| Nov 29, 2008 @ 10:30 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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Ok, so heres the situation guys. My mom and I recently joined the gym, and while we were there signing up, we were given a tour. The guy given the tour was really sweet and very cute, and also asked me a lot of questions about myself, and commented on my attractiveness. I see him almost every time I go to the gym, but all I can muster up is a "Hey, how's it going?'' He always seems to smile a lot whenever I see him as well. I know that he could possibly JUST be a really sweet guy, and not be interested, but my mom has made comments to me as well saying that she thinks he could be interested.
So guys.. my question is... how in the world do I take this a step further..? How do I subtly let him know I may be interested??
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 10:38 PM |
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Loreli
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So...
you join a gym
see a hottie
jump on a dating site for advice
I ain't buying it.
So,
my answer is-go talk to HIM.
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 10:40 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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So...
you join a gym
see a hottie
jump on a dating site for advice
I ain't buying it.
What... the hell...? What "aint you buying?"
If your gonna be a bitch, dont reply.
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 10:42 PM |
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BandTMom
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He WORKS there. He's supposed to be friendly to you. It's part of his job.
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 10:44 PM |
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Merchitown
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LOL she's not being a bitch, she's being honest.
And my advice would be the same, if you want to know, just approach him, ask him out for a beer, or a health shake. What's the worst that can happen? He says he has plans, or he has a gf, or something, and then ya move on.
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 10:56 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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He WORKS there. He's supposed to be friendly to you. It's part of his job.
First of all... I'm a smart girl and I'm not asking for advice as to whether or not I think hes interested.. I've already assessed and observed him and the situation and I'm interested and pretty sure he is interested... And its more than just being "friendly."
LOL she's not being a bitch, she's being honest.
She doesnt even make any sense. What "ain't she buying?" That response made no sense to my post.
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:02 PM |
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KAOS2007
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I'm a smart girl and I'm not asking for advice as to whether or not I think hes interested.. I've already assessed and observed him and the situation and I'm interested and pretty sure he is interested... And its more than just being "friendly." Sounds like ya got it all worked out! What was the question again? 
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:06 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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Sounds like ya got it all worked out! What was the question again?
My question was how to approach him..? I mean, we talked A LOT that first day, and now I get too nervous when I see him because I know that he is interested, lol.... so all I really say to him lately is "hey, hows it going." I'd like to know how to open up the conversation more, maybe even pretend to have questions for him, but I don't know what!!
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:08 PM |
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youbetcha
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Sheesh Vixens, back off and give her the benefit of the doubt here for a sec - 
Ask him if he's single and available 
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:11 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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Sheesh Vixens, back off and give her the benefit of the doubt here for a sec -
THANK YOU!!
I felt as tho no one was actually reading my post, and assuming things I wasn't asking...
Anyways... I wonder if just asking if he was single/asking him out would be too forward considering we havent talked much, just a little small talk, and smiles and stuff, which I have observed to be much more than he says/does to the other female customers... but anyways, would it be too forward?? Or should I begin to open the conversation in another way??
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:11 PM |
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Skydognc
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burp........
walk up to him naked and say hi there........ wanna play ?
...works every time !
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:12 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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burp........
walk up to him naked and say hi there........ wanna play ?
...works every time !
Unnecessary....
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:14 PM |
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youbetcha
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I would open the door for him to ask you out if you want my opinion, but I'm the caveman around here 
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:19 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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And just how should I open the door for him to ask me out...? That is exactly my question...
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:26 PM |
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robodad
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Ok...your mom is there, right? Get her to tell the guy....sheesh!
Do people actually think up these scenarios?
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:27 PM |
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youbetcha
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I would say by asking if he's single and available - I wouldn't start with that, but I'd work it in 
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:27 PM |
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La_BellaVita
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I'm not going to get my mom to tell him... lol
And no, I'm not trying to think up the scenario, just trying to get some ideas so I have the balls to do it
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:29 PM |
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robodad
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Write your name on a piece of paper...walk up to him and say "You dropped this".
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:33 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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seriously? DON'T!!!
think for a sec.....he WORKS at a GYM. pretty or not, you are a conquest. if you are not into a relationship and just wanna go at it, fine, move forward, but if you are not, then you are gonna get hurt. the gym is the "Other" meat market. Bally's is a prime example, and why woman's gyms have become so popular.
another thing you should remember is that you are a new member. the smile, courtesy, coy flirting, everything will be there to get you to stay.they have to give the best service they feel to keep you. you and your mom leave, that is money from their pockets. just consider everything a marketing ploy for your dollars. it may suck to hear, but it's true.
also, most gym company policy prohibit dating members. too many problems ....
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 11:36 PM |
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painter007
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If he's interested.............he will approach you......jmo
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