| Dec 23, 2008 @ 12:46 PM |
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blueyes101
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MOST men, and I'm talking about 95% of them,
have NO IDEA how or why women feel that
amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some
men.
And if they DO have an idea, it's usually
DEAD WRONG.
All most guys know is that women don't feel
ATTRACTION for THEM.
I know we have probably covered this in one way or another....
If so, lets review.
What causes that......... spark ..........that makes someone stand out in your mind, and can open your heart ?
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 1:50 PM |
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Brass_Wolf
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If they bring snacks with them when they come over to my place to watch sports.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 3:55 PM |
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custis
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She needs to show up in a trenchcoat with nothing on under it except a pink, lacey teddie and high heels. A sixpack in one hand, a pizza balanced on her head and the dvd of Texas Chainsaw Massacre in the other hand.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 4:02 PM |
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Brass_Wolf
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Custus, dude. . . you just had to one up me, didn't ya? lol
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 4:05 PM |
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Winnie4010
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<<< Takes Red to see Brass...she's dressed as a Hostess Cupcake   
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 4:06 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Well, I think Blue was wondering why a WOMAN would be attracted to one man and not another...and of course it will be different for each woman, but the bottom line is always going to be that old black magic called...chemistry. I think part of it is exactly that too - pheromones give off a scent that will repel some and attract others.
In addition to that, you're going to find a ton of different factors - one will be turned off by a beer belly, another couldn't care less about that but will be turned off by a voice that's not in the range she 'needs.' Long hair's a turnon for some, while it's a turnoff for others, ditto facial hair or tattoos...
And those are just a couple of first impression things...before you even get to the really important stuff...but actually it's all important, those are just the prerequisites before you can move on.
Hey, turning up on her doorstep with flowers never hurts either...
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 4:14 PM |
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blueyes101
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Thanks Heaven.....
I'm really wondering, if you were standing in line, and there were 4 guys in front of you. What would make one guy stand out. looks are one thing, but what happens when they open their mouth ?
I'm sure a shy guy would not, but what would.
Politeness, laughter, cockiness. What is the first impression that causes attraction ?
What could a guy say that would make you want to continue a conversation ?
And I really don't care if folks have fun with this, but I'm also hoping to get some insight here as well.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:21 PM |
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custis
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"Custus, dude. . . you just had to one up me, didn't ya? lol"
Sorry, it's a jungle out there Jane.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:22 PM |
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custis
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I guess when it comes right down to it, if a woman has too many finicky issues, I just move on to another one.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:25 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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"That" smile. Hands down, it is that for me. When you ard talking to a man and their whole face lights up when he smiles. It makes my belly flip over.
That and a man who has the ability to be polite, kind, social within a group of people, but when they bend down to talk to you...their voices drop just a little lower, rougher...I don't quite know how to say it, but that is definatly a tummy twirler too.
Whoooo
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:31 PM |
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custis
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Well, I know that if you were looking at me with that smile my tummy would definitely flip a time or two.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:38 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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For me, it's 'those eyes'...and smile, but it's his voice that totally turns me into melted marshmallow if it's 'that voice'...and I can't even describe it, not too high and not too deep, soft and warm and laughing and makes me feel like I've just been cuddled...
But it's gonna be different for everybody, and a good thing too...! It'd be really hellish if we were all competing for the same gjuy
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 5:41 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Have you ever had a man read you to sleep? I'm not talking about a family member here, but a grown man?
Yeah....good juju baby.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 8:24 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
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I think attraction is the same for men as women. Either sex could pass by a 1000 faces and only one will give you that strange little feeling in your belly...maybe it's their eyes, the way they smile, maybe it's the color of their hair, their scent....or their cute nose. I'm sure attraction for each of us is different. For me, it's more about respect and kindness, the guy that likes to open my door, seats me at the dinner table, comes from a good family which he loves, and will pull out a tissue when I cry at a sappy movie.
Yeah!...Santa wrap him up and put him under my tree please... because I'm beginning to think that's the only way I'm going to get him. Color bow unimportant! 
Edited to keep LJ happy
[Edited on 12/23/2008 9:39 PM]
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 8:28 PM |
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custis
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Never knew a woman who wanted me to read to her.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 8:40 PM |
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Loreli
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Politeness, laughter, cockiness. What is the first impression that causes attraction ?
quiet laughter, not belt it out loud type.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 8:41 PM |
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Merchitown
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I love it.... 
What is it....I'm not even sure "chemistry" really defines it. Unfortunately, I'm not doing any better...Blue I'm gonna have to back to you.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 8:50 PM |
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signme
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It's a lot of things combined, sound of voice, eye contact, whether you have to look up, down or directly at him! I also like workworn hands. Like Scorp said, kindness and respect are something I look for too. It's really hard to pin it down to just one thing.
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 8:51 PM |
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Laidback742
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JMO .... it isn't always what the other person does to create a spark or interest or attraction .... I think that your own mood, mindset, outlook at any given time can affect what you notice and what you don't ..... and even then, the little things that usually get to you may not have the same result on you as usual ....
But .... no matter what, I'm always a sucker for a pair of gorgeous eyes .... that will always get my attention, no matter what else is going on in my head ....
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| Dec 23, 2008 @ 10:42 PM |
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blueyes101
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Maybe what I'm talking about is .........as a man, if I approach a woman who I have just noticed, I must walk up an say something, or whatever I do, I must do it some way to spark an interest.
Chemistry or attraction, whatever you call it, must happen within moments, And this is very different from being introduced. Where you have a chance to spark a conversation.
How many strangers are we running into every day, and unable to just say hello, without looking and feeling like we are trying to pick them up ?
I'm just thinking to myself, if we were all better at this ( or hell, just me ) , we would have the opportunity to meet more people. And the more people you meet, the better the chance of meeting someone farther away than your keyboard.
I know it when I feel it , but finding it in our every day life seems be what is holding me/us back.
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