| Dec 23, 2008 @ 1:06 AM |
The "hotter the girl, the harder is going to be to please or date her?"
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MadameX
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I don't like using the word "hot" to describe a very attractive person but it was the only thing that comes to mind when I think about a girl who looks so attractive that you can tell that shes either single, and been single for a very long time or shes probably with someone but if she is, there is a 95% chance that guy has it all or else she wouldn't be with him. Most attractive females bring themselves up to be picky, overly judgmental of most if not all guys and almost every last one of them will target the same type of guys over and over again date after date out of fear of trying to settle for someone different. I don't want to be stereotypical or cause chaos with my posting, I'll try to avoid that as much as possible. But with me? I doubt that lol.
Anyway I've debated this topic for ages with several people both lesbians and guys too. Most lesbian girls tell me the same stories that guys often tell me when it comes down to very attractive looking women/girls. They know they've got the looks, they know people will always stare at them, and they know that regardless of how arrogant or full of themselves they really are. No one has the balls or guts to judge them for their stuck up personalities, so people tend to go with it, just accept them anyway. Good looking guys can't get away with that stuff like a good looking female simply because girls aren't afraid to tell a guy "your full of yourself, and etc, etc". But men won't do that to a girl who is full of herself, they'll just take her as she is. Maybe because he's getting something from her? Whatever the reason he won't blow the relation with her unless he gets bored.
I know for a fact I wouldn't be afraid to tell a girl "your full of sh*t you dumb barbie doll". I've done it before, thats why I'm likable in my classes in school because we don't have attractive people in there in terms of "good looks that turn heads" lol except for me of course and thats only because of the way I dress. The people in mot of my classes are just ordinary looking students, they like to have fun, they're not afraid of being young like the typical cute boy next door or girly girl who chooses the "maturity path" because they're afraid of what everyone else thinks of them if they slip up.
When it comes down to the looks, I can't think of a single attractive female who was ever told off because of how she was. Unless that person was me. Whenever I see a guy with a woman who looks way to good to be in his arms. I just know there is no way that guy is broke, takes public transportation,he most likely spoils her rotten even if she doesn't want to be, perhaps he does everything she tells him to do since most guys with long hair I have met will often tell me "my girl made me cut it" and I will be quick to judge him by saying "and your a foolish moron, now try to change something about her and I bet she leaves your dumbass!"
Or there is something else that involves more on what he has than what he is doing in order to keep her around.
I've also known that the more attractive the person is the more they seem to demand or expect from people. Being stuck up is easy for them, because they have the power to get away with it like I have said before. If more people were to tell them off and show them how ugly their personalities were, they might change their ways or maybe not. Its like how my hair is really long, most black women love that on a black guy (I'm also Native American too) so they walk up and touch my hair all the time, telling me how "pretty or cute it is". Just random women I don't even know.
And when they touch me I don't get mad with them at all, nor do I try to act like I'm the sh*t just because I'm getting more attention then all the other guys who don't have random girls walking up to play in their hair. I either smile, or think "wow, how come other women don't seem to like that about me?" And I often do get allot of compliments but I am never full of myself, and I don't make it hard for shy girls to talk to me either. I know I look good, but I'm still easily approachable. My appearance freak most people out so they sort of stay clear of me.
But the day I meet a girl who is very attractive and not hard to talk to, different from all the other girls who look nice in terms of looks. Thats when I'll shoot myself in the foot with a 12 gauge shot gun and post the wound on the internet for all to see.
This doesn't seem to be much of the case with too many foreign women if you live in their country. I've met really cute foreign girls that weren't hard to make smile or like me at all. I knew one who would sit next to me all the time even when I wore the same damn outfit the whole entire semester and each time she saw me, she would compliment me on something different about me that she noticed. And yes I did wash that outfit allot lol so dont go asking dirty questions about it.
When it comes to the United States Its those damn American attractive ones and Latino ones that think they're above and beyond the world. I don't get them or their reason for being that way. If I was a female I would notice my attitude and I'd hate myself for it. Just like I use to be mean and nasty all the time, I'm a guy so I noticed that and I was in a hurry to make changes because I was actually killing my relationship with my instructors and you don't want them having bad reports about you when you list them down as references 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 2:22 AM |
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blueyes101
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It depends on the character of the woman.
If you find a self centered spoiled woman, yes, it may be difficult to compete.
