| Jan 18 @ 12:31 AM |
So, is a woman " expense" or is she "investment"?
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capitalview
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"Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.
If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.
If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.
So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit."
Sounds like darn GREAT investment , doesn't it? 
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| Jan 18 @ 2:00 AM |
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signme
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Well it all seems right to me except the groceries and meal one. I don't cook so hope the guy can! 
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| Jan 18 @ 2:13 AM |
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blueyes101
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So, is a woman " expense" or is she "investment"?
Yes. 
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| Jan 18 @ 2:58 AM |
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theshygirl
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Personally....I dont think a person should be judged as either. A person isnt an object...a thing to buy or spend money on or earn. I certainly dont look at a man as a job or a hobby....why must men refer to us women as investments or expenses? I'm not going to judge a man on whether he can buy me a card or buy me a diamond bracelet on my birthday. Yes...I know there are "high maintenance" both men and women out there who expect the one they are with to buy them fancy things or spend lots of money on them...but the average person looking for love is not that. I'd rather spend an eternity happy and loved and living in a shack then spend a minute unwanted, unloved and living in a mansion. And you comment as to giving a woman a load of crap.....well can you tell me why its ok for the man to dish it out and the woman should take it...but when the rolls are reversed....the man shouldnt have to stand for it one minute? bit of a double standard? 
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| Jan 18 @ 5:21 AM |
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custis
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She is neither. She is who she is.
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| Jan 18 @ 7:25 AM |
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jamminjerry
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i took a moment to ponder the question and came to the initial conclusion that this is a great question to consider with each new relationship. is he/she an expense or an investment? most of us will be optimistic and say investment. i am sure i will say investment. i think this is basically how i have approached relationships in the past and therefore those past relationships were not worth investing in. when the cost of the relationship far outweighs the return it is time to ease on down the road. one somewhat insignificant question i have been asking lately is "are you afraid of the water in a canoe?" of the last 1/2 dozen of so each one of them have immediately said YES!!! and so, i ease on down the road. i present simple scenerios so as to get a fair answer to whether or not this new mate is compatible. if you have a favorite pasttime, present it as soon as you can in a new relationship. of course such actions eliminate a lot of potentials in the lifemate game but the heart doesn't take such a beating as when you find out that he/she is an alcoholic or a big spender! find out if they are compatible before you hand them your heart. that is one of the greatests benefits of the internet match game. to be able to expose those red flags hidden behind that great smile is what has kept me from hooking up. we be jammin 
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| Jan 18 @ 7:36 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Looks like Custis got the answer right.
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| Jan 18 @ 8:08 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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She's a human being.
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| Jan 18 @ 9:01 AM |
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Dukums
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It depends on whether or not you are looking for a get rich quick scheme or a retirement plan! 
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| Jan 18 @ 9:32 AM |
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Loreli
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She's a partner in the relationship-same as the man (or another woman)
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| Jan 18 @ 9:41 AM |
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Skydognc
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and if you give her a divorce ????????
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| Jan 18 @ 10:40 AM |
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robodad
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I'll wait for newlife's answer
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| Jan 18 @ 11:09 AM |
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Loreli
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| Jan 18 @ 11:23 AM |
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newlife2006
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Normally I wouldn't dignify such kind of thread with my posts ( besides, I don't believe I'll ever consider neither "spending" nor "investing" in women ...  ) , but just for Robodad I'll break my rules just once. And my answer is : ARE YOU OK, CAP? WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT? If you are experimenting with "macho image" , it's obvious that in your case it's not becoming, you are way too smart to not to know better . I'll wait till you are back to your sweet self to resume taking you seriously enough to debate with. 
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| Jan 18 @ 11:28 AM |
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Loreli
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(I thought it was rather silly myself)
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| Jan 18 @ 11:33 AM |
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Snappygoddess
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Normally I wouldn't dignify such kind of thread with my posts
Why should this post be any different from any of Capitals other "such kind of thread" that you "dignify" with a comment? 
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| Jan 18 @ 12:47 PM |
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jamminjerry
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OR MINE!!! as for myself, i see this question from both sides of the door. is a man an expense or an investment? perhaps this thread presents the greatest barrier to overcome from both sides of this game. women feel that men do not put enuff emotions in the game and men feel that a woman does not put enuff logic into this game. it seems to be a simple question to me. in my case only i have found that women are usually and initially an investment and become an expense over time. i have yet to find a match. the possibility of finding a true match gets further away as i get older. my venting allows the point to be discussed as to what (not who) would be a a match for me. the men would have no problem with figuring out "what" would be the best match for me. they would of course look at my profile and use logic! LOL as for the women they are still hung up on "who", kinda like eharmony. eharmony tried their hardest to tell me who my match was and they got it wrong every single time. i should know because i have decided "what" my match is. a short fluffy blond is not my match!!! i tried that and now i want to try someone else. a BS in sociology and a minor in religion? tried that, it didn't work. drama queen? it is thick and heavy here and i figure elsewhere too. as for me it is almost impossible to find a true match. and so, like the rest of you i have to pick thru the chaff and straw with the perpetual hope that just maybe i will get pricked!!! LOL we be jammin
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| Jan 18 @ 12:53 PM |
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Loreli
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With women being highly involved in the workplace, I have to disagree with a woman does not put enuff logic into this game. Sorry.
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| Jan 18 @ 6:25 PM |
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Skydognc
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invokes dog wisdom...........
" A woman is an expensive investment!"
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| Jan 18 @ 6:27 PM |
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willowy1
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I am damn good at giving crap!  can I get a witness?
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