| Nov 25, 2008 @ 11:42 PM |
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Moonwalk
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How do you feel if there is chemistry or not?
after how many dates you if there is chemistry or not?
how do you define the chemistry?
if there is no sex after2-3 dates does it mean it is no chemistry there?
are you ok to have sex knowing the other person is dating another too?
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 7:33 AM |
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drs297
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if there is no chemistry why bother going past the first date, I don't believe in well maybe over time things will change or get better
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 7:46 AM |
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Hypnotic
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are you ok to have sex knowing the other person is dating another too
Er, 'ell NO! I'm selfish and greedy, and never share my cookies with anyone that has his hands in another cookie jar (at least, I never did that knowingly).
How do you feel if there is chemistry or not?
after how many dates you if there is chemistry or not?
how do you define the chemistry?
Results will vary from person to person. In fact, I've found that even for myself, I didn't always get the same feeling of chemistry with any two guys. I've connected with guys in e-mails, only to be left cold when I heard their voice on the phone. I've had lukewarm reactions to guys in a virtual setting, only to find myself drawn to them in person, as a moth to a flame.
if there is no sex after2-3 dates does it mean it is no chemistry there?
For me, it just meant that the guy respected me, and didn't force the issue. I was never in such a hurry that I felt compelled to rush such things.
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 8:26 AM |
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Fender
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You need to feel something for the other person...
I wouldn't let anyone touch me if I knew they were having sex with someone else...I deserve all of the attention and lust. I share no man!
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 8:47 AM |
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drs297
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i'm not having sexual relations with those other women I swear it..
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 10:26 AM |
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Fender
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Ah hah...And I believe that because we are on the internet. 
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 11:06 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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How do you feel if there is chemistry or not?
Has to be......this is a dealbreaker....
after how many dates you if there is chemistry or not? after the first meeting
how do you define the chemistry? you just know it.......( not a cop out....if it is not there....it is not there....)
if there is no sex after2-3 dates does it mean it is no chemistry there? no.. "doing the deed" has nothing to do with creating chemistry..but it can add to it..or take away from it...
are you ok to have sex knowing the other person is dating another too?
"dating" someone else is not an issue... their "having sex" with someone else is.... 
( it all goes back to trusting the person to not lie about it...)
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 11:12 AM |
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Fender
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I agree GH...I could not knowingly have sex with someone if I knew they were having sex with someone else. I just couldn't.
I'm also old fashioned though. I think you should only date one person at a time and give them a shot. Not 2 or 3 
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 11:21 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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if ...at the time that I am seriously dating someone... that one person is the only one for me..
but up until that point in time.. "dating" is more like .....  .."hanging....
.......out"
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 1:50 PM |
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SusieM
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sometimes you just know, not always something easily definable in words.
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 3:00 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Sometimes you just have your breath taken away, your socks knocked off and your senses totally scrambled. If that happens, and you look into each others' eyes and feel like you're drowning, carpe diem and anything else it takes to take full advantage of it.
If there's chemistry, you can't miss it - and while I've known it to grow slowly, I've never known it to not be there right from the gitgo, but that's just one person's experience. I'd go along with DRS on this one though - I won't usually go on a second date if I don't feel that chemistry. And another thing - for me it has to be up close and personal - not online, webcam, or even phone.
Sex and schedules just don't compute to me...if it feels right, do it, and I don't care if it's the first date. If it doesn't feel right, it's not gonna happen no matter how many dates are involved. And if he's having sex with someone else, it just won't work for me...I'd be much too turned off to be able to even enjoy it so why bother?
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 10:10 PM |
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Fender
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Sometimes you just have your breath taken away, your socks knocked off and your senses totally scrambled. If that happens, and you look into each others' eyes and feel like you're drowning, carpe diem and anything else it takes to take full advantage of it
That's an awesome feeling...
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| Nov 27, 2008 @ 1:37 AM |
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custis
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I want to mix some chemicals with Fender.
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| Nov 27, 2008 @ 5:56 AM |
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dreamlover4U
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I have gone out with guys when there has been no chemistry felt and we had a great time, sort of like going out with my brother. But what I want out of life is chemistry with the right man for me. I had it once, but he passed away. I have had a few men that I have been so attracted too, but life got in the way. There are several degrees of chemistry between men and women, I want the fireworks and the feeling of needing only him. If there is no chemistry, there is no sex. Feelings emotionally are the best part of sex and if I don't feel for the man, he ain't getting any.
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| Nov 27, 2008 @ 8:49 AM |
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Loreli
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How do you feel if there is chemistry or not?..........has to be chemistry for a long term relationship
after how many dates you if there is chemistry or not?...........you should feel some right away
how do you define the chemistry?..........you can't-it's different for everyone
if there is no sex after2-3 dates does it mean it is no chemistry there?..........that is entirely separate
are you ok to have sex knowing the other person is dating another too?..........N O
happy thanksgiving
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| Nov 28, 2008 @ 8:44 PM |
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Moonwalk
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Loreli,
Happy Thanksgiving !
you too!
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 8:06 PM |
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painter007
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Chemistry.....is something that cant be explained.....but if its there...it is so frickin cool......and hot, and sexy.....and......and.............. 
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 8:37 PM |
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Loreli
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WB Painter!!!
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 8:41 PM |
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painter007
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| Mar 27 @ 9:03 PM |
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Angel178
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I failed chemistry 
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