If you find someone who really likes you, for being you, and as long as you are not grotesque, things can move along smoothly.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 10:15 AM |
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eyesofastranger
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The Northern Pikes put it into very few words: She's not pretty she just looks that way.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 10:38 AM |
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scorpiogirl36
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Sounds like a lot of sterotyping to me 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 10:58 AM |
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Loreli
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I'm with Scorp....
what, an attractive female isn't attracted to you, so you think you were put here to "tell them what for and how come?"
How egotistical of YOU. 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 11:10 AM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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well, this is bullshit.....
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 12:22 PM |
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blueyes101
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I didn't read the whole thing, anytime a new poster writes more than a paragraph, I know somethings up.
But, I felt the topic itself has some merit.
Hot girls are quite popular, and for a reason. So, to compete with all the attention she is used to getting, it can and usually will be more difficult.
Some are as pretty inside as the outside, but certainly not all of them.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 12:45 PM |
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robodad
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And when they touch me I don't get mad with them at all Yeah....right...I heard enough 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 12:51 PM |
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blueyes101
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Women test men CONSTANTLY.
And ATTRACTIVE women test men MUCH MORE
INTENSELY than "regular" women.
Maybe this has to do with experience. If you have dated 100's and 100's of times, you will approach the new date differently, than someone who has not dated as much.
I still wonder if women realize how hard it is to be the one who is always the aggressor, I mean anyone can sit back and say " yes " or " no ".
Saying no can be difficult, but having it said to your face, is a bit different. Especially when the only real way to forget about it is to ask someone else.
And usually we start with our first choice, so the more rejection, the worse it can get... 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 1:02 PM |
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robodad
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Why would a guy call himself :Madam"?
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 1:10 PM |
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blueyes101
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I wondered that myself. 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 1:21 PM |
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robodad
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Whenever I see a guy with a woman who looks way to good to be in his arms. I just know there is no way that guy is broke Makes cents to me 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 2:14 PM |
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willowy1
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what a broad brush you paint with, Madame. 
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 3:15 PM |
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Brass_Wolf
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I tend to watch Hot women from afar. A 10x40X zoom spotting telescope, with night vision capablilities works well.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 3:33 PM |
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Merchitown
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I've got no words....
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 3:46 PM |
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custis
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I can only go by my own personal experience and I doubt they are all alike. But in my own experience, the better looking she is, the more crap I have had to put up with from her. I have sent a number of spoiled, self-centered "hotties" packing over the years and consequently I have become rather suspicious of the super good looking types. Interestingly enough, the plain janes are usually a whole lot more enthusiastic and passionate in bed. I am sure the "hotties" are not all like this, but that is what my experience has been. I am reminded of a pass-it-on picture that used to appear in my email. A gorgeous supermodel in a bathing suit. Below the pic the caption read "No matter how good she looks, someone somewhere has had about enough of her shit."
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 3:55 PM |
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blueyes101
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I've seen that email, and I think you are correct.
I hear women say we all want super models. I know for a fact I would have NO patience with a woman who was obsessed with her looks, and just looked at food instead of enjoyed it.
I'm still looking for the girl next door. But there isn't one.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 4:20 PM |
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BeachCrete
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I can only go by my own personal experience and I doubt they are all alike. But in my own experience, the better looking she is, the more crap I have had to put up with from her. I have sent a number of spoiled, self-centered "hotties" packing over the years ...  ......Custis...I find that to be a statement that I can relate to  ........Now this is just MY opinion...but I definately have found out that the prettier....the more work it's going to be  
Oh ....and more drama too!  
[Edited on 12/23/2008 4:28 PM]
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:31 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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I think to a point I would have to agree. I am going to meet a friend and we are going hiking, digging for sharks teeth and the butterfly sanctuary. I tend to "dress for mess" as a way of life. Some women wouldn't think of rolling up their jeans, wearing their lawn mowing shoes to stand in cold water and dig around in mud looking for a treasure.
For one, with fancy nails, expensive clothes and lots of jewelry, more than likely that kind of thing wouldn't be considered fun to her. Packaging can tell you a great deal about a person. Don't we all dress in the way we are most comfortable? What makes "us" feel good?
On the other hand, many men would find me a pain in the ass. Some peole are totally put of by the whole "everything is an adventure".
But it works, different folks for different folks. We all can find what we need if we look hard enough!
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:52 PM |
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blueyes101
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I know at some point I put in my profile... I want a woman who likes to wear heals, but not to the boat.
And BTW----------- Life is an adventure, and fun is what you make out of any situation.
And also BTW------- You can still be hot in green shoes, and dirty nails... 
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