| Dec 4, 2008 @ 5:55 PM |
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LONESOMEMAN

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Say what really drives me nuts is you find someone on this site you get going good,feelings start to come out on both people then they put the old brakes on with LETS BE FRIENDS..this is a dating site right?Nice guys really do end up last!! Sorry for crying.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 5:59 PM |
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DisAsianGuy

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In another perspective, if you weren't a nice guy you may have never even gotten that far.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 6:01 PM |
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KAOS2007

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Damn wimmins.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 6:03 PM |
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lj450

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get going good
What does that mean? Get going good?
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 6:06 PM |
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Merchitown

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Hmm....You mean I'm supposed to DATE and MARRY every guy that I may possibly be interested in? All I can say is...WOOT!!! Think of the alimony!!!
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 6:10 PM |
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1stsignofspring

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Maybe it's the deer picture? Kinda freaky? Might scare em away...
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 6:21 PM |
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willowy1

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Nice guys really do end up last!! For what? Getting picked for dodge ball?
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 7:02 PM |
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EyesofBlue72660

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I thought dates were times to go out or spend with one another in order to get to know each other. Friendships can be formed by dating and discovering the potential for romantic involvement isn't there. Just because you go on dates or meet someone through a "dating" site doesn't mean they are going to be "THE ONE".
'Course, that's just my opinion.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 7:40 PM |
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custis

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It happens bro. I do not stick around when I get that routine, I just move on. When a woman says she just "wants to be friends," it most often means that she really wishes you would vanish into the black hole from whence you emerged. Don't take it personal, just let her be and move on. If you really want to read about some puzzled frustration, read my post/thread "Am I Missing Something?" I am still shaking my head over that one.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 7:41 PM |
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custis

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"Maybe it's the deer picture?"
You are definitely not a country girl, lol. That is an elk, and a fine looking one.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 7:56 PM |
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willowy1

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I thought it was a moose
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 8:01 PM |
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Skydognc

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I kinda think a really great relationship, should be built with "friends" as the foundation!
Maybe being friends might be a great way to build into somethng later Personally, I like being "friends" with my best friend!
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 8:05 PM |
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Silver1961

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I thought it was a mouse .. The deer pic is in his profile
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 8:29 PM |
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Fender


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Maybe they don't see a future...You could be too far apart...Or have different things you want out of life...You can only know that by talking and getting to know each other good/well.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 8:50 PM |
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meanjolene

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Are you sure feelings started to "come out on" both people? Perhaps they were not the same feelings for both?
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 9:05 PM |
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signme

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And then again, maybe some of us are just looking for friends right now. I don't have time for a real relationship at the moment. Although if I met someone I really really liked, I'd try to make it work.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 9:34 PM |
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meanjolene

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I wish I knew my friend Tractor Dave wanted to be a "just friend". I would be more than happy to pal around with him....he's a great guy and we could do things together and have fun. But I gotta sneakin' suspicion that he'd like to be more and I can't be, so I put him off. Sad, that. He's lonesome too, and I could add to his life, but the "just friends" thing....no one wants to hear that.
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| Dec 4, 2008 @ 10:29 PM |
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1stsignofspring

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"Maybe it's the deer picture?"
You are definitely not a country girl, lol. That is an elk, and a fine looking one. In his profile Custis...lol
Thanks Silver for pointing that out.. ..I may not be a country girl but I know a deer when I see one....and in this case ....3 deer!
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| Dec 5, 2008 @ 3:06 AM |
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custis

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"Maybe it's the deer picture"
Well I guess it was only natural that I assumed she was talking about the picture on his postings in this thread. Sue me. Lol.
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| Dec 5, 2008 @ 6:33 AM |
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drs297

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nice guys don't finish last but crying whining ones do
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