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jadelil25
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Please help. Im so confused and worried that i have messed up. I have been on four dates with a great guy and it seemed to be going great. He said that he likes me, cares about me, cant stop thinking about me, cares about me and it does not matter what he does as long as it is with me. I spent saturday day time and the whole night with him. We did not do anything apart from kiss and cuddle. I then txt him yesterday afternoon and it seems to have gone wrong from there.
He said that he is not feeling so good at the moment and that he is struggling with the fact that he is no longer single. He said that it's not my fault, he really does care about me and that i have made him happy. He said that he does not want to let me down. I replied saying that im sorry and we can take things slower, he replied saying it's not my fault, i have made him happy and he will talk to me after work tomorrow ( today) He has never been in a relationship before and im scared that i have pushed him away.
I fear that i have been stupid by already sending him a message today saying that i am sorry for making him feel uncomftable and asking if he would be happier by taking things back a step. I also let him know that i like him, care about him, want him to be happy and be apart of that. Am i wrong for doing this?
What does he want? Does he like me? What should i do?
I really like him and want this to work.
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| Jan 5 @ 12:34 PM |
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painter007
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In my opinion......I would back off and let him be.........if he digs you he will get a hold of you.....Dont text or call.......jmo
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| Jan 5 @ 12:37 PM |
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Loreli
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I agree with Painter.
If he likes you-he'll be back.
I have a feeling there's more to the story...
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| Jan 5 @ 12:37 PM |
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painter007
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| Jan 5 @ 12:41 PM |
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blackdragon61
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More to the story. His girl friend found out about you. 
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| Jan 5 @ 12:43 PM |
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thor22
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sorry, but I do not agree with painter and what you really need to do is pop his cherry...if he has never been in a relationship before chances are he is still a virgin and is unsure and nervous about how to go about things...so dress as sexy and provacitive as you can (I suggest a short skirt/dress and nylons!), and then take him out, get him a little bit tipsy with some booze, and then screw him...you should also get on your knees a couple of times and go down on him and give him some mind blowing oral...show him exactly what he is missing out on and he will come around, jhey!
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| Jan 5 @ 1:00 PM |
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painter007
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Thor..........you goof......but a very good idea 
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| Jan 5 @ 2:17 PM |
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thor22
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it works for me painter! 
(hubba hubba!) 
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| Jan 5 @ 2:37 PM |
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custis
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Wait and see what he has to say tomorrow, or is that now today? If he is still not wanting to move on with things, just let him be and go on about your life.
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| Jan 5 @ 6:18 PM |
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blueyes101
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Trying to get someone to " feel " the way you do, is like pushing rope.
If the two of you don't walk forward side by side. There is nothing you can do but let it go.
Once again.Painter is right....  She's so smart.
But, Thor's got a hell of an idea too..... 
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| Jan 5 @ 6:29 PM |
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painter007
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| Jan 5 @ 6:33 PM |
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willowy1
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What do you want with this coward anyway? You need a man. A man tells ya how it is. A man doesn't beat around the bush.
If on an off chance you end up with this gutless wonder, you are just setting a precedent for the relationship. He will always have the upper hand.  never let "them" know they have the upper hand! Big mistake...huge!
Your feeling matter !
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| Jan 5 @ 6:37 PM |
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Winnie4010
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 Wills 
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| Jan 5 @ 6:42 PM |
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thor22
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I wanna lover with a slow hand...the pointer sista's 
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| Jan 5 @ 6:45 PM |
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painter007
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Great song........................
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| Jan 5 @ 6:53 PM |
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willowy1
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said the man who's lover is his hand
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| Jan 5 @ 6:54 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Two points for Willowy! 
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| Jan 5 @ 6:56 PM |
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twotall911
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buy that lady a drink 
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| Jan 5 @ 6:56 PM |
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thor22
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Rosie Lefthand! 
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| Jan 5 @ 6:58 PM |
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Winnie4010
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Do you put your choppers in your left hand too?? 
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