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BeachCrete
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What are some of the things that your SO does/did that really bug you or bother you?
I will start out by saying complaining....I mean not everthing is gonna be hunky dorry all the time so why constantly complain about it? 
I also disliked when sex was used as a bargaining chip.."If you don't do this I am cutting you off for a while".   
I am not referring to my current SO 
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| Jan 8 @ 5:25 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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He gets really defensive whenever I confront him about something and blows it all out of proportion. Just like my dad. Hmm.
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| Jan 8 @ 6:14 PM |
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misschoos
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What's an 'SO?' 
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| Jan 8 @ 6:16 PM |
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uab_5
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significant other
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| Jan 8 @ 6:34 PM |
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BeachCrete
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No responses huh?
Everyone but me must have had completely annoying-free relationships 
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| Jan 8 @ 6:37 PM |
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Merchitown
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The same jokes...over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and....oh y'all got the point?
When no one else was around, I was his audience, unfortunately, he forgot to try out new material.
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| Jan 8 @ 6:42 PM |
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BandTMom
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Why focus on the negative?
I prefer to focus on the positive parts of a relationship and the "annoying" things become minimal.
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| Jan 8 @ 6:46 PM |
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Loreli
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I agree...
and for each annoying thing I would have to think hard about-there's one I did.
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| Jan 8 @ 6:51 PM |
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blueyes101
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I prefer to focus on the positive parts of a relationship and the "annoying" things become minimal.
You should have dated her.........  J/k
But I have had one or two that the negitive list was bigger than the positive.. 
So I tend to forget them all together...... And remember the good ones. 
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| Jan 8 @ 6:53 PM |
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Merchitown
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Nah....I'm fabulous and I NEVER left the cap off of the toothpaste.  
There's a reason why the bad outweighed the good in any relationship. That's why it ended. I think the point of the thread was not to criticize our ex's, but to compare combat scars.
My ex is a wonderful man. A very gentle man, but I will not say that he's a perfect man. Neither am I a perfect woman. For every fault he has, so do I. At least, that's how we were together then, that's why we're not together now. He's moved on, so have I. Although, it's still funny to snicker at the stuff he used to pull on me, and how I would reciprocate...or vice versa! And nope, I also never would elbow him in the middle of a movie and say "Who is that? I KNOW I've seen her before..." And then proceed to argue exactly where I saw her. Nope...that wasn't me.
[Edited on 1/8/2009 7:22 PM]
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| Jan 8 @ 7:04 PM |
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BeachCrete
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I think the point of the thread was not to criticize our ex's, but to compare combat scars. .....Yes it was.... ....I wasn't trying to focus on being negative just wanted to hear some of what annoys others about their SO!
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| Jan 8 @ 7:09 PM |
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adrian555
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The same jokes...over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and....oh y'all got the point?
When no one else was around, I was his audience, unfortunately, he forgot to try out new material.
Ouch! Slapped & slapped down hard, lol.
Hang on she was talking about her ex not you beachcrete.
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| Jan 8 @ 7:12 PM |
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BeachCrete
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^^^^^Yep!!! You are gonna fit right in here at this place
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| Jan 8 @ 7:15 PM |
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BandTMom
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I wasn't trying to focus on being negative just wanted to hear some of what annoys others about their SO!
But, when you think about these things and type them out, it brings the negative forward. And many people here are unable to move forward from these negative things.
I prefer to think about the good things he does (did) rather than the little habits that might be annoying.
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| Jan 8 @ 7:16 PM |
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adrian555
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Well I ain't going back into rock bottom till its safe.
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| Jan 8 @ 7:18 PM |
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BeachCrete
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But, when you think about these things and type them out, it brings the negative forward. And many people here are unable to move forward from these negative things. ....Mom...did you run out of negative things to say in the religion thread?....jus sayin'
Then I respectfully offer you not to post in this thread if it offends you 
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| Jan 8 @ 7:21 PM |
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BandTMom
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I'm not saying anything negative. I see so many people here that are so focused on their past that they are destroying their future.
It's always best to et go of the hurt we've had in the past. It makes today a much better day.
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| Jan 8 @ 7:24 PM |
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BeachCrete
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Yes ma'm....you win
Did I happen to mention that I disliked complaining? 
[Edited on 1/8/2009 7:26 PM]
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| Jan 8 @ 7:24 PM |
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uab_5
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My fiancee smokes and burps like a drunken sailor.
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| Jan 8 @ 7:25 PM |
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willowy1
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this thread does not offend me but beach I find you very annoying.
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