| Jan 4 @ 10:11 AM |
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Peachie23
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Hey everyone,
This is alittle embarrassing and I need alittle advice. Im 27 yrs old and I never really have been in a relationship before. I have low self esteem I guess you can say and I dont think any guy could like me. I had men friends and thats it. Im kinda shy and it takes me awhile to open up to any guy I may like. I met a guy who I like online we hungout a couple times already and I enjoy his company. He is about 5 yrs older than me. He likes me. He does notice how shy I am but I cant help it. Im getting better though since we seen eachother a couple times already. The embarassing thing is that I never kissed a guy before. Im alittle nervous cause he has told me he wants to kiss me but I just give him a hug and thats it. Im unsure what to do. Do I tell him this is all new to me? Its just so embarassing. Or do I just let him kiss me and maybe he wont notice I've never done this? I do like him and I dont want to ruin anything. He doesnt get why I am single but I am just a shy girl who needs help breaking down this wall I have around me I guess. Thanks for all your help :)
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| Jan 4 @ 10:23 AM |
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Loreli
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If you WANT to kiss him, just go with it.
Maybe you'll be just fine.
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| Jan 4 @ 12:23 PM |
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robodad
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The embarassing thing is that I never kissed a guy before. 27 and never been kissed?
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| Jan 11 @ 9:04 PM |
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brinkmann
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Kiss him. It will be about the most fun you will have ever had, like your first roller coaster ride! Try not to slobber all over him and go slow. That's the best ; )
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| Jan 11 @ 9:09 PM |
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lj450
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Practice on his penis.
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| Jan 11 @ 9:23 PM |
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redhairNfreckles
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| Jan 11 @ 9:24 PM |
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uab_5
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| Jan 11 @ 11:36 PM |
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custis
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Come see me and I will give you some practice.
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| Jan 13 @ 9:18 PM |
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Loreli
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Well-what happened? 
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| Jan 14 @ 7:01 PM |
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Peachie23
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It wasnt so bad.. He just kinda went for it. lol
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| Jan 14 @ 8:26 PM |
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uab_5
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| Jan 18 @ 8:22 PM |
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TallCurvyHoney
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Hey girlfriend,
Just go with the flow and let him kiss you. When the moment comes, it'll be nice & spontaneous... Don't worry about him knowing or not knowing anything. Just enjoy spending time with him. It'll start feeling very natural once you just let yourself go and stop dwelling on things that make you feel insecure.
TCH
P.S. Don't be embarrassed by inexperience. I have a good friend who's in her mid-forties and she's a virgin. Her fiancee' knows this & LOVES it!
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| Jan 27 @ 12:09 PM |
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Loreli
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I'm glad it worked out for you
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| Feb 3 @ 1:34 PM |
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laurapencils
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I'm glad it worked out for you too, but here's a little post-kiss advice for future reference: (1) never do anything you aren't comfortable doing, whether it be kissing or going further; trust your instincts on this, if it's a guy you feel comfortable with you will know what to do and won't have to force anything or feel awkward or that you have to apologize for not wanting to kiss or whatever; (2) be careful with what you tell a guy who doesn't know you that well, as he may take advantage of your inexperience and manipulate you. It's nobody's business but your own as to what you've done in relationships (unless it involves that you have STDs) until you feel comfortable enough to disclose that to him. Information is power and you don't want to give up too much about yourself without having enough trust to do so.
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| Feb 4 @ 5:30 AM |
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thor22
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peachie, just consume lots of booze on every date and that will help you to lose your shyness 
(hey, I think I'm better at this advise business than fender is even!) 
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| Feb 4 @ 9:35 PM |
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Always_Striving
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..........Im 27 yrs old and I never really have been in a relationship before. I have low self esteem I guess you can say and I dont think any guy could like me.........The embarassing thing is that I never kissed a guy before. Im alittle nervous cause he has told me he wants to kiss me but I just give him a hug and thats it. Im unsure what to do.
Become a nun or hang yourself. 
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| Feb 5 @ 11:15 PM |
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Mischief484
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Let him take you to the movies. When it gets to the good part, put your hand on his goods.
At dinner, look him dead in the eye, lower your chin a little, and smile that smile you've been practicing in the mirror since age 15.
It's those subtle little signs that drive men mad.
If you don't believe me, go get the March issue of Cosmo.
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| Feb 5 @ 11:21 PM |
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wiccked
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you read Cosmo?????? 
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| Feb 6 @ 6:31 AM |
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rough
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A girl that is a little bit shy initially and isn't right in your face comes across as very sexy, endearing, attractive and desirable....
rough 
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