| Dec 6, 2008 @ 10:03 AM |
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Benziel

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Ok heres my story, Im on high school and theres this girl im gonna ask on a date, and im pretty positive she likes me back. Ok I plan to ask her out on a date this monday, since someone is already trying to make a move on her, so I have to act first. Iplan to ask her out on a date monday, and the date will be friday. My plan is to ask her by (In an afternoon class were I sit next to her) taking her hand out ofthe blue and saying "Wow, did you know your soft hands are beutifull" And BAM! ask her out. But then well beseeing each other the rest of the week, and itll be kind of awkward since I dont know if to keep my distance (which would be stupid), be super close to her (like a boyfriend would) or to treat her normally as a friend.
Should I ask her out a little closer to friday and risk the chance my "opponent" (lol, how epic) makes a move on her? Or should I ask her out monday?
And should I say something different than "Your hands soft hands are beautifull"? (personally i think its a bit cheesy)
PS: What I plan to do in the date is to pick a romantic spot and since she told me she liked her hair being touched and gently touch her hair and say this "So does your hair like being touched? How about this?" And gently kiss her on the lips (with no tongue).
Hows that?
Hopefully my last question, next time ill post if it worked out or not!!
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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 3:47 PM |
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custis

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Do not use any pre-rehearsed lines. Just be yourself and tell her how you feel. Try something real and sincere like "You know, I've been thinking and I really like you and I would like to get to know you better. Would you like to go out on a date with me?" Something simple and truthful will work far better than any line you can dream up. She will sense your honesty and be flattered by it.
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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:17 PM |
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Angel178

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Sheesh.... JUST ASK HER OUT ALREADY!!!!
Sorry for yelling
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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:18 PM |
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KAOS2007

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How many freakin threads do we need on this?
Hi Angel
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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:19 PM |
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Angel178

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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:20 PM |
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KAOS2007

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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:26 PM |
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Angel178

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Sorry for yelling. I guess I forget what it's like to be young. But, cripes...just frickin ask her out
Kaos
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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:26 PM |
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KAOS2007

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Yell away Angel! He's 68 and still in high school!
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| Dec 6, 2008 @ 4:38 PM |
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robodad

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How many freakin threads do we need on this? I'm gonna wait until he asks this question again....
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 7:55 AM |
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SensualGemini

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Benziel: Hopefully my last question, next time ill post if it worked out or not!! ...Here is an idea... send her to these threads you have started and after she is finished reading them, she will tell you how to do it... or not.
...Personally, I think you write too well to be a boy in our public school system.
...Nevertheless, forget all the romantic nonsense and tell her that you are going someplace (and make certain it is a fun place) and then tell her that if she wants to have some fun, she is welcome to come along.
...It sure beats getting your ego destroyed if she says no to a date.
...Once you are one on one and away from the rest, make sure you are having fun, she is laughing and comfortable. Pick up a book on body language and then understand the 80/20 rule for kissing... you go 80% of the way and she comes the remaining 20%.
...That is enough to keep you out of trouble for now.
...If you don't start learning something about women, you will be on these sites 20 years from now and whining that women don't like nice guys.
PS: If you are lucky enough to go out with this girl, keep your mouth shut about anything that takes place and that includes your buddies, the locker room, etc. The reputation of too many girls is ruined by jocks that want to brag. If she says anything to her friends, do not endorse it and be the gentleman.
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 8:09 AM |
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Angel178

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Perfect advise
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 2:04 PM |
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custis

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"If you don't start learning something about women, you will be on these sites 20 years from now and whining that women don't like nice guys"
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 6:34 PM |
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beckyiv42000

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New Benziel 68-year-old Male Seeking Women: 99 - 99 , Puerto Rico Last Activity: 2 days ago
yet he says hes in high school??
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 7:15 PM |
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Jalon

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Hey...maybe he's a reaaaaaaaly slow learner.
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 11:07 PM |
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SensualGemini

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Angel:  Perfect advise ...I have four sons...
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Jalon: Hey...maybe he's a reaaaaaaaly slow learner. ...That was cute! ... lol
...Let's just hope that he is not at the end of a long, long line of slow learners.
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| Dec 8, 2008 @ 11:43 PM |
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signme

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SG!
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