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Nov 20, 2008 @ 11:14 PM How to make him to open up?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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wine? nothing opens you up faster than wine...except maybe ex-lax.
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Nov 21, 2008 @ 2:27 PM How to make him to open up?    
emptypages


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ditch the stupid, poetic letter and just ASK him. Poems and letters are so high school.
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Nov 22, 2008 @ 2:36 PM How to make him to open up?    
Moonwalk


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reading and re-reading what you all tell me, and trying to understand it....

do you think is good at the first difficulty we have when we try to date someone always to move on when we have we/or the next person is confuse?

do you think always someone has to come to you and you never ask the next person why they want to move on.

it is very easy to go to the next and never try what the things did not work the way we want to work,

where is the boundary between "make the relation to work" and move on because there is always someone waiting for you, who is the right person ........
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Nov 22, 2008 @ 2:58 PM How to make him to open up?    
Gallows_Humor


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do you think is good at the first difficulty we have when we try to date someone always to move on when we have we/or the next person is confuse?
No.....

do you think always someone has to come to you and you never ask the next person why they want to move on.
not understanding the question...

it is very easy to go to the next and never try what the things did not work the way we want to work,
it is always eaisier to just say.."next" rather than trying to fix the "issues" that crop up in new relationships...where someone does not have any emotional ties at stake...


where is the boundary between "make the relation to work" and move on because there is always someone waiting for you, who is the right person ........

the boundary is..when there is an actual solid relationship worth saving..verses ..an infatuation based on fantasy....

good questions moonwalk...
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Nov 22, 2008 @ 3:20 PM How to make him to open up?    
Moonwalk


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do you think always someone has to come to you and you never ask the next person why they want to move on.

not understanding the question...

I would like to understand is it good to be passive in the case you like someone and want to try more with that person, just because is good to be passive, and let the other to make the first step in order that you will not be hurt.
and never ask why to move one, why did not work, to find something about you, how you are precept by other, not in the "formal" words of rejection?
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Nov 22, 2008 @ 3:31 PM How to make him to open up?    
Loreli


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They ARE good questions....
is this the same one in the other thread?
Only 3 dates?
Why worry about him unless he contacts you again?
If he doesn't...he already gave you your answer.

I know it can hurt....but what would you change about yourself if he gave you the answer?
Why "change" for someone else?
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Nov 22, 2008 @ 4:37 PM How to make him to open up?    
Moonwalk


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Why "change" for someone else?

Some times is good to change something at us,

There is a saying (i do not know how to say it right in english "the king is naked but none is telling that".

someone has to tell to us about what we change/adjust to make our life easier but in the same time to be us.

this is not for someone it is for us.
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Nov 22, 2008 @ 10:44 PM How to make him to open up?    
Moonwalk


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I was writing to him

[Edited on 11/22/2008 11:03 PM]
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