMG - fender's a girl  
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:28 PM |
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SaintBacon
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Now way! Really? A girl? 
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:32 PM |
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youbetcha
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A lot of people, both men and women, are afraid of confrontation and they avoid it at all cost - it's hard to face someone and tell them you aren't into them, so we make the best of it until we can find the right time or we run - he ran
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 1:19 PM |
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Merchitown
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chickenshits 
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 1:59 PM |
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thor22
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well, when fenderchick says she was always waiting for him to call, that is a good example of one reason why I will just suddenly drop a woman...as a man it is nice to be called from a woman you've been in contact with too, and it shouldn't just always have to be up to the man if two know each other, like each other, and are both interested in each other...but, oh well, fender's reply is another example of how a woman likes to C-O-N-T-R-O-L...also, wantlove states they were dating for a little while, and I'm just wondering if her guy was "getting some" yet, or not...guys don't wanna wait forever yah know, hey! 
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 2:07 PM |
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poniepower
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With an attitude like that, You're sure to find someone here thor...just sayin'.....
Get rid of him! He's a loser!!
I recently went through the same thing. He wanted FWB though. I was not ready to do that. Hence him not showing up when he was s'pose too! If he would have, I would have denied
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 2:41 PM |
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wantlove35
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I have called him he doesn't return the phone calls. The few times I did talk to him on the phone he said he'd come over and then stood me up. We have had sex its been almost a year we've been dating.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 2:44 PM |
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KAOS2007
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He doesn't call.
You call, he doesn't answer or return you call.
He stands you up.
Errrr... what was the question again?? 
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 2:46 PM |
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willowy1
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Holidays make men weird.  Ignore him, don't call or do the drive by.. 
If he is acting all stupid like that, he doesn't deserve your pretty dimples.
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| Nov 14, 2008 @ 2:49 PM |
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1RockinDude
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A drive by ? 
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